Chapter 363: Our Love (7)
Cheng Xianghua's sister is different from the rustic nature of her name, and she has a nice name called Cheng Yujing. Cheng Yujing is three years older than Cheng Xianghua, although her name is better than Cheng Xianghua, her appearance is not as quiet and beautiful as her name, and she can only be said to look ordinary and ordinary.
Cheng Yujing looks very much like her father Cheng Fu, although a pair of eyes are double eyelids, they are not big, the nose is a little collapsed, the eyebrows are sparsely put down, although the lip shape is okay, but the teeth are not aligned, especially the two in front are a little outward, so Cheng Yujing always deliberately purses her lips whenever she laughs, afraid that her teeth will be exposed. It's just that this way has exposed her shortcomings even more. Let him always feel inferior to his teeth.
Although it doesn't look good when it's separated, it looks quite pleasing to the eye when put together. Cheng Yujing is not ugly, but she is not a beauty, especially compared with Cheng Xianghua, she feels more and more that she is not good-looking.
If there is anyone in this family who hates Cheng Xianghua the most, it is not Cheng Xianghua's adoptive mother Zhao Zhishan, nor her father Cheng Fu, but only her sister Cheng Yujing. At first, it was okay when I was ignorant when I was a child, maybe there was already family affection between the bloodlines, so Cheng Yujing was pretty good to this sister, if she had a little snack, she would always secretly give Cheng Xianghua, which made Cheng Xianghua feel a little grateful to this sister.
But as she grew up, she gradually understood that her sister was not the same mother as her, and Zhao Zhishan always instilled hatred between the previous generation in front of her, so Cheng Yujing began to change from liking this sister to hating it. In the end, it turned into a bitter hatred.
There are many reasons why she hates her sister, first of all, what she hates the most is the shame brought to her by Cheng Xianghua's identity. Girls always have a few so-called rivals in school, and Cheng Yujing's rivals will always have Cheng Fu's cheating and her sister's origin in her words every time she hits her. Therefore, every quarrel will eventually escalate to an attack on the women of Cheng Yujing's family, and the girl's original words are like this:
"People who live together, she is not a good thing, what kind of good cake can you be? Eighty percent of you are the same as your sister, you are a little broken shoe, your home is a kiln shop, and your father is an old prostitute. ”
The young girl actually scolded people even harder. They secretly learned some extremely dirty language from their parents, and they sometimes felt that it was a shameful thing to scold like this, and when their opponents became red because of their words. They will have a great sense of satisfaction.
In fact, this does not mean that their essence is bad, nor is it because of the so-called inconsistencies that parents learned on TV. Parents tend to overlook the influence they have in their children's lives, and these parents always think that they are spending money. Sent the child to school. Therefore, the relationship between education and them is only one thing, beating the child after the exam.
One of the most common things parents say to their children is how other people's children are, and the most common experience they have to communicate with their children is how to make their children's lives more unhappy. They never read a single book in their off-duty hours, but they always say when they teach their children, what do you want to do if you don't study?
They feel that raising a child is a thing that children should be grateful for, of course, this society will not feel that there is anything wrong with this idea, because the ancestors have passed it down in this way. So the child became their private property, and became their tool for comparison. Good children become diamonds in their hands. You can take it out from time to time to show off to your relatives and friends, and children who can't achieve their goal of showing off have become a shame in their eyes. Whether it's the Chinese New Year or the child's birthday, they will always find an opportunity to humiliate them, and they will also call it the encouragement of love.
Do they, or the future we, really understand love? Is the love of parents for their children really selfless? If every mother's love had to be so great, then there would not be so many women lining up in the hospital every year to have a baby.
Many people don't want to admit that when they want to have a baby, it's not because you love him, but because you need him at the right time. Some families need a boy, so if they give birth to a son, the child they look forward to will carry all the love of their parents. But if they are "unlucky" enough to give birth to a daughter, that daughter becomes the one who owes them a debt to them, and she will have to bear the debt to them in this life and in this life.
Love is a kind of heartfelt thing, it is a bond between each other, it is not an IOU, it must be written that so-and-so must love each other for many years because of how many years he has eaten so-and-so.
And when you don't want to repay this IOU, countless people will jump out and spit on you, scolding you fiercely: You brute.
Love is also something that will be inherited from your parents, and in addition to love, there is also your way of life, such as violence.
Many children who grow up with domestic violence often inherit it in future families. Because this is how their parents told them to live at an early age - the use of violence can solve family problems.
As a result, they hate what their parents did to them in their childhood, and in the future, they often continue to apply this method to their wives and children, and from then on they play the role of abusers.
Fights between girls also originate from their mothers, who are often the kind of people who will speak ill of each other or scratch each other's faces for the slightest thing. These children find that this way seems really exciting, so when they encounter this kind of thing in the future, they will also solve it in this way.
At this time, adults often say bitterly, what is wrong with today's children? It seems that either the TV has taught them badly, or their parents have spoiled them, what a beating!
Are they the ones who are wrong? Or are they the ones who pass it on to them?
Of course, Cheng Yujing, who was slapped more than a dozen times, would not feel that there was a problem with education, so she put all her resentment on her sister who should not have existed.
Of course, she would not have imagined that if it weren't for her great father going to her sister's mother's bed, it would have led to everything that followed. So in her feelings, her sister seems to be a poisonous mushroom, born to grow into her happy home.
Cheng Yujing had a quarrel with someone after school today, she was not popular, but the girl who quarreled with her was very popular, so she brought four or five girls and threatened to block her at the school gate, and in the end, if she hadn't followed a teacher out of school, maybe today would be another lesson!
(To be continued.) )