[Chapter 2, Volume 2]

Section 173 Chapter 172 Excellent Communication Skills

Thangka smiled at this time and answered next to him: "It's true! At that time, Lao Liu went to send off the airport to ask for it, and just in time for the secretary to come out of the back room, he chatted with Lao Liu for a few days, asked him how long he had been in the municipal party committee, and had waited for several secretaries of the municipal party committee. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 info Lao Liu has been counting for twenty-two years, and this is the sixth term of Secretary Wang. So, Secretary Wang called Lao Liu 'the elder of the Six Dynasties'! ”

When he said this, everyone who was in a lot of noise suddenly quieted down, probably wanting to hear how Secretary Wang suddenly praised this unknown "good old man".

After listening to Thangka, everyone applauded and applauded Liu Baoping, and some people praised Secretary Wang's compassion, such a big leader, he actually said such heart-warming words to a small section chief, it was really unprecedented.

Speaking of which, Liu Baoping was already excited, and took the initiative to ask the waiter to pour himself a full cup.

The thangka next to him was sharp-eyed, and hurriedly gave Wang Jialiang a look. Wang Jialiang understood and suggested to everyone: "I just mentioned the first cup, and it stands to reason that I have to mention the last two cups." However, let's change the rules today, make some innovations, and ask our 'Six Dynasties Elders' to mention a second cup, what do you say? ”

This time when the iron was hot, it really gave Liu Bao enough face, and with the bottom of the last glass, the veteran was no longer polite, stood up with the wine glass, and said loudly: "Come on!" Brothers, thank you for the first cup of salute me, listen to Jialiang's suggestion, I dare to propose that you drink the second cup! Just now, Secretary Tang relayed Secretary Wang's evaluation of me, and our comrades all said that Secretary Wang cared so much about his subordinates, which was unprecedented. I don't want to hide it from everyone, I think so, too! I have been in the municipal party committee for 22 years, not counting Secretary Wang, there have been five secretaries of the municipal party committee in front of me, and none of the secretaries have chatted with me like Secretary Wang. I'm so impressed! Just rush to this, I propose that we, the comrades who work hard and desperately every day, have a toast, with a good leader like Secretary Wang, it is worth our hard work and tiredness! The leaders are all in their eyes, let's not do it well, okay? ”

To say that although Liu Baoping is a good man, the past 22 years have not been in vain, he has spoken very measuredly, and he has really melted into his feelings, especially the feeling that after being recognized by the secretary of the municipal party committee, "no one knows him for ten years, and he has become famous in one fell swoop", which has resonated with everyone.

So, everyone responded again, shouting, "Good! "Get up again, raise your glass, and drink it all!

After the second cup, Ni Xiansen and Wang Jialiang both gave Liu Baoping a thumbs up: "Old Liu! You can say that again! One more, a third cup! ”

Liu Baoping just waved his hand, and refused to mention the third cup: "I'm already poor in donkey skills, so I can't mention it!" Let's do it, let Secretary Tang mention the third cup, without him, we wouldn't have gathered so much today, and we wouldn't have set off a peak so quickly, okay? ”

This flickering once again stirred up everyone's emotions, and they applauded one after another. There were even a few young ones who formed a cheerleading team on the spot: "Section Chief Tang! Come on! Come on! Section Chief Tang! ”

The arrow is on the string and has to be sent. It's already roasted on the fire, so don't twist and pinch, just go out and burn yourself, maybe you can get even hotter.

He picked up his glass and stood up, a wicked smile on his face.

He knows what to expect from this informal communication situation. Although this kind of occasion is informal, because they are all colleagues, it is very similar to a formal setting, and the core point is to give everyone enough attention.

He knew very well that the main purpose of today's bureau was to thank himself, but he deliberately downplayed this and turned it into a game of communication with everyone, to win their favor, so that they could vote for themselves in the democratic evaluation!

Therefore, he carried the sedan chair to Liu Baoping, the oldest qualification, and while everyone toasted to the patriarch, in addition to expressing their respect for Liu Baoping, they would also feel that he Thangka knew how to respect people, and he also knew how to advance and retreat when he spoke and did things, and he was very measured.

Of course, that's not enough!

If you want to be a real winner in informal communication, you must also have your own characteristics, and you must make people feel that you are different from other people and leave a very deep impression on you!

How can you show what makes you different from others in your next proposal?

He's already typed his belly, that's why he has this confident smile.

I saw that after he picked up the cup, he neither proposed that everyone drink together, nor did he say anything more high-sounding than Liu Baoping, but went off the rails and directly raised his glass to meet the three female colleagues in the conference section.

"Come, come, come! Since Lao Liu asked me to mention this last cup, then I'll mention one! Let's have this glass of wine, all the men pay tribute to our three beauties together! It is precisely because of you that our offices, desks and corners are clean and bright; It is precisely because of you that we old men do not feel tired of working; It is precisely because of you that we are more and more motivated, and we can make greater progress in the future! ”

Oh, my God! Everyone in the room did not expect that he would put such an important proposal opportunity on the three young female colleagues.

Will this trick work? Do women eat this set?

In an instant, the faces of the three conference beauties were already smiling, and they all cast admiring glances at Thangka, and their expressions became shy and lovely: "Oops! Section Chief Tang just knows how to pity the fragrance and cherish the jade, which makes us all embarrassed! ”

Almost at the same time, all the men stood up with their glasses in their hands and clinked glasses with the ladies one by one: "Come, come, come!" Let's pay homage to our lovely half of the sky! ”

It seems that this trick does work, because although there are only three women, less than a quarter of the fourteen, they represent "half the sky".

But don't underestimate this "half the sky", although they are small, but each of them has their own unique advantages, each of them can influence two or three men, or even more, so if you can master the "half of the sky", you can often control a large number of men, so as to win the whole world in one fell swoop.

In fact, this truth is not difficult to understand, but most of the men in the officialdom are self-righteous, thinking that they are bullish and coaxing, and they take pleasure in being above "half the sky".

But I don't know that these somewhat macho people ignore one point, in fact, if they come out to mix, sooner or later they will have to pay it back. If you don't respect women, you are tantamount to burying your political future completely!

Only villains and women are difficult to raise, offending one woman is equivalent to offending ten villains, isn't this self-defeating?

In fact, "Half the Sky" is not very difficult to get along with, her request is very simple, that is, usually be polite to her, say hello more, give more smiles, and "Half the Sky" will be respected from the bottom of my heart, so as to be twice as good to you, so that you can harvest a lot of unexpected joy!

Thangka's proposal made the atmosphere of the scene reach a peak at once. At this time, Ni Xiansen pulled Wang Jialiang to be the wine supervisor, supervising that each lady poured liquor into her glass. Then after everyone clinks glasses, the women's cup must be bottomed out, and the men's cup must not be left with any alcohol, otherwise it will be disrespectful to women.

There is both an atmosphere and a wine supervisor, and everyone will let go of this glass.

In the midst of laughter, the drinking game continued. After the three-cup proposal, everyone quickly entered the stage of mutual respect.

On this occasion, the most toasted is the thangka. Originally, Wang Jialiang and Feng Zheyuan just wanted to lead the conference department to thank him collectively, plus he successfully encircled Liu Baoping and Ni Xiansen today, and was favored by the three ladies because he advocated respect for women, so he became the hottest person.

He seemed to have been prepared, and at the beginning of the mutual respect stage, he took the initiative to lead the people who came to toast him to Liu Baoping, "The elders and young are orderly, and the elders of the Six Dynasties are respected!" Hahaha! ”

Then, he took advantage of this gap to eat vegetables non-stop, and even ate a few small steamed buns.

You know, it's easy to get drunk when you drink on an empty stomach, and if you don't hurry up and put something in your stomach at this time, you should get drunk if you respect a lot of people.

This is the political philosophy of the wine table!

To say that China's wine culture has a long history, it has a history of thousands of years. There is still a proverb that Chinese affairs are not negotiated at the desk, but at the wine table, which shows the importance of wine culture. Especially in officialdom, drinking alcohol is indispensable, and no matter which province, which prefecture, city or county, alcohol is the most important medium.

To say that this noodle drinking, there are two basic abilities that are indispensable!

One is the amount of alcohol you drink, which is the foundation. How much horsepower to pull heavy cargo. This "amount of alcohol" is basically innate, and more professionally, it is determined by the enzymes in the human body that break down alcohol. There are two types of enzymes that are broken down, alcohol dehydrogenase and aldehyde dehydrogenase. Alcohol dehydrogenase removes two hydrogen atoms from an alcohol molecule, allowing ethanol to be decomposed into acetaldehyde. Acetaldehyde dehydrogenase, on the other hand, removes the two hydrogen atoms of acetaldehyde and breaks it down into carbon dioxide and water.

If the human body has these two enzymes, it can break down alcohol more quickly, and the central nervous system is less affected by alcohol, so even after drinking a certain amount of alcohol, it will be fine.

The amount of ethanol dehydrogenase in the human body is roughly the same, but the lack of acetaldehyde dehydrogenase is relatively high. The lack of this enzyme makes the alcohol unable to be completely decomposed into water and carbon dioxide, but remains in the body in the form of acetaldehyde, resulting in nausea, vomiting, coma and other drunken symptoms. Therefore, the so-called people who are not good at drinking and drinking a small amount of alcohol belong to people who have insufficient or complete lack of acetaldehyde dehydrogenase.

In reality, people's alcohol consumption can be improved to a certain extent through exercise, but the increase is generally not very large, because the human enzyme system has genetic factors, and the number and proportion of the above two enzymes are a foregone conclusion, so the "alcohol consumption" will also be inherited.