The haunted cave room ended quickly, because everyone was very restrained, therefore, on the haunted hole room, although Zhao Chaogang received some difficulties, but there was no unpleasant thing, and the haunted hole room ended successfully.

After the hole was over, some of the guests were ready to go back, of course, those relatives who were very close, or some of the best friends who were very good with Pingping and Jingjing, did not go back immediately, such a good visit, an opportunity to visit the martial arts secret realm, how could these people miss it, if it wasn't for a visit, it took a lot of time to visit the martial arts secret realm, Shi Zhengming and Zheng Qiushi would stay to visit the martial arts secret realm.

Whether you want to go back now, or you are going to stay and visit, visit the secret realm of martial arts, Zhao Chaogang, Li Liping, Liu Jingjing, they all have to prepare a wedding gift.

Wedding return gift is a custom of folk marriage, which means that in the next few months after the wedding, go to the house of relatives and friends who attend your wedding, and give a little thing as a gift.

The wedding gift is a special gift given by the couple to thank the guests, and usually the thank you gift does not include candy. Relatives and friends who came to congratulate the guests and those who were unable to attend were the recipients of wedding gifts. The newcomers use this way to express their gratitude, which is also a kind of expression of gratitude.

Wedding return gift is a custom of folk marriage, which means that in the months after the wedding, go to the relatives and friends who attend the wedding to visit and give a little thing as a gift.

Now. Now these etiquettes don't have to be so troublesome. On the day of the wedding, friends and relatives present will receive a small gift that is ready. For example, a thank you card with a wedding photo, or a badge, the easiest way is to send candy.

In foreign countries, people often mail Thankyoucard to guests after marriage, some of which have very unique designs, which can also leave a deep impression on people, so that everyone can share the joy of your marriage.

The origin of the wedding gift: The origin of the wedding gift is varied, and one of the more reasonable explanations is that the return gift is a marriage custom that has existed among the people for a long time. A few months after the wedding, relatives and friends attending the wedding will need to pay a visit to the host's home, and the host family will need to buy something or make homemade desserts and cakes to give to relatives and friends to thank them for their visit. This intention is called "return gift".

Wedding return gift object: 1. From the total number of invitations sent, or the number of wedding banquet tables, a rough estimate, purchase a return gift.

2. When writing invitations. The guest's name will be included in the return list at the same time.

3. On the day of the wedding. You can ask your family to help you count the number of guests present at the wedding banquet and prepare the gifts for distribution.

4. Carefully recall the relatives and friends who cannot attend the wedding from afar, in order to avoid omissions, the newlyweds can use the elimination method to start from the distant relatives, and then count good friends and classmates. Once you've sorted it out, write your name into the return list.

5. On the wedding day, you can prepare 10 to 15 more portions within your budget. Avoid residual leakage.

Choose a gift: Depending on the region, the return gift will be different. For loved ones. You can eat together in your spare time, consider the age and preferences of the other person when giving gifts, and choose tableware for gifts for your elders.

Wedding return gift preparation: First of all, you need to determine the amount of return gift. 1. Estimate the number of guests: estimate the number of guests from the total number of invitations, check and fill in the gaps, and then buy gifts, on the wedding day, you can ask your family to help calculate the number of guests present, and then prepare the gifts to be distributed.

2. Make a return gift list: When writing an invitation, write the name of the guest into the return list at the same time, carefully recall the relatives and friends who can not attend the wedding from afar, in order to avoid omissions, the newlyweds can use the elimination method, starting from distant relatives, and then counting good friends and classmates. Once you've sorted it out, write your name into the return list, and prepare 20 more copies on your wedding day within your budget, just in case you don't miss enough!

Then choose how and when you want to give it away:

1. The newlyweds who have purchased gifts can choose to give them to the guests on the wedding day, and the newlyweds who do not have time to prepare the return gift during the wedding preparation period can give them to the guests within 1 month after the wedding.

2. If you choose to give it on the day, you can put the return gift on the wedding table, or you can send it to the guests in person when you toast. The couple who chooses to return the gift after the wedding can choose different delivery methods according to the home address of relatives and friends. Go in person or by courier.

How to give a wedding gift: The newlyweds who have purchased the gift can choose to give it to the guests on the wedding day, and the newlyweds who do not have time to prepare the return gift during the wedding preparation period can give it to the guests within 1 month after the wedding.

If you choose to give a wedding gift on the same day, you can put the wedding gift on the wedding table, or you can send it to the guests in person when you toast, which is suitable for couples who are not afraid of drinking.

The couple who chooses to return the gift after the wedding can choose different delivery methods according to the home address of relatives and friends, either in person or by courier. If by post, it's a good idea to include a thank you letter in your package.

Wedding gift purchase: There are usually two ways to buy a wedding gift: one is a unified purchase, where all guests give the same gift. Although this method is more labor-saving, it always feels a bit perfunctory.

The second method is to give different gifts to guests according to their importance or age group. If you choose the first method to give the same gift, it is generally recommended to buy a gift with a unit price of 20-50 yuan. If you choose the second "targeted" method of gifting, you can choose a wedding gift at a different price according to the importance of the guest.

The purchase of wedding gifts can be divided into two periods: one is one month before the wedding, when other wedding preparations are all done, you can start to buy one after another. The other is to buy a thank-you gift about one month after the wedding and distribute it to the guests.

Of course, the most important point is the taboo of the wedding gift, which is the most important place to be an idea, otherwise, there will be a big problem, and once something goes wrong. Marriage is not festive, and the omen is not good.

There are contraindications in the wedding gift, and the choice of wedding gift should be considered as a whole. If there are no friends of other nationalities to participate, are there any special taboos for them? Also, don't choose a return gift that is not thoughtful, it is too rude.

1. Fragile goods are not conducive to the transportation of purchases, and it is not convenient for guests to take them away, and they are even more unlucky.

2. Gifts with a short shelf life are easy to expire and deteriorate, so don't waste the effort and time you spend on carefully selecting the return gift.

3. The return gift time should not be too late. Otherwise, there will be a feeling of not being valued for others.

Wedding gifts are not only for us Chinese with a long history, but also in the Western world. Wedding gifts also have a long history.

In the Western tradition, there is a deep tradition of wedding gifts. In ancient times, couples would prepare some snacks such as cookies before the wedding banquet so that the guests could enjoy them at the wedding. Some wealthy Italians. Some precious silk scarves will be given to guests. At the time, these were used to show off their wealth!

In ancient times, newcomers in Europe would also give some sugar cubes to their guests in delicate little boxes. At that time, sugar cubes were some of the most valuable things. Of course, the boxes with sugar are not ordinary boxes, they are full of precious stones, and of course, they are all done to show off their wealth.

Wedding gifts vary in form in different places. The wedding return gift is to express gratitude to relatives and friends who were unable to attend the banquet. The wedding gifts selected are also more practical, like cigarettes and wine. Or meat, the starting point is not only to make relatives and friends happy, but also to "compensate" for not being able to come to dinner. Guests who come to the wedding banquet do not need to prepare a return gift for them.

As a kind of conventional folk custom, the return gift reflects a simple and kind folk custom, and it is a real sincerity. In fact, in the whole process of the wedding, the return gift is only a small part of it, and the invitation also has a lot of particularity.

For example, if you want to do a happy event at home, you can invite relatives and friends, and you can't go empty-handed to send a wedding card, but you have to bring "gifts", such as white flour, eggs, etc. (this was a custom in the past, but now it's unfortunate to do this, and now it's a more practical thing), which reflects a kind of respect and love.

Now, people's living standards are high, but human affection is generally weak. In particular, it is embodied in these traditional etiquettes, simplifying the simplification, removing the removal, inviting people without seeing people's faces, sending a group text message, and even sending invitations in the unit is like engaging in wholesale, without much emotional connotation.

The fast pace of contemporary life, as well as people's impetuous hearts, filter out our original simple and kind things, and some beautiful feelings have disappeared forever in this fast pace.

Only in the lost narration of the older generation can we see the young dolls listening casually and seemingly understanding.

Choosing what to give in return may seem like a trivial matter throughout the wedding process, but it is not. The moment your relatives and friends get your return gift, what they appreciate is your cultural taste, life values, aesthetic style, sincerity, strength and so on.

Therefore, this matter should never be despised or ignored, but should be highly valued, carefully designed, and told the guests with return gifts, that you are unique and noble, outstanding, affectionate, sincere and warm, and value friends...... The cultivation of these qualities is very important for a social person, especially a newcomer who is still in the initial stage.

Don't be afraid of trouble, don't be too cumbersome, people are born to experience all kinds of troubles. Don't look at some things small, the result of what you do and what you don't do is definitely different, and there is a difference between doing well and doing poorly.

As for what to give, it has to be considered from strength in the end. There are two criteria for reference: one is unique commemorativeness, and the other is specific practicality.

Zhao Chaogang, Li Liping, and Liu Jingjing attach great importance to the wedding gift, and the wedding gift they choose is prepared in accordance with the unique commemoration and specific practicality.

According to these two criteria, the choice of the wedding gift is very clear, and soon, Zhao Chaogang, Li Liping, and Liu Jingjing chose the specific things of the wedding gift.

A wall calendar of the detailed wedding banquet scene on the wedding day (everyone who receives the wall calendar has their own photos in the wall calendar, of course, these photos are very beautiful, and there will be absolutely no embarrassing pictures), a gift box of candy cakes, and a crystal necklace carved according to the guests' zodiac signs.

A wall calendar of the specific situation on the day of the wedding banquet is definitely a good choice in the wedding gift, and the wall calendar is indispensable for every family. Even some beautiful wall calendars can be collected as collectibles, and this wall calendar prepared by Zhao Chaogang is definitely worth collecting.

All the pictures in the wall calendar were directly imprinted on it by Zhao Chaogang with his divine sense. Therefore, the aesthetic beauty of the picture is definitely not ordinary, and since the pictures of these wall calendars are all imprinted by Zhao Chaogang with divine consciousness, these wall calendars are already regarded as treasures.

The paintings on these wall calendars are all imprinted by Zhao Chaogang with his divine sense. Therefore, these wall calendars all contain a trace of Zhao Chaogang's divine consciousness, although this divine consciousness can be said to be close to zero. However, the divine consciousness can only be possessed by cultivators after they have reached the third level of the Qi refining stage, and there will be no martial artists in the acquired stage or the innate stage. So. Even if it is a rare divine sense, it is a treasure for ordinary people or martial artists.

Moreover, the most important thing is that the divine consciousness on these wall calendars was originally deliberately left by Zhao Chaogang.

Today, these people who came to attend Zhao Chaogang's wedding are all relatives and very good friends of Zhao Chaogang's family. Therefore, Zhao Chaogang has to give these people some benefits.

As the saying goes: one person attains the Tao. This is an idiom, which means that when a person becomes an immortal, the whole family, including chickens and dogs, ascend to heaven.

The origin of this idiom is based on a story, which is about the time of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, Liu An, the king of Huainan, believed in the alchemy of cultivation, and once met eight old men with crane hair and childish faces, worshiped them as teachers, learned the alchemy of cultivation, and after the pill was refined, Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty sent someone to arrest him, and he drank the pill in a hurry, and became an immortal and ascended to heaven. His relatives and friends also hurried to drink the medicine to become immortals. The Liu family's chicken and dog also became immortals because they ate the elixir in the alchemy pot.

Zhao Chaogang is now a cultivator in the foundation building period, and he is also the master of a small world, so of course Zhao Chaogang wants to give his relatives and friends some benefits, this is human nature.

However, Zhao Chaogang directly gave benefits to these relatives and friends, which was too conspicuous, and it would also give people a feeling of nouveau riche, and even affect the family relationship between each other, and such a bad thing, Zhao Chaogang will have a lot of trouble in the future, so even if he wants to benefit his relatives and friends, Zhao Chaogang has to come secretly.

It is also for this reason that Zhao Chaogang chose to leave a trace of his divine sense on the wall calendar.

Because these calendars contain a trace of Zhao Chaogang's divine sense, therefore, all Zhao Chaogang's relatives and friends will like this calendar from the bottom of their hearts after getting this calendar, so they either hang this calendar in a very conspicuous place, so that they can often see it, or collect it directly, and then often take it out to see.

No matter which way Zhao Chaogang's relatives and friends choose, they all have one thing in common, that is, they will often look at this wall calendar, in this way, the trace of divine consciousness that Zhao Chaogang left on the wall calendar will work.

As long as Zhao Chaogang's relatives and friends often look at the calendar, Zhao Chaogang's divine consciousness left on the wall calendar will unconsciously condense their spiritual power and make their spiritual power stronger and stronger, so that after Zhao Chaogang's relatives and friends start to practice martial arts in the future, it will be very easy to break through the realm, because their spiritual power has been tempered into 'steel' by the trace of divine consciousness left by Zhao Chaogang on the calendar.

For a martial artist, when improving his cultivation, the most critical factor is the strength of the spiritual power in his mind, especially when those martial artists above the sixth level break through the realm, the factor of spiritual power is more important than other factors.

And once a martial artist is ready to break through the innate realm from the acquired realm, the spiritual power of this martial artist is the most important link. Only if the acquired martial artist's spiritual power is strong enough and condensed, can he have the opportunity to break through to the realm of the innate stage, otherwise, even if this martial artist has a strong true qi cultivation and his spiritual power is not up to the mark, he will never want to break through to the realm of the innate stage.

This is also the reason why many martial artists, after reaching the Great Perfection Realm of the Acquired Stage, no longer practice all day, but start to do things that are a waste of time in the eyes of ordinary martial artists.

For example, starting to read some scriptures, or studying some chess scores, music scores, etc., these things are actually a waste of time in the eyes of many martial artists, but in fact, these martial artists who have reached the realm of the Great Perfection of the day after tomorrow are actually tempering their spiritual power.

Reciting scriptures, studying chess scores, and music scores can all exercise a person's willpower very well.

The trace of divine consciousness on the wall calendar that Zhao Chaogang gave to his relatives and friends can well condense the spiritual power of his relatives and friends, so that when they break through the martial arts realm in the future, they can achieve twice the result with half the effort.

It can even be said that as long as these relatives and friends of Zhao Chaogang focus all their attention on martial arts, in more than ten years, these people will become martial artists in the innate stage.

Zhao Chaogang's divine sense, for those martial artists, is the treasure of the most treasure!

Of course, Zhao Chaogang's relatives and friends will definitely not all start practicing martial arts in the future, but that's nothing, a person's mental power has been strengthened, then no matter what he is doing, he will feel very handy, and the confidence in his heart will become more and more sufficient, so even if some of Zhao Chaogang's relatives and friends do not choose to practice martial arts, in the future, he will still have something to do. (To be continued......)

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