Chapter 1165 Self-reliance
Big money, he doesn't have it, small money, it must be spent.
In less than two months, his grandchildren will be born, how can he, who is a grandfather, not prepare gifts for his grandchildren.
Qiao Dongliang is also very practical, at this time, it is popular to buy gold and silver jewelry for children, saying that it is to ward off evil and keep safe.
There is more than one grandson, so he has to take a good look and buy two small bracelets to send over.
Qiao Dongliang said it so plainly, Ding Jiayi really couldn't do anything about Qiao Dongliang, unless she was the same as before, regardless of it, trampled her face under her feet, and quarreled with Qiao Dongliang until everyone knew about it.
When Qiao Zijin went to the school to report, Ding Jiayi's face was not very good.
As soon as Chen Jun returned to Pingcheng, he clearly told Qiao Zijin that the two of them couldn't get along, so break up, but Qiao Zijin refused to agree.
However, a breakup is not a divorce, and the marriage between the two must be officially interrupted only if both parties agree and sign a divorce agreement.
If you break up, as long as one party makes up your mind, and the other party is a little bit less stubborn, the breakup is a breakup.
Chen Jun wanted to break up with Qiao Zijin, how could the Chen family be stupid enough to continue to take out Qiao Zijin's school tuition.
The Chen family took it to sponsor a poor student to continue his studies, and he could still get a good reputation, and he really couldn't get back any of it when he spent it on Qiao Zijin.
The previous loss can no longer be taken care of, what the Chen family has to do is not to let this loss continue.
The Chen family stopped taking the money, and Qiao Zijin wanted to get this college diploma again, what should I do? Of course, Qiao Dongliang and Ding Jiayi regained their responsibilities as parents, took out this money, and continued to provide for Qiao Zijin to study.
Just for this matter, Qiao Nan almost received a sad call from Qiao's small courtyard in mid-August.
Thanks to Qiao Dongliang's conscience, he snatched the phone from Ding Jiayi's hand in a daze.
Qiao Dongliang warned Ding Jiayi viciously that if Ding Jiayi dared to make this call, he would dare to smash the phone at home.
How much money Qiao Nan called, he could snatch the money back from Ding Jiayi's hands and send it back to Qiao Nan.
Qiao Nan married into the Zhai family, she was still a student herself, and she had to take the Zhai family's money to live. also asked Qiao Nan to take the money of his mother-in-law's family and support his mother's family, Qiao Dongliang said, people want face, trees want bark, this kind of shameful thing, he will never do it.
Qiao Dongliang's attitude was so resolute, Ding Jiayi had no choice but to dispel his thoughts.
Who made Ding Jiayi understand in her heart that she didn't like Qiao Nan, and Qiao Nan's daughter had no feelings for her mother. There is only one reason for Qiao Nan to pay for it, and that is Qiao Dongliang.
Qiao Dongliang refused, no matter how good Ding Jiayi thought of it, it was just for nothing.
So, with all kinds of reluctance, Ding Jiayi reluctantly scraped together with Qiao Dongliang as if she was cutting meat, and made up Qiao Zijin's tuition.
But then, Ding Jiayi told Qiao Zijin that she could only give her a month's living expenses first.
The living expenses for the next few months have to rely on Qiao Zijin to earn part-time work, she is really limited in ability, Qiao Zijin has grown so big, she should have a little basic ability to work to make money, and she can't always rely on her parents to support her.
In a word, Qiao Zijin is an adult, and even a boyfriend will be found, so she has to support herself, don't add to the burden on her parents, whoever makes her parents and parents are all incapable and incapacitated.
Qiao Zijin took his tuition and a month's living expenses and left, what Qiao Zijin thought when he left, Ding Jiayi couldn't guess, only Qiao Zijin, the party, understood in his heart.
Qiao Dongliang is silent, which does not mean that he has no ideas.
He didn't stop Ding Jiayi, in order to cultivate Qiao Zijin's independent concept and attitude.
He could see that Qiao Zijin was too dependent on others, and she thought that if she wanted to live a good life, she had to rely on others, such as her parents, her own sister who was already married, or the man she was going to marry in the future.
Qiao Zijin didn't listen to his persuasion, didn't he think that Chen Jun's family conditions were good enough, and Chen Jun could let her live a good life after the two got married?
Such a thought is too dangerous.
Qiao Dongliang thought that if Qiao Zijin was allowed to work by herself to earn living expenses, when she slowly understood that as long as she was willing to pay, at least she was capable of supporting herself, she didn't need to rely on anyone, and she herself was also capable.
Then, Qiao Zijin will re-examine the relationship between her and Chen Jun, even if she finds a boyfriend in the future, at least she can go more for the other party's character, rather than because of the conditions of the other party's family and how much money the other party has in his pocket.
In this way, Qiao Dongliang clearly saw the resentment in Qiao Zijin's eyes, and did not stop Ding Jiayi, let Ding Jiayi do it.
After Qiao Zijin arrived at school, he didn't bother to call home to report his safety because he was angry.
Ding Jiayi said it to death, this semester, in addition to the money in her hand, Ding Jiayi will not give her another dollar.
So if she makes one less phone call, she can still spend the dollar she saves.
Qiao Zijin didn't call home, it was Qiao Dongliang who called Qiao Zijin's bedroom, or Qiao Zijin's roommate received Qiao Zijin who handed it over: "Zijin, Dad can see that your mother gave you that little money this time, and let you work by yourself to earn living expenses in the future, you are not happy." Zijin, Dad doesn't want to say anything, you've grown up and become an adult. Dad doesn't expect you to be good in the future, Dad just wants you to be a useful person. Don't blame your mother, our starting point must be for your good. ”
"Zijin, I'm getting old with your mother, and I'll definitely leave first in the future. When I live with your mother, you don't have to worry, we will definitely support you. But Zijin, have you ever thought about what you will do when my mother and I are gone? Yes, you will get married in the future, and you will have a husband to take care of you. It's not that Dad speaks badly, it's broadcast on the news every day, how high the divorce rate is now. Zijin, Dad wants you to be a useful person, you don't have to rely on others, and you can live well on your self-sufficiency. Can you understand our painstaking efforts?"
Qiao Dongliang spoke hard, just to let Qiao Zijin understand their parents' hearts and affection for her.
"Dad, do you want to say that the only thing I can always rely on is my own meaning?" Qiao Zijin said flatly.
"Yes, Dad really didn't misread you, you really understood the meaning of what I just said. "It sums it up very well, he is worthy of being a high school student, and he is much more literate than him.
Hearing Qiao Dongliang's very happy tone, Qiao Zijin secretly sneered in his heart: "Dad, I understand what you mean, don't worry, I understand." ”