"After we got married, life was hard, but my relationship with my grandmother was very good. Soon, there will be your father. Your father is the first child in the family, and we are very excited, including your grandmother, in fact, we have planned to have three children since we were young. The Dai family has been passed down from generation to generation, and the people are not prosperous, and I want to spread out from my generation and strengthen the blood of the Dai family. ”

"But when your father was born, your grandmother had a terrible labor and hemorrhage, and she almost died. Although I was rescued in the end, the mother and child were safe, but I lost the ability to have children again, and this incident hit me and your grandmother very hard at that time. ”

"In that era of scarcity of materials, the family had a hard time, and within a few years of your father's birth, your grandmother fell ill. Later, in order to take care of your grandmother and your father, your grandmother quit her job in the song and dance troupe and went home to take care of the old and the young. I know she loves to dance, because I've seen her dancing secretly by herself, and I can only say that your grandmother sacrificed a lot for the sake of this family. ”

Hearing this, Tan Xiaonan looked at the photo in her hand again and felt her grandmother's love for dance when she was young. Then he said, "What about later?"

Later, I didn't expect your grandmother to be sick, so she was sick for several years, and finally she didn't recover and died. Although your grandmother is no longer so tired, but she has been branded with the root of the disease, in fact, she has not been in good health since the difficult birth, but she has been struggling for this family. ”

"Later, when the country opened up and invigorated, I decided to go to the sea to do business, and with the skills of my family and the little private belongings left by your grandfather that your grandmother gave me before she died, it can be regarded as a mixture. ”

"But life is just a little better, your grandfather and grandmother also passed away one after another, your grandmother was sad and sad, and in the end she couldn't hold on, and died within two years. I don't know if it's me or what's wrong, my family has passed away, but I'm the only lonely old man left, still alive in the world, God is really unfair, obviously I have taken so many people, how can I be such a one. ”

When Dai Yongan said this, he remembered his wife's face, and his heart was also sour, and a drop of old tears also slid down his cheeks.

No matter what Tan Xiaonan said, it was also the blood of the Dai family, and when he heard all this, he couldn't hide the sadness in his heart, holding Tan Huilan's arm, leaving tears.

There was silence in the room for a while......

Dai Yongan wiped away his tears and said, "There is actually a reason for telling you so many old stories! After your grandmother died, I once felt quite bored to live, but before your grandmother died, please take care of your father." After all, he is the only seedling of the Dai family for several generations, for the sake of your father, I know that I have to cheer up, and then I also devoted myself to business, and the business is getting bigger and bigger. ”

"When your father became an adult, I sent him to college in the capital. Originally, I was planning to wait for him to graduate from college, and then come back to find a girl who is the right person to marry, and fulfill your grandmother's wish. ”

"But when your father was still in the capital, he met your mother, as for the details of their acquaintance, I don't know, I'm not interested, I only know that your mother is an actress, she has no education, and she is a Beijing drifter. ”

"And I only found out about it when the two of them wanted to talk about marriage, and I was very angry, I don't like your mother. Of course, I'm not saying she's not pretty enough, but your mother is pretty too. It's just that I think your mother has no father and no mother, and she has a younger sister, and I think she is as tough as me, and she looked thin when she was young, which is not conducive to our Dai family, so I strongly oppose them being together. ”

"But young people! will always be young people, and they can do anything for love. Your father was like a demon at the time, he just wanted to be with your mother, and he wouldn't listen to me no matter what I said, even if I threatened to break off the father-son relationship with him, that wouldn't work. In the end, I had no choice but to agree that they were together. ”

"However, I have to say that after marriage, your mother is very virtuous and takes care of the family in an orderly manner, which is quite like the feeling of your grandmother when she was young. Still, I don't like your mother because she's not the perfect daughter-in-law in my mind. ”

"Until one day, I suddenly had a serious illness, and I was very sick and needed someone to take care of me. Your father was in charge of the business at the time, and he had to hire two nurses to take care of me together with your mother, but because I was sick and in a bad mood, he scolded both nurses away, and in the end, your mother had to take care of me alone. I have to say that your mother is a woman with a very good temper, although my attitude towards her is as bad, but she still takes care of me meticulously, and I am gradually moved by her filial piety, and I begin to gradually accept her. ”

"Later, my illness was cured, and I also recognized your mother, the daughter-in-law of the Dai family, and the family was naturally much more peaceful. But because your father works every day, and the two of them are old and have no children, then I was in a hurry and forcibly stopped your father's work, so that he and his mother must hurry up to have a child for me. Later, at my urging, there was good news, and I was relieved, because our Dai family can finally start from your father's generation. ”

"But I didn't wait a few days to be happy, and there was another piece of bad news. When your parents went for a pregnancy test, they found that your mother was actually RH negative blood type, and the doctor said that giving birth to a child would be very risky, and after I knew about it, I couldn't believe my ears, do you know how long I have been sentenced to my grandson?"

"Your father knew, and of course your mother knew, and in the end she decided to take the risk and give birth to a girl, and that was you. Dai Yongan said this and glanced at Tan Xiaonan.

"What about later?" Tan Xiaonan asked.

"Later! later...... I'm conflicted, to be honest, I'm very satisfied with your mother's daughter-in-law, but I also want a grandchild, but it's precisely because the daughter-in-law I like can't give me the grandson I want. ”

"Is it because of a grandson! You kicked my mother out of the house?" Tan Xiaonan said with some excitement at this time.

Actually, the real reason for your parents' separation is the breakdown of their relationship, but I want to tell you the truth, the main reason is me. Although it is impossible for your mother to bring me a grandson, she is a perfect daughter-in-law, which makes me conflicted. Maybe your father felt my longing for his grandson, and soon he had a woman outside."