"Now that you understand everything, then use your brain more to do things and talk in the future, and don't be as impulsive as last time. Now that you think about it, is it appropriate to quarrel with your parents for the sake of a man? If this man is really the person who can give you happiness for a lifetime, I think it is somewhat worth it. If not, would you be embarrassed to make your parents angry?"

Well, the mood eased up, and Qiao Nan immediately criticized Fang Fang's willfulness.

Fang Fang sneered: "Aren't I also forced to be anxious? Otherwise, you say, what else can I do, and if I encounter such a situation in the future, how can I deal with it better." ”

Fang Fang likes her current boyfriend very much, and thinks that this boyfriend is very considerate and gentle, and treats her very well, which is like the "good son-in-law" in her parents' mouth, who always comes to bully her.

However, when it comes to getting married and being together for a lifetime, Fang Fang does not have this level of confidence in this boyfriend.

"Stupid, if it's useful to be noisy, do you still have to run to my mother-in-law's house that day, ask me to vent my bitterness, and ask for support? That day, you can make it clear with a calm mind, why do you have to be noisy? The more noisy you are, the more your parents feel that you are acting rashly, not rationally. ”

"It's useless for me to be calm, they won't believe it. Fang Fang screamed, she was very angry to make a noise.

Qiao Nan drank saliva and moistened her throat, she will have no other way out in the future, maybe she can open a psychological consulting company, or someone who specializes in listening to people complaining and chatting, no matter how bad it is, being a matchmaker and taking a red envelope will become: "You are angry, don't no one believe you? No matter what, no one believes you, you hurt your own body and your parents' hearts." You give your thoughts clearly, and then you insist on what you believe, Shem. In this case, if you receive this call today, will you feel a lot less guilty about your parents? ”

"......" Fang Fang was speechless, but had to acquiesce in Qiao Nan's words.

This time, she often thinks about that day.

Thinking of the fact that her mother's eyes were red with anger at that time, her father's aging body trembled faintly, and Fang Fang, as a filial daughter, blamed herself. Reason has also been pulling and tearing between filial piety to her parents and striving for her own happiness, so that after she returned to school, she couldn't sleep for several nights, and even her boyfriend asked her out for dinner, she refused three times.

As a result, the people on both sides of her seemed to be hurt: "Then what should I do in the future?"

"I still want to think about it in the future, didn't your parents compromise? I know that I feel guilty, and after returning to my parents at the end of the semester, I will spend more time with your parents, chat with them, walk with them, and visit the park. Also, it's okay, call home two or three times a week to communicate with your parents, or talk about your life at school, whether you are happy or not, and what happens. After talking a lot, your parents understand you, and they won't quarrel with you for an 'outsider' in the future. ”

There was a coaxing in Qiao Nan's tone: "Your parents like Gao Yan so much because there is one point that you are not as good as Gao Yan." Gao Yan is sweet in front of your parents, and he makes it seem like he is your parents' son. The problem is that you are pro, Gao Yan can do it, you have to do better than Gao Yan, and snatch back your parents' hearts from Gao Yan's hands. Without the support of your parents, who do you like to marry in the future, can Gao Yan manage it?"

The more Fang Fang listened, the more reasonable she became, the reason why she almost gave in was precisely because of her parents' attitude.

If her parents favor her in the future and don't pay so much attention to Gao Yan, then Gao Yan's words are a fart, what is she anxious about.

The key is her parents' hearts towards whom!

One hundred ways, Fang Fang seemed to have opened up the second vein of Ren Du, his spirit was greatly lifted, and he was depressed before a while, like a big rooster with high morale: "Nan Nan, you are really my best and best friend, I woke up the person in my dream with a word, and after listening to your words, I was like an initiation, and I understood everything." Don't worry, I know what to do in the future, and I won't let Gao Yan take advantage of me again. ”

Looking at the phone call from her father today, even if her parents said that no matter how good Gao Yan is, she is a model for all children, but she is always the only one who is the daughter of her parents, and her parents' hearts are towards themselves, not towards Gao Yan.

She naturally took advantage of the blood relationship, and she had to lose to Gao Yan again, how inferior it would be.

With Qiao Nan as his military advisor behind him, Fang Fang, who has always talked little, has more contact with his family, and he will chat with his family from time to time.

At first, Fang's father and mother were still a little unaccustomed to it, and they didn't understand why Qiao Nan wanted their daughter to do this. It's just that there is more communication between parents and children, which is always a good thing.

Slowly, Fang's mother understood what Qiao Nan meant, and knew the usefulness of these calls: "Oh, it's so late, it's not particularly safe, you better not go out." I really want to go on a date, it's good during the day. ”

"In this way, it's not that you won't be allowed to experience life, you are still a student, and you are mainly studying. When you graduate, you want to stay at home and let me raise you with your father, but I won't agree. ”

"Do you want to live outside? What do I think? It doesn't matter what I think, what matters is what you think. Okay, then I'll tell me, you just listen, what to do, you make your own ideas. Fangfang, you are an adult, Mom trusts your judgment. You say, not to mention how much it costs to rent a house outside, my mother is most worried about safety. If you live on campus and have several roommates in one dormitory, your mother can rest assured. Otherwise, Mom is afraid that she will be so worried that she will not be able to sleep. ”

As a student, even if he goes to college, a student like Fang Fang is still very monotonous, except for studying or studying.

Fang Fang communicated more with her parents and talked more, but there was too little content to talk about.

After chatting about her studies, Fang Fang occasionally mentioned her boyfriend, she had the idea of boiling a frog in warm water, but unfortunately, the frog that stayed in the pot and was boiled became her.

It was also Fang's mother who found a way, her tone was not impulsive, and she no longer said half a word against the boy, starting from the role of caring for her daughter from beginning to end, so that Fang Fang slowly accepted her "opinion".

What if that stinky boy takes advantage of Fang Fang?

She just said a few more good words about Gao Yan to her husband, Fang Fang was so sour, she really went to experience life in society all of a sudden, and she would definitely be angry. In this way, wouldn't it give that stinky boy a chance to comfort Fang Fang?

Move out?!dream!