"Qinghua's father didn't get early, the situation was chaotic at that time, I was a widow with a two-year-old child, and it was really difficult everywhere. ”

"I'm glad I met you. Lao An, you are the great benefactor of our mother and son, you have given us a place to settle down, and you have been so good to us that you have nothing to say about these years!"

It's not the first time Xu Yaping has said this, and over the years, she has often put these words on her lips.

A lie repeated a thousand times will become the truth.

There are so many things like this that even Xu Yaping herself believes it.

Of course, her words are not all lies.

For example, "An Dafu is good to their mother and son", it really can't be true.

When An Jianfang heard this, he couldn't help but pout, and secretly complained: The old man is indeed devoted to your mother and son, for your sake, he doesn't even want his own son and daughter, and he almost killed his father and mother!

Anne deliberately showed a touched expression, but said, "Oh, what are you talking about again?" We are husband and wife, who should I be nice to you if I am not good to you?"

"Although Qinghua is not my own child, he grew up in front of me when he was a child, he is well-behaved and sensible, and he is so good at reading, and he is a promising child at first glance. Over the years, I have always treated him as my own son. ”

Xu Yaping's face was full of gratitude, "No, you can't say that, you are good to us, you are kind-hearted, and our life is good, but we can't take it for granted." ”

"Over the years, your kindness to our mother and son, our mother and son have remembered every bit of it. ”

"Lao An, just like you said, although Qinghua is not your biological son, you raise him as your own son. And Qinghua also treats you as his own father. ”

"Qinghua is thin-skinned and shy, and he respects your father in his heart, but he can't say it. Over the years, he has said a lot in private, and he will definitely be filial to you if he has a future in the future!"

Anne raised an eyebrow.

Well, this seems to be no problem, but if you taste it carefully, it makes people very uncomfortable.

What does it mean to be filial when you have a good income?

Co-author Chang Qinghua is filial to his stepfather, or is it conditional?

So if he has no interest in the future, will he not be filial?!

This is why Anne is sensitive and accurately grasps the loophole in Xu Yaping's words.

If it was replaced by the original owner, it is estimated that he only heard the word "filial piety".

Looking at Xu Yaping's pretentious appearance, Anne can speculate that the original owner is estimated to have been confused by Xu Yaping's mother and son, and he doesn't care about these small details at all.

"Haha, what filial piety is not filial, the child has this mind, it is stronger than anything else. ”

Anne muttered secretly, but her face was full of ambition, and she even laughed proudly.

"Speaking of which, I have to say one more thing. ”

Xu Yaping saw that "An Dafu" was praised and almost carried away, and she was disdainful in her heart, but she didn't show anything on her face.

As soon as she changed her words, she pointed the finger at An Jianguo.

She said "I have to say", as if she was very embarrassed and hesitant, but the words she said meant something, "Jianguo, you are also in your twenties, you have talked about the object, and you are about to start a family." ”

"When you become a family, you are no longer a child, but you can't rely on your parents for everything. ”

"It may not be appropriate for me to say this, and you may blame me for the transfer. But I really feel sorry for your dad. It's not easy for your father, over the years, there have been several people in the family, and he has relied on him to support him alone. ”

"You always think that your dad is biased, but you have to fight for yourself. Like Xiaohu next door, he is not as good as you, your father made you a temporary worker, and Xiaohu is directly an unemployed young man. ”

"But people don't wait or rely on, and they don't force the old people in the family to retire early, and set up their own stalls to do small business, which is less than three years, and people have bought motorcycles. ”

"Ouch, every day I listen to Lao Hu showing off at the mouth of the alley with a tea jar, don't talk about your father, even I envy it. ”

Xu Yaping's words were heartfelt, and she didn't seem to have any selfishness.

That is, her identity as a "stepmother" is sensitive, and in the same way, if it is changed to her own mother, An Jianguo's brothers and sisters will definitely have no temper.

Parents like to compare, and it is even more normal to talk to their children about "who is in other people's families".

An Jianfang once listened to the neighbor aunt next door teach her children a lesson, and she "look at who everyone is" at every turn.

At that time, An Jianfang, who had no mother since he was a child, was even a little envious, thinking that other mothers scolded their children for the good of their children.

is not like her family's sinister stepmother, who speaks beautifully, but never touches her true character.

If others think that she doesn't care about her children, she will look aggrieved, "Mother, there is no one who doesn't beat her children, and my own son is not less beaten." But I can beat Qinghua, but if I beat Jianguo and a few of them, I won't have a bad reputation?"

"It's hard to be a stepmother. No matter, people say I'm not responsible. If I manage it, people will blame me for using the excuse to torture the child!alas~~"

After a sincere confession, Xu Yaping not only easily washed away the suspicions of others, but also gained a large wave of sympathy.

When An Jianfang was a child, she still felt that although her stepmother was cunning, she didn't come home with a black heart, unlike the rumored stepmother, who abused and beat her children at every turn.

But when she went to school and happened to read an ancient text of "Zheng Boke Duan Yuyan", she knew that there is still a word in the world called "killing".

Unfortunately, she understood too late.

If you want to study as hard as Chang Qinghua, it's too late, and in the end, you only got into a secondary school.

At this moment, hearing Xu Yaping actually come up with such a bunch of words, An Jianfang not only felt that she was "nosy", but was a little suspicious: Huh? Xu Yaping found out about her conscience and actually started to teach her eldest brother?

Even An Jianguo was a little uncomfortable.

If Xu Yaping compared him with Chang Qinghua, An Jianguo would definitely not be happy. felt that Xu Yaping was stepping on him to support his son.

But when she mentioned Xiaohu next door, An Jianguo didn't think much about it.

Well, Xiaohu is indeed quite capable. From setting up a stall to opening his own store, he has become a well-known 10,000-yuan household in just three years, and the neighbors around him regard him as an "advanced model" to encourage their children.

Compared with him, he An Jianguo stayed in the back kitchen all day long, waiting for his father to take over, and he was indeed a little unproductive.

Thinking about it, An Jianguo lost the righteousness he had just now, and he even lowered his head a little ashamedly.

Anne shook her head secretly, Xu Yaping's words were indeed very reasonable.

But the question is, in China, can parents and children only be reasonable?

In the inherent tradition and thinking, parents are devoted to their children with their hearts and lungs, and they are selfless and dedicated.

Parents who truly love their children certainly hope that their children will be successful, but if their children are really incapable, parents will also try their best to help their children.

Rather than reasoning with your children.

It's Xu Yaping, don't look at what she says now, when her son has needs, she won't stand by......