Chapter 24: Take control of your own destiny
Tang Xiaohan saw that Yu Yulan was still depressed, and her face was also very bad, so she could only comfort her: "Mom, do you know how our new era was established?"
Yu Yulan looked puzzled, she didn't know this, although she had learned some over the years, but not enough.
At that time, she studied in a private school, and later after being beaten into the landlord class, her father did not let them learn the books of the new era for some reasons, and taught them at home, but told them to be cautious when they went out.
Tang Xiaohan cheered a little in her heart, she finally found a way to persuade Yu Yulan, only to hear her say: "Mom, the teacher told us in class these days how difficult it was for the leaders of the people to be leaders when they were in class. ”
"They had a hard time, they didn't have enough food and clothing, and in the end they were surrounded and suppressed, but they didn't admit defeat, and they walked a 20,000-mile long march to get to where they are today. ”
"Could it be that what I want to live a better life is more difficult than the 20,000-mile Long March?"
In fact, Tang Xiaohan secretly changed the concept here, and Yu Yulan didn't know about the debate, and was ridiculed by Tang Xiaohan's words.
However, she also knew that her vague rebuttal might not be able to say anything to others, so she simply didn't say anything, saying more and more wrong, and if she didn't say it, it would definitely be right.
If the person who started the debate with Tang Xiaohan was Grandma Tang or Grandpa Tang, he would be able to refute her immediately.
After all, on the way of the Long March, there were many people who lost their lives, and these people finally died on the way to struggle, Tang Xiaohan just bullied Yu Yulan's Mu Mu who had been raised over the years.
However, she didn't know that Yu Yulan didn't want to take a lot of measures to stop talking, and thought that she had persuaded her and continued to persuade her.
"Mom, this fate is in our own hands, whatever choice you make, it is what your life, if you really accept your fate now, you will always be pressed by grandma. ”
Yu Yulan was originally fine, but as soon as she got involved in this matter, her whole person collapsed.
"Destiny in your own hands?"
Yu Yulan sneered rarely, she remembered the suffering she had suffered in the Tang family all these years, and tears flowed down without warning: "Xiaohan, my life is not good, and my life is also bitter!"
Tang Xiaohan didn't know that he had poked Yu Yulan's sensitive nerves, but seeing her like this, he didn't dare to say anything, just quietly listened to Yu Yulan's complaints.
"Before I got married, I wanted to give birth to a few more big fat boys for your father, but I didn't expect that after so many years of marriage, I would give birth to you three sisters. ”
"Not to mention the township, even if the women in the city can't give birth to a son, they are all miserable people, and it's understandable that your grandmother doesn't like me. ”
Tang Xiaohan twitched his hand, and when he saw Yu Yulan turn her head to look at her, she immediately gave her a smile, but she kept slandering in her heart.
She also knows that women like Yu Yulan are victims of a patriarchal society, but years of oppression have made them unconsciously become perpetrators.
was already numb when she was harmed, but when she harmed others, she could relieve the pressure in her heart, but according to Tang Xiaohan, Yu Yulan was still the one who was harmed and oppressed.
Although she has accepted this kind of thing and agreed with the words that boys are more expensive than girls, she did not bully others, and she is not bad to them, who should be called money-losers.