"Hehe, Grandma, you're right, people always have to look forward, but there are some things that should be remembered and still remembered, are you right?"

Hearing this grandma say this, Ye Huang smiled and agreed.

"Young people are right, after all, people are not plants, some things can not be forgotten in a lifetime, which requires us to dilute its impact on our lives, put it in our hearts, don't touch it, we will live better, if we can't let go, then life will be boiled, what do you say?

"Grandma is very right!" Ye Huang nodded.

It can be seen that the old man in front of him has a very thorough view of life.

"This person, there are a lot of hurdles to go through in life, no matter how long or short, as long as you endure yourself, anything can pass, my wife and I are a deaf and dumb person, disabled at any time, but this life has been through ups and downs safely. ”

"Heaven will always give you something back after taking something from you, young man, don't live in the clouds all the time, as long as you stand taller, it will be sunny above the clouds. Even if this flower was given to you by your mother-in-law, live well in the future, look ahead, life is still beautiful. ”

Smiling, the old man quickly handed the white rose that had been wrapped from his wife's hand to Emperor Ye.

"Xie Lu Xie, Grandma, can I ask you a question?"

Taking the flowers handed over by the old man, Ye Huang didn't say politely.

"Ask, if I can. With a smile, the old man tilted his ears sideways, as if he was afraid that he would not be able to hear what Emperor Ye said.

"What I want to ask is can a couple tolerate suspicion and suspicion between them, and what if the other person is not the new man himself?"

Ye Huang stared at the old man, wanting to get an answer.

The old man is a book, a book that has gone through vicissitudes, if the young man can't make a decision about something, he can ask the old man with a lot of experience, and often there will be inspiration at this time.

That's what Emperor Ye did today.

Hearing Emperor Ye's words, the old man raised his eyebrows, and then said with a smile.

"It can be seen that the young man has come out of the pain of your deceased girlfriend, presumably the person you are talking about is yourself, right?"

"Yes, Grandma, can you give me instructions?"

"The instructions don't count, and I'm not a sage, just a blind old woman. Young man, I also ask you a word. ”

"Grandma, excuse me. ”

"Do you love her?"

"Love!" Ye Huang knew who the old man was referring to and nodded.

"And does she love you?" the old man asked with a smile.

And this time, Ye Huang hesitated.

"Are you not sure, or do you think it's not love because you think she's suspicious of you and suspicious of you?"

"Yes!" nodded, and Emperor Ye did not deny it.

If it was before, Ye Huang could say without hesitation that they loved him, but today he didn't dare to say so.

Trust, suspicion, and opposing propositions, Ye Huang didn't know how to judge Lu Dao.

"What is love, young man?"

The old man smiled when he heard Ye Huang's answer, and continued to ask.

Ye Huang was silent.

What is love?

Ye Huang really never thought about these things.

"I don't know how to answer? It's okay, just say what you understand. ”

"Love is tolerance, giving, and mutual affection. Ye Huang agreed.

"Hehe, yes, tolerance, giving, and mutual affection, these are the qualities that love should have, but this is not all that love love, love needs it"

"Tolerance, this is the quality that men and women should have when they fall in love, and pay is the quality that two people should have after getting married, and they should refer to the quality of couples who have been married for many years. ”

"So it's hard to define love, even my wife can't tell what love is at this age, people who know love often can't see through love, and never define love, but I still want to add another one to the definition of love you have summarized, love is eternal patience, young people, do you understand?"

"Xie Lu Xie Grandma, the juniors seem to understand something, Xie Lu, thank you for your words, and the juniors know what to do. ”

The old man's words made Ye Huang re-examine how to deal with his relationship with several women.

As the old man said, love requires many qualities and cannot be defined, because any definition of love is interpreted differently in different contexts.

However, on top of the problem of himself and his daughters, Ye Huang understood that in addition to tolerance and tolerance, love is more of a kind of patience.

There is actually no lack of tolerance between himself and several women, but no matter how much tolerance there is, there is a limit, and the rest is patience, whether you can endure it is the key to testing love.

"Hehe, it's good that you understand, it's normal for young people to quarrel, don't always take it to heart, look at things from the other person's point of view, you will understand more. ”

"What Grandma said is, I think I know how to deal with my own problems, today Xie Lu Xie Grandma, I think I should go. ”

"It's nothing, I'm very happy with my wife today, let's do what I have to do. ”

Waving his hand, the old man said.

Afterwards, Ye Huang walked out of the flower shop with the flowers sent by the old man for free, and then got into the car and drove to the Nanshan Cemetery.

I haven't been here for a few months, and Nanshan Cemetery is still as cold as last time, and after the last time the old man was unfortunately killed, the whole cemetery has become much colder.

The gate was locked with an old rusty lock.

Parking the car outside, Ye Huang walked in with flowers, and a few minutes later came to the front of the wind chime.

At the moment it is very tidy and free of weeds, and it looks like someone has come to repair it.

There is no need to guess, Emperor Ye also knew that it was someone from the Nangong family who came over, and put the white rose in his arms on the tombstone.

Emperor Ye leaned over and kissed the beautiful face on the tombstone.

"Wind Chime, I haven't seen you in a few months, you won't blame me, will you?"

Sitting on the ground like this, sitting on the wet turf, Ye Huang's eyes were full of tenderness.

"Wind chimes, it's okay over there, will it rain like this Yucheng? Maybe, otherwise where is there so much rain in the sky, are you right?"

"Wind Chime, I'm doing well now, just as you hoped, I found my parents, although I haven't seen them yet, but I have promised to go back, and I have found you several younger sisters, although they are not as well-behaved as you, but they are still very obedient. ”

"I made one of your sisters cry this time, I don't know if it's my fault or hers, anyway, I said a lot of things that made her sad, she might have to leave me. ”

"I know you don't want this, in fact, I don't want to, but the reality is always like this, and I'm helpless. ”

Smiling bitterly, Tian Tian chapped his lips a little chapped, Ye Huang reached out to wipe the raindrops that fell on the photo and continued.

"Maybe I really need to change something, and if it goes on like this, the rest of us may not be able to take it anymore. Before I came, I asked an old man about the need for patience in love, and I think she was right. ”

"But love and affection, you know that the Tao is a matter of both sides, if I have been patient, they can't understand what to do, and I don't want to blindly pay, but I can't get understanding. ”

Ye Huang slowly said to the smiling face.