(6th Update)

Ouyang Feifei quickly calmed down and replied softly: "Please also ask Mr. Ling for advice." ”

"Mom, otherwise, I'll take a shower first," Luo Ziling didn't want to get involved in this matter, so he asked Ling Ruonan and Ouyang Feifei to talk about it themselves, so they were ready to use the bath as an excuse to escape from it, "I'm tired and sweaty a lot today, and my body is full of smells, and I'm going to faint you in a while." I'm going to take a shower!" With that, he prepared to slip upstairs.

But Ling Ruonan didn't intend for Luo Ziling to avoid this question, "You also sit down and talk about it together, you are the party concerned, we have to listen to your opinion." ”

This made Luo Ziling very embarrassed, but in the end he didn't run away and sat down obediently.

He also regretted it, he had known that he would not come to Ling Ruonan tonight, or he would not agree to bring Ouyang Feifei over to visit.

But he couldn't escape, so he could only sit depressed.

"If Mr. Ling has any ideas, just say it," Ouyang Feifei said calmly.

"When his grandfather and your grandfather set a baby kiss for you, I was against it," Ling Ruonan said expressionlessly: "Because I am the victim of the family marriage, I am deeply affected, and of course I don't want my son to follow in the same footsteps, so I told his grandfather at that time that I don't agree to this marriage." His grandfather also accepted my request, so after Ziling came to Yanjing, the first thing he did was to come to the door and tell you about it. I think both of us can accept this, because it's not clear, it's not going to get out. ”

Ouyang Feifei didn't interject, because she knew that Ling Ruonan's words hadn't finished yet.

Luo Ziling would not interject.

"I know that the strongest opponent of this marriage contract is you," Ling Ruonan looked at Ouyang Feifei with a smile on her face: "I know that you are definitely unwilling to accept the marriage arranged for you by your family, and what a person with personality like you hopes most is to hold your life in your own hands." I think that if Ziling didn't come to the door to dissolve the marriage contract, but came to the door to propose, you would definitely not accept it. He came to the door and quit the marriage, and your self-esteem was hurt, so you changed your attitude and wanted to keep the engagement, right? ”

Ouyang Feifei was a little embarrassed at this time, she didn't know how to answer.

But after hesitating for a moment, Ouyang Feifei finally nodded in agreement with Ling Ruonan's analysis. Because she thought of it two days ago, she and Luo Ziling directly said that she would not stop like this about the marriage contract, and a woman's self-esteem was not so easy to be trampled on.

"I do have such thoughts," Ouyang Feifei said with a wry smile: "I believe that Mr. Ling can understand that no woman wants to be disliked, especially a woman like me who has always been arrogant." If Ziling did not propose to withdraw from the marriage, but proposed marriage, hoping to have a formal marriage contract with me, then I might refuse to accept it. I'm really unwilling to be turned out like this. ”

After a pause, she said: "Before Ziling came to the door to withdraw from the marriage, I did resist my grandfather's arrangement, and the most important reason is what Mr. Ling just said, I hope to be in charge of my own life, rather than passively accepting the family's arrangement." Another point is that I am about a year and a half older than Ziling, and I don't want to be both a wife and a mother in front of my future husband. After I knew that Ziling had been separated from you since I was a child, I was thinking that if I were really with him, I might have to take on the role of wife and mother, at least, take care of him like an older sister. Another reason is that I want my future husband to be a good man in every way, who can outperform me, so that I don't have anything to disagree with. I think that Ziling, who grew up in a small mountain village, has never gone to school, and will be lacking in many aspects. ”

After saying these psychological words, she smiled at Luo Ziling awkwardly, and then said her conclusion: "Therefore, I have always rejected this marriage contract and do not plan to accept it." But after hearing with my own ears that Fu Ziling had withdrawn from the marriage, my self-esteem was greatly hurt, and I was very unwilling in my heart, and even wanted to take revenge. In addition, I learned that Ziling was very good in all aspects, so my thoughts also changed. ”

"Well, since you said it so bluntly, let's not hide it," Ling Ruonan was very satisfied with Ouyang Feifei's straightforwardness, and without waiting for Luo Ziling to say anything, she preemptively explained what she meant: "I want to know your current attitude and the purpose of your frequent contact with Ziling." ”

She looked at Luo Ziling again: "I also want to know your attitude and thoughts, because the situation is very complicated now, and some things are better explained." ”

Now that she has said it, Ouyang Feifei has less scruples, and directly explained her thoughts: "I don't force the continuation of the marriage contract, I know that this kind of thing can't be forced, even if I am still unwilling to be disliked now, I haven't thought about forcing anything." The affection between a man and a woman should occur naturally, not through the established marriage contract of the elders. I now feel that Ziling is good in all aspects, and I am willing to treat him as a friend, as for whether I can become a lover or not, it is not something that I can control alone. ”

Unexpectedly, Ouyang Feifei would say this, Luo Ziling was surprised.

A woman, can say this, don't you understand the meaning?

When both women's eyes looked at him, he didn't know what to say for a moment.

"What do you think?" finally Ling Ruonan asked directly.

"I'm dating Yang Qingyin now, and I feel good with her," in the end, Luo Ziling could only bite the bullet and say: "I also know that it is very difficult to be with her, but I don't want to give up." Although there are often some misunderstandings between me and Fei Fei, I ...... I think we can still be good friends. ”

Luo Ziling actually said this, choosing Yang Qingyin and giving up on her, Ouyang Feifei was very disappointed, and her eyes were a little angry when she looked at Luo Ziling. Luo Ziling didn't dare to look at her, and turned his head sideways to avoid his eyes.

"Okay, I probably understand what you mean," Ling Ruonan breathed a sigh of relief, and then said to Luo Ziling: "Your life needs you to choose by yourself, and what you think now is not necessarily your final choice, but no matter what kind of choice you make, who you end up with, Mom will support you and try not to interfere with your decision as much as possible." I just hope that you can think about everything, feelings and reality, after all, two people have to live for a lifetime. If you walk together, there will be endless troubles, so you should think carefully. The tragic lesson of me and your dad, I don't want to see it in you!"

Ling Ruonan's words surprised Ouyang Feifei and Luo Ziling again.

(End of chapter)