Tan's mother frowned and looked at Gu Yi'an, "An An, what are you talking about? I heard that children with autism seem to be saying that they can't feel the people and things around them, even if they are relatives, they can't communicate with him without long-term training." , the latest chapter of the visit wèn:. ”

Gu Yi'an nodded, "That's right, the symptoms of autism are like this. Unlike normal people, they are autistic and cannot perceive the world. So even if it's relatives, they won't 'communicate'. They can't hear what others are saying and don't respond to others. ”

"That's right, what is the situation with Rui Rui?" asked Tan Mu.

Yun Jingxiao shook her head, "When I took Rui Rui to the doctor, he was like this. The doctor also said that he completely met all the characteristics of autism, which is autism. But when I'm at home, Rui Rui will obviously 'socialize' with me, and sometimes when I get sick, he will take the initiative to take care of me!"

Gu Yi'an was also suspicious.

People will have certain psychological problems to a greater or lesser extent, but the severity is different, and everyone's method of adjusting psychology is also different, some people need to see a psychologist, but some people can easily adjust their psychology.

Autism is a kind of mental illness that is relatively strict, not that it does not mean that it does not like to talk and is unwilling to communicate with the outside world, or it is lonely and depressed, it is called autism. Generally speaking, an autistic person is unable to perceive the world, he cannot hear the sound of others, nor can he feel the emotions of others, that is, no matter what others do, the autistic person cannot be attracted to him.

One of the strictest cases is that a small number of autistic people who are particularly strict are not aware of the pain or danger even if they are injured. Normal people will be afraid when they stand on a high place and look down, but these people, they don't know how to be afraid! Of course, this situation is relatively rare, and it belongs to the strictest situation.

Current research shows that a certain part of the brain of autistic people is defective, and the development is different from that of normal people, and it is not sound. So their ability to perceive the world is too weak.

And as Yun Jingxiao said, Rui Rui can 'communicate' with her completely normally, and even have his own feelings, so even if Rui Rui refuses to speak and refuses to 'communicate' in front of the psychiatrist, it can't be said that he is an autistic person.

"I can't say the specific situation, if you have time, it's best to take him for a comprehensive physical examination, of course, you still have to ask an authoritative psychiatrist to do a comprehensive psychological evaluation of him. Gu Yi'an said very seriously.

"When I was abroad, I had already taken him for a psychological evaluation, but the results were all autistic. Yun Jingxiao said, "There's no way, but since he can 'communicate' with me, it at least means that his situation is not the strictest, I think maybe he will be better when he grows up." ”

Gu Yi'an frowned, "If he really has a psychological problem, it doesn't mean that he will be fine when he grows up." Even if he really has autism, then choosing the best plan to start exercising from a young age may not be the same as a normal person. Of course, not every person with autism can recover to normal with adequate care, but at least he can recover to a certain extent, so that he will not be unable to take care of himself in the future. You're his mother, but you can't stay with him for the rest of your life. ”

"An An is right, Jingxiao, don't shy away from the doctor, you still have to take him to the hospital to see. Hey, by the way, Xiao Zhan has also come back from abroad for a while, and during this time, he is busy with the marriage of the Pei family. I'll call him and make an appointment to show Rui Rui. Xiao Zhan heard that it is also very powerful, but I don't know exactly how it is. Tan Mu said.

Gu Yi'an smiled, "Rong Zhan's professionalism has nothing to say, you can let him show Rui Rui." ”

Yun Jingxiao looked embarrassed, "Thank you Aunt Han and Sister Gu, but let's wait first, I'm too busy during this time and don't have much time." Moreover, I have to discuss with Rui Rui before I can take him to the doctor again. Otherwise, Rui Rui will be angry with me, and when he gets angry, he will ignore me for a long time. ”

"Maybe it's okay, you bring him over for dinner together, don't tell him to see a doctor, and let Rong Zhan chat with him as a family, this may be more effective. Gu Yi'an said.

"Yes, that's a good idea, you can bring Rui Rui over tomorrow, or you can bring Rui Rui to me, I don't have much to do every day, and I'm bored alone. You don't have time to accompany him, I'll help you take it, maybe this child is just because he has too little contact with people, and it may be good to have more contact with people!" said Tan's mother.

Yun Jingxiao bit her lip, "Aunt Han, thank you, but I really have to discuss it with Rui Rui, if he doesn't want to come...... I can't force him. ”

Tan Mu didn't know what to say.

Gu Yi'an smiled, "That's right, discuss it with him, and respect his wishes." ”

At this moment, Tan Jincheng came downstairs.

"What are you talking about, so happy?" Tan Jincheng walked over with a smile and shook Gu Yi'an's hand.

In front of Tan Mu and Yun Jingxiao, Gu Yi'an was very embarrassed and wanted to shake off Tan Jincheng's hand, but Tan Jincheng refused and held it firmly. Gu Yi'an couldn't help but glared at him, but Tan Jincheng had no intention of letting go at all.

"Okay, okay, if you want to go, let's go quickly, and send Jingxiao back by the way, the child is still waiting for her to go back at home. It's so worrying that I'm not going to let you sleep here, really. Tan Mu said.

Tan Jincheng smiled and nodded, "Okay." ”

Yun Jingxiao hurriedly said, "No need, it's not on the way, I'll just take a taxi back by myself." ”

"What's not going to go along the way, and you don't have to drive them. Or I'll call another car to take you back. "Talking about motherhood.

"Okay Jingxiao, I'll send you back with An An first, and there's nothing else to do. Tan Jin Cheng smiled.

Yun Jingxiao nodded, "That...... All right. ”

Coming out of the compound, Gu Yi'an and Yun Jingxiao sat in the back seat, and Tan Jincheng sat in the co-pilot's seat.

Yun Jingxiao's place of residence was really far away, but thinking that there was a four-year-old child waiting at her home, Gu Yi'an felt that it was better to send her back first.

"When you were pregnant with a child, were you in a bad mood, depressed, or had other problems?"

Yun Jingxiao was stunned for a moment, nodded nonsense, and didn't say anything.

Gu Yi'an snorted, "When you are pregnant, the mother's affection also has a certain impact on the development of the child. Of course, the impact is not absolute, but research has found that when mothers are in a bad mood or stressed out when they are pregnant, the likelihood of giving birth to children suffering from mental illnesses such as autism and depression will increase. ”