☆、05212 - Proven by practical actions

Me: "What is easy to make the disciples of the Yanxing Sect unpleasant is that although the disciples of the Yanxing Sect understand the seriousness of this subject under intensive and systematic teaching, the people of the outer sect do not. The outer sects still regard this as a daily routine of 'what, this still needs to be studied?'. Of course, they will be unhappy when others joke about things that they take seriously, but from the standpoint of 'others', they only think that this is obviously a trivial matter, so why do they go online at every turn? They are not happy either. If you are unhappy and unhappy, it is naturally easy to create estrangement. ”

He Daoyou: "Will the Yan Xing Sect even have a gap between the Yuan Infant Period and the Yuan Infant Stage of the Outer Sect? So only when the Transformation Period reaches the Transformation Period, will the estrangement disappear?

Me: "I don't know. I don't have much experience with the disciples of the Yanxing Sect, but I have also met the disciples of the Jindan period of the Yanxing Sect who have a good conversation with the disciples of the Sword Sect and the Zhongsu Sect, so whether there is an estrangement or not depends on the individual, right?"

He Daoyou: "Zhong Sumen may be fine, but there must be a gap between him and the disciples of the Sword Sect, and the disciples of the Sword Sect treat the disciples of Yanxingmen like Liuliren." ”

Me: "Although there will be some discomfort when getting along, because the female cultivator that the disciples of the Sword Sect get along with on a daily basis is not Yan Xingmen's, but it is absolutely impossible to be a glass person." The gentlemen of the Sword Sect can cut their faces without hesitation in the face of the great beauties of the Hehuan Sect, and they don't have the nerve to pity the jade at all. ”

Me: "You see, when I described the disciples of the Sword Sect, I mentioned 'gentlemen', which is also a stereotype, and the female cultivators of the Sword Sect are often angry about this, but so what? The impression is the impression, I think the disciples of the Medicine Sect are arrogant, I think the disciples of the Zhongsu Sect are cold and alienated, I think the disciples of the Yunxia Sect are brainwashed by the sect, and there are stereotypes everywhere. I'm not saying that this impression is correct, but if you want to change it, it is certainly not enough to say it verbally, but it must be proved by deeds. ”

Me: "For example, the public stereotype of sword cultivation is that they are brutal, rude, and that the ceiling is suppressed, and the existence of Koron's predecessors overturns all of these stereotypes. As long as the predecessors of Longling Humor existed for one day, then the world's contempt for sword cultivation would be slapped in the face by the unshakable fact. Long's predecessors are facts that are contrary to the public impression, and facts that make prejudices speechless. ”

Me: "The problem with the low cultivation of the Yanxing Sect as disciples is that they want to refute the prejudice and discrimination of the world, but they can't become facts to fight back, they can only give examples of the power of their predecessors to refute verbally, but sometimes they don't see enough information, and when they need to use it, they can't remember which senior to refute the current situation, or, even if they refute, they are blocked by the other party's fluttering words, 'Is other people's business related to you? ”

☆、05213 - Need to be pleasant and enjoyable

Me: "If an individual wants to be not discriminated against, he needs to be strong, and if a group wants to be not discriminated against, he needs the vast majority of the individuals in the group to be strong together." In fact, what Yan Xingmen has been doing all along is the latter, cultivating more and more powerful female cultivators. As a disciple of the middle and low cultivation of the Yanxing Sect, what you have to do is not to complain about the discrimination of the world, of course, you can complain, but you must not let complaining take up too much of your energy, and more importantly, you have to improve yourself. When one day the female nuns dominate the entire group of monks, especially among the senior monks, and the male nuns are overwhelmed in numbers, discrimination naturally does not exist. ”

Me: "But I personally think that it is unlikely that there will be that kind of absolute advantage, unless men die on a large scale because of genetic defects, men and women are both human beings, and there is no essential difference in the innate conditions of cultivation, how can one side absolutely overshadow the other? Even in the era when female cultivators were seriously discriminated against and suppressed, the proportion of high cultivators becoming female cultivators was not suppressed by male cultivators. The innate conditions are there, human beings are human beings, and gender is not important. ”

Shen Jinyu: "Boring humans. ”

Me: "There are several non-humans here, why are you complaining about me as a human?"

Shen Jinyu: "Because human affairs have nothing to do with foreign races, they don't care, so they won't complain." ”

Wang Mengxiang: "I still care, and I also have some research on sexism, after all, I have used both genders." It's interesting to get different responses to the same thing when you do it with different genders. ”

Me: "Well, you might as well be more objective and calm and less angry when researching. Disciples of the Yanxing Sect may also wish to use the discrimination of others more openly to make things easier for themselves, after all, discrimination is often accompanied by contempt, and once the opponent despises you, he will have more loopholes to defeat. ”

Me: "There is no need to verbally appeal, let the discriminator suffer a few more times because of discrimination, he will naturally reduce discrimination." In addition to waking up the same kind, sometimes appealing is like asking for sympathy from the opponent and counting on the opponent's conscience, which is not very reliable, especially in such a realistic place as the cultivation realm, it is better to let the opponent learn to be afraid than to let the opponent learn to respect. ”

Me: "Of course, this is just my personal understanding, and I am not a disciple of the Yanxing Sect after all, so no matter how I understand it, it may be a little scratchy from the boots, and in the end, it is up to the disciples of the Yanxing Sect to find a way of life that makes them happy." ”

Me: "I think that no matter how serious the research is, if it is to be carried out for a long time, the researcher must find the point of the research content that makes him happy, enjoyable, and addictive. It cannot be supported by a sense of responsibility or anger alone, and cultivation requires pleasure and enjoyment. We must enjoy our true selves, but if we don't, why are we who we are, and why do we keep working on the path we have chosen?"

☆、05214-On the road

Me: "There are many ways to protect nuns and oppose discrimination, just like the disciples of imitation embroidery pictures deceive people, some people rely on verbal blowing, and some people rely on careful arrangements to lure the bait, and they all end up in the same way. Every disciple of the Yanxingmen can practice the main purpose of the Yanxingmen in the way they like. ”

Me: "In the case of the Yunxia Sect, it is also loyal to the sect, some people conscientiously take care of the daily chores of the Yunxia Sect, and some people don't worry about everything and only practice sword alchemy and spirit beast spirit plant play every day; Goal and method, to distinguish, there is only one goal, and there can be countless methods. ”

Me: "If you find that you don't like all the ways you can think of to get to the goal, then maybe what you don't like is the goal itself, then it is recommended to change the goal, that is, to change the school." ”

He Daoyou: "I'm sure I like the goals of my sect. ”

Me: "Then concentrate on finding a way." There must be a way to both make your life happy and lead you to your goal, and that is your way. ”

He Daoyou: "Yes. Xie seniors for advice. ”

Me: "Let me emphasize again, this is the words of a bystander, you can refer to it, don't believe it, take the professional guidance of the sect as the standard." ”

He Daoyou: "You still need to read the tutorial books outside of professional textbooks, and open up your ideas, so as not to have too narrow your vision and refine yourself." ”

Wang Mengxiang: "With clear goals and flexibility, He Daoyou has a future." It's worthy of worshipping the same mascot as me, and his eyes really show his IQ. ”

Me: "......"

Wu Boping: "Are you talking about the Tao?"

Shen Jinyu: "Yes, you two can still hear it? If you don't collapse, should you praise the two of you?"

Wu Boping: "Did you see that?"

Shen Jinyu nodded at me, Wang Mengxiang and the multi-legged lizard: "Except for the three of them, everyone else has seen it." Of course, there are not many 'others' here. ”

Wu Boyang's voice was much softer than Wu Boping's, and he asked, "Why did you see it but didn't react?"

Shen Jinyu nodded to Daoyou next week: "She didn't cry badly enough?"

Wu Boyang looked at He Daoyou: "With your cultivation and your lack of understanding of Gentle Township, why can you keep calm?"

He Daoyou: "I brought defensive weapons, and I made some mental preparations before I came...... Someone taught me some useful coping tips. ”

☆、05215-Simplify complex things

Shen Jinyu: "And He Daoyou is still young, and he doesn't have much true feelings about sex and love, and he is not as easy to explode as Zhou Daoyou." ”

Zhou Daoyou's voice was hoarse: "I haven't lost control yet." ”

Shen Jinyu: "Is your self-control your own achievement, or is it relying on that extra spiritual root?"

Zhou Daoyou's eyes were a little more sluggish.

Shen Jinyu: "Let me declare first, if Zhou Daoyou dies here or is taken away by the Furnace Ding Secret Realm because of the demons in his heart, I will not be held responsible." Even if the official of Yeon Xingmen came to ask me for an explanation, I would have this answer: she deserved it. ”

Zhou Daoyou: "Indeed...... I deserve it. ”

Shen Jinyu: "You Yanxingmen disciples, anti-discrimination is to concentrate on anti-discrimination, don't fall in love with outsiders who don't understand the logic of your discrimination, and harm others and yourself." When there is a need, make an appointment to finish, don't talk about feelings, if you talk about it, it will hurt you. ”

He Daoyou: "Yan Xingmen obviously has examples of forming Taoist couples with outsiders or maintaining stable romantic relationships for a long time. ”

Shen Jinyu: "There is a chance. For example, this Jiang Daoyou is willing to think about things from your point of view, and he can understand you to a certain extent, but how many such people are there? Not to mention that this also includes people who can understand you but don't want to fall in love with you, and this Jiang Daoyou is also an example. ”

Shen Jinyu: "Even if Jiang Daoyou is not a man, he is unlikely to have feelings for the disciples of Yan Xingmen, because the disciples of Yan Xingmen are too able to put pressure on themselves, and Jiang Daoyou prefers to reduce pressure, he likes to simplify complex things, but the daily life of Yan Xingmen is the opposite." ”

He Daoyou: "I also like simplistic things, but many people say that I think too simple and naïve, they say that the world is complicated. ”

Me: "The world itself doesn't say it's complicated. Our planet has existed for at least billions of years, and we have seen countless kinds of creatures, and the planet's evaluation of our group of intelligent beings is probably 'really tossing.' I've never seen such a boring creature. I don't know when I'm going to toss and destroy myself. I don't think we can wait long. You can't live past 100 million years......' and that sort of thing. ”

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