Chapter 111: Caring for Joan of Arc
3. Choose to stick to it, but don't put deadlines on yourself. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info please search to see the most complete! The fastest updated novel is just like that, he didn't say what he had to do, but he chose to do it day by day, encouraging his dear people to live well. Therefore, everything he does is true feelings, singing is just a way for him to express himself, and more importantly, he always feels that she is the most beautiful angel. He didn't set a deadline for himself, but continued silently, so don't criticize him for the deadline forever, because you can't do it yourself, don't ask others, and don't store your ideals in a kind of sustenance. One can have idols, but one cannot take idols as saints. Just like the propaganda for the widows of martyrs, there can be, but more importantly, it is to make the widows of martyrs live happier in the future, which is the wish of martyrs in the sky, and it can also be understood by more people.
4. Even if you choose to leave, say goodbye calmly. Love is not something that can last forever by talking, let alone kidnapping. If you can stick to it, it's a promise to yourself. If you can't stand it anymore and decide to leave, it's not a betrayal, you have to be beaten to death with a stick. Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and each has its own situation. For yourself, you have the right to choose, and there is no need to be guilty for life. So, when you decide to leave, please be calm. It is good to get together and disperse, not necessarily cold-blooded and ruthless.
If life is only as first seen, what is the autumn wind and sad fan. Waiting for idle changes but old people's hearts, but old people's hearts are changeable.
Lishan said that it was half a night away, and the tears and rain and zero bells did not complain. How is Bo Xing Jinyilang, who wishes on the same day.
The first time I saw goodbye, it changed. Change and change, keep or leave, in the heart, through the years. Staying together is full of positive energy. Leaving is not necessarily negative energy. Smiling goodbye may be the same as the old wish, that kind of calmness, and the same positive energy.
No matter where you are, I will be there for you. ,
Wherever you go, I will be there. '
Whenever you whisper my name, I'll show up
I'm a man who walks the talk
If only I had left when you needed it most
So what is a commitment
If you're not because of sincerity
And to say those words
So what is a commitment
If that's just a total of wealth't
And we can't share the suffering
When love is strong
You shout out your heart
Those words will never fade
Even if we're all gone, they're here to stay
I know that God has sent an angel for me
I know it's my calling
I will accompany you
I will always be there for you
I will never leave when she needs me most
I'm a man who walks the talk
I will guard my angels tightly
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At this point, he pushed the keyboard forward, let out a long breath, and then took a beautiful sip of tea and began to proofread it from beginning to end.
When he looked at this carefully, he felt that he wrote this article very emotionally, and it fit well with this emotional song", which is by no means a princess selling melons and boasting, but a fact-like existence.
In fact, when writing this post, he still thought about it, and incorporated his true feelings in several places.
When it comes to the story briefly, he does "Jane". Since it's a story, don't go on and on, just make the general meaning clear. As long as it is clearly stated, the reader will naturally appreciate the moving meaning of such a moving story.
As for the example given after that, it was a real thing that happened to his college classmates.
That year, after graduation, his female classmate and boyfriend really suffered an avalanche in Meili Snow Mountain, her boyfriend was fine, and she was in danger, and she was rescued and regained her life, but she needed long-term care. The boyfriend also chose to stick to it at first, but in the "wearing" year after year, day after day, it was finally difficult to hold on and left silently.
The reason for giving such a real-life example is to create an atmosphere of contrast for the reader.
After all, although the story with my girlfriend is real, it is somewhat "incredible", and when you hear it, you will feel too difficult. It takes a lot of courage and perseverance to persevere, not to give up, but not just words.
In the daily life of ordinary people, it is difficult for most of them to "never leave". If not, what kind of scenario will it be?
I believe that the example of this classmate he gave is a relatively common phenomenon.
After all, as the old saying goes, there is no filial son in front of the bed of a long illness, and it is not for nothing that there are people who persist day by day like this. What "the most beautiful daughter-in-law" and "the most touching teenager" have also been promoted by various media, but they are definitely a minority.
It is precisely because of the lack of that the media will increase publicity, hoping that this kind of "rare" can play an exemplary role. I believe this is a common practice, not only in us, but also in the United States, the reason why the story touched the judge Jennifer Lopez, as well as many people on the Internet, is precisely because of this "rare" and "rare".
At this point, he raised a more profound topic.
That is, in the direction of propaganda, is this only "rare" and "rare" the only one? Do you have to be blamed and abused for all kinds of accusations if you persist but don't stick to the end, or if you don't "stay at the end" for various reasons and have to "leave"?
He has already given a definite answer in the text, that is, "not necessarily"!
As a person who is widespread in every life, we cannot always regard this kind of "asceticism" as the only norm and carry moral shackles on our backs. Since most people are struggling to persevere, should these people be controversial and beaten to death with a stick?
Of course not!
Of course, we should affirm this kind of inseparable companionship, because this is a spirit, rooted in everyone's heart, and with this, "love" becomes more meaningful.
However, for those who "stay together" and "leave", or who do not "stay together" to the end, there is no need to accumulate pin bones and verbal criticism. After all, such a thing that happens to most people is a "real situation", and there is no need to be overly harsh, and for them who have insisted on it and have kept "love", it also needs to be affirmed.
As for the result of the final "departure", it is good to face it. Can't be together. Be calm. It is good to get together and disperse, not necessarily cold-blooded and ruthless. It's just that, when you leave, please smile, don't be guilty, it's good for yourself and the other party. Smiling and saying goodbye, the same as staying together, that kind of calmness, the same positive energy.
When the article was written here, the whole idea was suddenly improved!
Originally, society is progressing. Compared with the past, the propaganda for the widows of martyrs and other heroes has been greatly improved. In the past, propaganda hated to make her a "Joan of Arc", could not remarry, and even restricted normal interactions, in order to establish an image, while ignoring the fact that she still needs to continue to live and needs care and respect in all aspects.
Heroes need to be publicized and deserve respect, but they should be given more humanistic care and the right to return to the ordinary. And at this time, the "finishing touch" with the article came out, heroes need to be ordinary, so ordinary people can also become heroes, and they can't be too harsh.
It is also positive and negative, and it exists on the first line. Through mutual comparison and conflict, we can come to the conclusion that we are absolutely sure of "staying together", but do not belittle "leaving", and frankly admitting each other and leaving with a smile is still a supplement to the meaning of "staying together".
After all, asceticism is not the only criterion, no matter what you do, you must pay attention to humanistic care and experience it with a happy and happy attitude, which is the real meaning rather than the sanctimonious and dogmatic "positive energy".
At the end of the article, he also attached a comparison of the Chinese and English lyrics of ". If this article is approved by Wang Yixuan, he is also ready to suggest that Lao He attach the MV of this song to the post, through tangible images and sounds, to touch more people and arouse more resonance.
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