Because if others see that they are wrong, they also gloat or beat them to death with a stick, then they will definitely feel bad in their hearts. Therefore, be tolerant of mistakes, whether it is yourself or others.

The courage to know mistakes refers to the cognitive attitude towards mistakes. Some people, thinking that they are all right, never miss it, even if they are wrong, they put it aside, ignore it, or hide from it.

This, of course, is not right.

Although right and wrong are relative, for each specific thing, right and wrong can be clearly divided. Therefore, to know what is right and wrong, especially what is wrong, we must dare to know it, and we cannot turn a blind eye to it, nor can we go around.

The courage to admit mistakes is the sublimation of daring to know mistakes. Many people, even if they know that they are wrong, it is difficult for them to admit it. It is no wonder that it is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. If you do it right, you get it good, and you want to grab it. I did something wrong, I was complained, and I didn't want to admit it. Therefore, it takes a lot of courage to achieve this "recognition" character.

However, many times, it is not okay not to admit it. Even if you don't admit it for a while, or cover up the past, you will find it back one day, and even create bigger and more mistakes. is just like the famous sentence in the Crazy Boy movie - "When you come out to mix, you always have to pay it back".

Moreover, people who have really experienced a lot of right and wrong will know very well what the consequences mean if they do not admit their mistakes. Just as "a lie needs to be fulfilled with ten or even a hundred lies", a false concealment often needs to be covered with ten or even a hundred mistakes.

On the other hand, if you "recognize" it, you will often be fine. It seems to be a kind of "suppression" for himself, but it is to remove the flashiness and return to his true self. What's more, when others see that you "recognize", they often no longer criticize you, but will feel that they can change their mistakes, and it is difficult to buy them. As a result, the internal and external environment can be greatly improved, and it will become "Yang".

This is a kind of realm ascension.

The emphasis on error correction is the sublimation of the courage to admit mistakes.

In fact, the fundamental purpose of knowing and admitting mistakes is to correct and correct mistakes. If you only know and don't change, and only recognize and don't correct, then it's better not to know and not recognize. As the saying goes, "those who don't know are not exaggerated", you know your mistakes, admit your mistakes, but still allow mistakes to exist and even happen again and again, fall three times in one place, and still fall without repentance, and fall endlessly, then you should really go to the hospital to check whether your EQ and IQ are negative.

For these points, Thangka is deeply understood.

He used to be not like he is now. At that time, he was known as the "lame general", and he avoided things like writing big drafts and conducting research, and he couldn't run away. In turn, he is keen to do coordination, exchange resources, and get things done.

Therefore, for the tasks with the nature of research assigned by the secretary of Yixuan, he always tries to transfer them to others, such as the research office, such as the secretarial department. If something really goes wrong, he doesn't have to bear it, and over time, he really becomes an innocent person.

Originally, the mistakes were all done. You don't do this kind of work, where is the fault!

Perhaps, some people will say that this is not wrong, but it is just to promote strengths and avoid weaknesses.

However, he actually knew from the beginning that this was wrong, and he also knew that it was not a long-term solution. So, compared to the average person who doesn't know what to do, it's a little stronger. However, even if it is strong, it is only limited. Although I know my mistakes, I just can't get over this hurdle in my heart, I can't understand the way in it, and I always think that if I delay it again, it will always be fine.

Unexpectedly, this drag really became a "lame general". It wasn't until he met Lu Qing that Wang Yixuan strictly ordered her to carry out "hell training" on himself, which could be regarded as getting through his "knot of pain".

It should be said that at the beginning of "purgatory", he was also extremely struggling. However, standing in front of him, it was his fiancée, the daughter of Old Man Lu, and Wang Yixuan's sister, it was useless to struggle, so he could only be forced to accept it.

Unexpectedly, after being forced to accept, an incredible change is slowly coming.

To say that most of this is due to Lu Qing, the first spy she gave to Thangka is, you have been wrong for so long, and it is no longer a half-star to lose to Zong Xincheng on the pen, and this fact must be admitted.

Thangka was not convinced at the time, but after thinking about it, he still lowered his head. Not to mention, Lu Qing has only been in Xijing for a few days, and she has already seen it so clearly. I've been there for so many years, and it's still a boiled duck - just a hard mouth.

When she said "admit it", Lu Qing smiled and said that it was good to admit it. As long as you admit it, you can get back the mistakes you have made over the years. On the other hand, if you don't admit it, you can only go farther and farther wrong, and the gap will widen. Here is a superposition of the outside and the inside, and the difference is not half a star.

Thangka was only unconvinced when he came here, according to what he thought at the time, he knew all these truths, but even if he admitted it, how much could he get back.

Of course, this kind of dissatisfaction only lasted for less than half a day, and it was quickly subverted by Mr. Xiaolu's "Hell Training Method".

This Xiaolu teacher actually asked him to copy the model text over and over again.

Does this girl want to treat me like a primary school student?

Of course, although he didn't understand and disdain, Wang Yixuan said that if he didn't even listen to Lu Qing's words, it would really be hopeless. So, after copying the same model essay three times, he seemed to understand something.

But at this time, Lu Qing suddenly took all the things in his hand, wrote the same title on a blank piece of paper, and asked him to write it again.

He was stunned at the time, isn't this teaching elementary school students to "write silently"?

Stunned, Mr. Xiaolu took out a stopwatch that he didn't know where to find it like a trick, and said solemnly: "Give you ten minutes, finish answering this question, you can use the words you just copied, or you can add your own understanding, but it's only ten minutes!" ”

Obediently, this is really a primary school student who has just enlightened himself! No matter how bad the little master is, he is also a graduate of the Chinese Department of Xikang University, okay, let's just say that the university patronizes the bubble eyebrows, but it is also from a scientific class, and there is always some foundation, right?

So, he wrote it angrily.

Not to mention, such an indignation still inspired a lot. I don't know why I copied those things that I copied three times just now, but they are like engraved in my mind, and they appear very clearly. So, he writes fast. And, oddly enough, after a quick write-up, he actually added something of his own. For example, it turned out that Fan Wen answered three major points, but he added one more point to become four major points, making the whole answer appear fuller.

Ten minutes later, he was still done.

Teacher Xiaolu didn't say a word, and directly copied the volume, at first he just glanced at it with disdain, but after reading it, there was a smile on his face, and he said: "I thought that you were the wrong guy because you were stupid." Now it seems that it is just for laziness. Not to mention, it's a little skillful! ”

He hurriedly answered: "Really? So, according to the theory you just said, am I already a lot closer to Zong Xincheng? ”

Teacher Xiaolu gave him a blank look: "If you get cheap, you will sell well, so complacent, it is also one of the reasons why you are wrong to get home, you know?" ”

He didn't dare to be complacent anymore, so he could only ask stupidly, "Then what are we going to do next?" ”

Teacher Xiaolu remained silent: "Keep copying!" ”

He couldn't cry or laugh, but he didn't dare to disobey, so he could only continue to copy like an ascetic, and then Lu Qing took away what he copied, and then silently copied what he had just copied.

Three times in a row.

However, in these three times, he still felt that there was a change. That is, although the hand writing is sour, this short-term way of copying silence has enhanced one's thinking and logical ability, or "awakening".

A prominent manifestation of this is that when he first wrote silently, he added a little content. By the second time, two points had been added. By the third time, he had already added four points and discarded one point from the original text. Therefore, in this third answer, only two points of the content he wrote silently are the original text, and the other four points are all his own opinions.

Teacher Xiaolu was as quiet as ever, and asked him in turn: "Let you rate yourself yourself, how much can you score?" ”

He showed his ruffian nature again: "Of course it's a hundred points, and even extra points, there are so many rich content than Fan Wendu, why do you have to give one hundred and forty or fifty points?" ”

Teacher Xiaolu couldn't help but laugh, glanced at him again, took the paper in his hand away, and then handed him a blank piece of paper, quickly wrote a question on it, and said: "Since you are so confident, then I won't give you any model essays now, let you write, or limit it to ten minutes, see how much you can write?" ”

He was taken aback: "Entering the actual combat so quickly?" ”

Surprised to surprised, she had already pressed the stopwatch in her hand. So, I had to catch the ducks on the shelves, and write as many as I wanted. However, it is also strange to say that the four that I added just now all floated in my mind in an instant. In fact, if you think about it, although the question just now is completely different from this question, the answer idea can be similar.

So, within ten minutes, he really finished the question on his own. Moreover, I wrote more than the silent question just now, and I actually wrote seven points.

Mr. Koji had a smile on his face, and he followed the same method and let him do two similar exercises.

He didn't say a word, he wrote with a smile, and he wrote more and more each time. In the end, this time, he actually wrote nine o'clock.

Teacher Xiaolu stopped: "Okay! Take a break! ”

Then, she showed him a complete copy of the exam questions and sample answers, and asked him to find the difference.

He looked at it and was very surprised, and couldn't help but feel that Lu Qing was indeed a "generation of famous teachers".

It turned out that this complete exam question, a total of six questions, was a collection of what she had just copied or newly produced. In other words, she let herself practice what seemed to be disorderly was splitting, and when she put it together, it turned out to be an orderly combination!

That's art, isn't it?