Chapter 230: Born without raising, a great sin! (1 more)

Gu Yi'an didn't know how to respond to Tan Jincheng's words...... The update is so fast.

Want a baby?

Well, other people's children are very cute, they can tease, they can play, but their own children are completely different.

You have to think about his birth, his environment, his education, his upbringing, all kinds of things, and most importantly, if you can't take good care of him, then it's better not to let him come into this world.

Life is never an easy thing, some people say that people are born to suffer, although this is a refutation, but in a certain way, it speaks the hearts of many people.

There are always so many unpredictable disasters in life, and they always give people a blow when they are the happiest, making you feel painful and not 'wanting'.

Many things are often things that you think you are completely psychologically prepared for and can accept, but when things come to an end, it will still be difficult to bear.

Therefore, if you want to have a child, then you must be prepared to take good care of a child, be responsible for his birth and growth, so that he can at least have a stable foundation, so that he can have a certain confidence to face this not easy world.

And if you think that you are not capable of taking good care of a child, then really, don't let him come into this world, because for him, it is really not a gift of life, but a sin.

There are so many parents in the world, who have given birth to children but are not good at raising them, thinking that they have given birth to children and given them life, which is the greatest gift to children.

Not at all!

To be born without raising is a great sin.

Children don't know anything about the world, and parents think they are great because they give life to their children, but they don't think about it, and children don't have a choice at all.

Parents can choose to have or not to have children, but how can children choose whether to be born or not?

It can be said that everyone comes to this world by force.

Again, if you are not prepared or have the ability to raise children, then it is better not to give birth to them.

This world is not beautiful, there is no good pair of parents, children come to this world, they are suffering, they are going through tribulations.

In this case, Gu Yi'an has seen too much in the hospital.

The 'woman' tried in vain to tie up the man with the child, but the man didn't care about it at all, so the child was born without choice and suffered.

Because the child's mother finally knew that she couldn't tie up a man with a child, and for the sake of her future life, she didn't even want a child. And men don't care about children at all, and 'women' don't want it, so they will be thrown to 'milk' and 'milk' to raise......

Gu Yi'an couldn't imagine what kind of life such a child would have in the future after being born in this environment.

When he was a child, when the worldview and outlook on life were established, he suffered so much mental torture, so could he become distorted?

Investigation and research have shown that many criminals have an unknown sad childhood, it can be said that because children in childhood, they do not have the ability to regulate their psychology, so the 'shadow' shadow they endured in childhood will definitely follow them for a lifetime!

Countless repressions will erupt at a certain point because they can't bear it. The outbreak of the form of the table xiàn is a crime!

I have to say that Gu Yi'an's thinking is really too divergent.

But what she thinks is all the truth.

I told Jing Ji before that the child could not have a father, and the two of them would raise it, but at that time it was just angry talk, and it was also a kind of helplessness, which was the greatest support she could give Jing Ji.

But if you think about it carefully, a child is incomplete without a father. Of course, as long as she and Jing Ji work hard, they can also make this child grow up happily, but after all, it is not as good as a truly healthy and happy family.

And now, Tan Jincheng actually said that let the two of them have a child!

Gu Yi'an was really scared to death.

She never felt that her relationship with Tan Jin Cheng had reached the point where she could have children.

Tan Jincheng ruined the divorce agreement, so the marriage between the two still exists, in this regard, Gu Yi'an's feelings are very complicated, but there is also an indescribable feeling, which seems to be a little ...... Joy.

Although she is very reluctant to admit it, from the bottom of her heart, she does have some feelings for Tan Jincheng, no, or she has a lot of feelings.

After all, it is really difficult not to be loved by a 'woman' person like Jin Cheng.

But Gu Yi'an knows that at present, her feelings for Tan Jin Cheng are completely within the scope of what she can control.

In other words, if she separates from Tan Jincheng, she will be able to accept this fact very calmly, although she may be uncomfortable, and her heart may be cut like a knife, but she will definitely not look for death and life, and she will not be able to survive.

For Gu Yi'an, this is the kind of emotion that can be parted.

Before the relationship reaches the point where it cannot be separated, separation seems to be the best outcome.

But now......

Tan Jincheng looked at Gu Yi'an, he didn't know what she was thinking, but he knew very well that she must be 'fighting' between heaven and man.

I don't know why, looking at Gu Yi'an's contemplative appearance at this moment, he was very happy.

She didn't say yes, which was what he expected, and it was the most normal. However, the tangled expression on her face at least proved that she was really thinking about this matter seriously.

For Tan Jincheng, this is enough.

She, seriously considering the very fact of having a child with him, is a thing to be happy about!

This at least proves that she has a certain affection for him, and if she has no feelings at all, she doesn't need to think about it at all, and she will refuse directly.

For the next three days, Gu Yi'an was a little confused.

Tan Jincheng didn't do anything to her, nor did he have as close contact with her as he did that day.

Because she was worried that she had not come out of what happened before, and because she had been detained for so many days, she had lost weight, so Tan Jincheng asked her to recuperate at home for a week before going to work.

And Tan Jincheng, in addition to bringing back the necessary work every day, is like someone who has nothing to do, accompanying her all day long.

Looking at his leisurely appearance, Gu Yi'an couldn't help frowning, if this person continues like this, aren't you really worried that the company will go bankrupt!

"I'm going to work tomorrow." Gu Yi'an said very seriously.

After four days of rest at home, she felt like she was about to go crazy.

It's very simple, being stared at by Tan Jincheng's meaningful gaze every day is unbearable.

"Okay."

Tan Jincheng agreed.

This made Gu Yi'an very surprised, and she didn't agree because Tan Jincheng wouldn't agree.

"However, I have one more condition."

Tan Jincheng said with a smile.

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Today's nine watches, the cruel words have been released, do you allow me to take it back~~~~(>_