265. The emotional intelligence of a white paper fan

At this time, the suspicion flowing down by his father was getting closer and closer to Li Hugo, and he could feel that the truth he wanted could be said to be close at hand, which was very exciting for Li Hugo.

But this requirement is also very harsh, that is, Li Hugo needs to come out on top, he looked at his team, Hu Meier and the white paper fan can be said to be mixed, although he doesn't mind the white paper fan, but for this Hu Meier, Li Hugo's impression of it can be described as average, this Hu Meier's self-description and Senior Brother Gou's matter, who knows whether it is true or false, maybe it's just to use the white paper fan.

That's right, the white paper fan is indeed very smart, in some ways it can be said that he is a genius, a natural military advisor, but in terms of emotional intelligence, he is very average, which makes Li Hugo a headache.

Of course, low EQ has the benefits of low EQ, and too high EQ is not necessarily good news, whether it is this world or the original world, this EQ is too high and not necessarily all are benefits, in Li Hugo's view, Hu Meier's EQ is very high, and she knows that people are sophisticated, but she is a little too high, and now she is a little sleek, just like this Tianwu Academy, the importance of EQ is self-evident, everyone knows the disadvantages of low EQ, and people who want to be high EQ do not know that anything is too much.

Once Li Hugo worked in several companies before writing after graduation, although he didn't do it for a long time, he also saw a lot of people sophisticated.

At the beginning, every time Li Hugo saw that a high-yielder with emotional intelligence was just right, and he was not leaky, and often threw the scene of the topic killer like a god saving the ball at the end of the game, Li Hugo admired him very much, after all, every company has a few decent people.

But good dishes can't stand eating every day, and the immortals can't stand to look at them from time to time.

The reason why those people with high emotional intelligence can have empathy, compare their hearts with their hearts, be able to speak before they speak, and do not do to others what they do not want is because they are sensitive.

Of course, sensitivity is also a benefit, the ability to foresee and understand the feelings of others, and the unverified guide to words and deeds in the heart.

However, sensitivity is a double-edged sword, it is both a lubricant for interpersonal communication and a small knife for self-destruction.

A colleague's evaluation, a look from a superior is worth deconstructing and digging for a long time, I feel that they are too good at weighing whether the words they say are pleasant, and their overly sensitive insight into the "sound outside the strings" makes them suffer.

Looking back now, sensitive people are more painful, in fact, it is also right, in the eyes of Li Hugo, a layman, everyone has seven emotions and six desires, the so-called high emotional intelligence, more or less suppressing or disguising their emotions.

For example, at that time, Li Hugo had a senior who had a good relationship, and he was in the same company, the senior was in his thirties at the time, and his daughter-in-law was working in a public institution.

At that time, Li Hugo had already clearly sensed that the field had cooled down rapidly, and some people's emotional intelligence was so low that he wanted to go to Alimama to wholesale blood droplets to clean him up.

Just when everyone was desperately looking for a hole in the ground, the senior daughter-in-law who rescued the distress spoke, saying that of course their husband was supporting the family, because he was a taxpayer, and since then she has topped the emotional intelligence highland in Li Hugo's heart, showing affection, fighting for face, and saving the field, all of which are available and end gorgeously.

Now Li Hugo has found that Nalan Meng is also a person with high emotional intelligence, but Nalan Meng doesn't like to be in the limelight, but likes to do things silently, which makes Li Hugo feel very content.

Similarly, Yun Xianchen and Yun Yuechen sisters, obviously Xianchen has a high EQ, Yuechen is relatively low, but Yuechen is happier, and Xianchen often bores herself and suffers.

Li Hugo sighed, and then withdrew his gaze, at this time, the sensitive Hu Meier also found Li Hugo's eyes, she pulled the white paper fan: "Senior Brother Bai, does your boss dislike me?"

"How can it be, my eldest is very righteous. The white paper fan said.

Hu Meier said aggrievedly: "I feel that he dislikes me and dislikes my strength is too low." ”

Saying this, the white paper fan was also a little unhappy in his heart, but the person facing him was Li Huguo, and he didn't say anything, but just said to Hu Meier: "I will protect you." ”

As soon as the words fell, Hu Meier covered her mouth and chuckled, holding the arm of the white paper fan, and looked at Li Hugo provocatively, but she saw Li Hugo's back, and Li Hugo didn't notice it.

The dean's speech had ended, and at this time a huge black shadow appeared in the sky, and the black shadow covered the entire nave outside the hall as if it was a dark night, and all the disciples went out with the dean, and at this time the Spirit Emperor was also among them, and what was staggering was that the Spirit Emperor turned out to be the leader of Li Hugo's team.

Just like in college, there is always a counselor by your side during outdoor activities, on the one hand, to protect students, and on the other hand, to guide.

Obviously, the Linghuang is such a person, the Linghuang walked beside Li Hugo, he was wearing a black and purple coat, his hands were behind his back, and there were some gray hairs hidden in the big back, he was already old, the Linghuang leaned in and said: "Hugo, there is one thing, I have thought about it again, I feel that I should tell you." ”

"Big brother, say it, I believe you. Li Hugo said happily.

Emperor Ling's heart was moved, and he said that the current Li Hugo has made a name for himself, he is not only the sworn brother of the eldest prince, but also the general of the five-rank flying tiger of the dynasty, and he has no shelf in front of him, which also makes the Emperor Linghuang have a lot of good feelings about him, and the Linghuang said: "When I was in a meeting before, the dean once said that you would be removed. ”

"What?!" This surprised Li Hugo, and the Shifang Tong next to him was about to take down the knife, and he was about to walk towards the dean in a rage.

Li Hugo pulled, and he said, "What are you going to do?"

"After slaughtering that old fat pig, how dare you say that about my benefactor!" said the Emperor menacingly.

Li Hugo couldn't cry or laugh: "You listen to it first, don't use a knife or a gun at every turn." ”

However, this sentence had another meaning in the ears of the emperor, he turned his hand, a big bow appeared in his hand, and Li Hugo grabbed him again: "What are you going to do?"

"You say you can't use a knife or a gun, then I'll use a bow! Hit him, the first arrow will shine on his waist, and the second arrow will take away his dantian!" said the killing emperor angrily.

Li Hugo covered his head, and said in his heart that the EQ of the white paper fan was low enough, but he didn't expect this to kill the emperor......