"I'm not sad, she made such a choice, which shows that she is not suitable to be my wife......" Seeing Zhao Qiliang's discomfort, Zhang Ping hurriedly explained, "I'm telling you this, just to let you compare her with your wife." ”

Zhao Qiliang solemnly thanked Zhang Ping: "Thank you, I understand your good intentions, and I will definitely live up to your good intentions." ”

Zhang Ping was embarrassed: "Company Commander Zhao, I just thought about the past, and I felt it, not to uncover my scars to remind you." ”

Zhao Qiliang smiled and nodded: "I know, but no man is willing to do this kind of thing in front of people, if it weren't for helping me, even if you feel it, you won't say it." ”

"Not really, when I didn't figure it out before, I didn't want to mention it, but now that I've gone through so many things, I'm living transparently, and there's nothing I can't say."

"You two got to know each other by introduction, right?" Zhao Qiliang asked.

"It's not ......" Zhang Ping shook his head, "She and I grew up together, we were classmates in elementary and junior high school, and our academic performance was comparable at that time, either she was the first or I was the first, my family was poor, her family was also poor, and the worst clothes and worst food in school were the two of us."

Fortunately, learning has given us points, and no one looks down on the two of us, but this also leads us both to have a somewhat cold temperament, which looks quite arrogant on the surface, but in fact, I am worried that I will be laughed at by others if I show my timidity.

I don't know when, we all started to worry about each other, and then. We were both escorted to high school, and after she graduated from high school, she was touched by her aunt. I was assigned to work in the factory.

At that time, her family didn't want us to come and go, but just in time for my uncle to take me to the city, the opposition was suppressed.

My dream since I was a child was to be a soldier, so when I saw the recruitment revelation. I secretly went to inspect the army without telling my family about it, and I didn't tell my family until the results came out.

My father and mother were a little reluctant. After all, my uncle had to work hard to find me a job, but in the end it got my way, because they knew my dream since I was a child.

The problem at home was solved. I consulted with her again. Then, at that time, she was going to break up with me, saying that I didn't respect her, didn't think about the future of the two of them, and said that she was almost twenty years old, and I was going to be a soldier for another three years, which was simply selfish.

We had a very stiff time during that time, no matter how much I discussed it. She didn't even bother with me, and later. It was I who sued her that I continued to take the military academy entrance examination after becoming a soldier, and when the time came, it would definitely be better than being a worker, so she finally stopped messing with me.

As a result, in the first two years of my military service, the military academy had not resumed enrollment, and they were all to be selected, so how could it be possible in terms of my qualifications? Finally, last year, when enrollment was resumed, this crisis occurred again.

Although I would love to go to a military school, what is a man coming to be a soldier for? Therefore, I made the decision to go to the front first and then take the military academy, and for this, she broke with me completely.

To be honest, at first I thought she was messing with me, just think about it, after all, the two of us grew up together since childhood, and we have such a deep emotional foundation. ‘

It's a pity that I thought too naïve, she fell in love with the object half a month after breaking up with me, she was a team leader in their factory, and she was interested in her before, but there was me at that time, and she didn't agree, no, as soon as the position was vacated, she made up for that person.

Since I knew that she had found her happiness, I didn't write to her again, and later, my sister wrote to me that she was married.

After I left the factory, my sister took my place, close to her factory, and occasionally we would meet, she and my sister were friends before, after separation, the two did not interact much.

My sister told me that I can't blame me or her for this, after all, a big girl in her twenties can't gamble with her youth.

In fact, I know that my sister said this to comfort me, and she didn't want me to live in hatred, and she didn't want me to affect my future life because of that relationship.

My sister, I really think about it too much, or maybe I can't think about it, but after all, I'm already an adult man, how can I really ignore everything?

She is a woman who is afraid of trouble, change and danger, and she wants a stable and stable life, while I, a soldier, are difficult to meet her requirements.

Even if we really became and got married, the contradictions in the future could not be broken, indispensable, there were still a few soldiers in our battalion at that time, and they were the same as me, as soon as the family knew the news and knew that they were going to go on a mission, the woman withdrew.

So Camp Commander Zhao, we all know about you and Director Zhou, and we all envy it, maybe you think that this probability is quite high, but for us, the probability is basically zero.

Anyway, we have a few objects in the camp, some of them were yellow at the time, and some of them were yellow later, and now, all of them have returned to singles, which is like you, you have a wife and children, you are so happy. ”

In order to persuade himself, this is also hard enough, not only to talk about his own past, but also to compare other people, Zhao Qiliang looked at Zhang Ping with a grateful face, and really didn't know what to say.

"It's okay, I've been holding it for too long, and I want to find someone to talk about, after all, this kind of thing, only when you meet people who have the same experience can you talk about going together, by the way, how did Camp Chief Zhao and his sister-in-law meet?"

"We've known each other since childhood."

Zhang Ping's face was pleasantly surprised: "That's really a coincidence." ”

"But I'm older than her, and I'm different from you......" After a pause, seeing that Zhang Ping didn't answer, Zhao Qiliang continued, "My wife and my cousin are good friends, and when I was young, I often went to my house with my cousin to play.

In fact, I have always treated her as a child, and I really didn't think about it anywhere else, even if she grew up to be a big girl, I didn't think about it, after all, I was several years older than her.

Until I received her letter, she told me very bluntly that she liked me and didn't want others to take the lead, so she told me first, she wanted to take it, and I was not allowed to be good with other women.

It was a very domineering statement, but it moved me, and by going home to visit relatives, we made a marriage, and then not long after, she also went to City A and became a soldier.

Later, her development was smoother than mine, and for a while, I was very unconfident, especially after my sister got married, I felt that if my sister could find a husband who was so capable as my brother-in-law, maybe my wife would have other thoughts.

Because of my lack of self-confidence, the two of us had a particularly unpleasant quarrel for a while, but fortunately, my wife is a generous woman, and she finally forgave me, and when she learned that I was going on a mission, she offered to get married.

On her terms, if she wasn't with me, she would definitely be able to find something better than me, but she didn't, in this life, I really owe her too much, no matter what happens, I won't do anything to be sorry for her. ”

"If I knew that you were in such a relationship, I wouldn't talk much......" Zhang Ping stroked his forehead, "I'm just looking for a cigarette, where is the relationship between the two of us the same, it's different!" ”

"I'm passive because of my personality."

"My personality is not very ......active," after a pause, Zhang Ping said, "Don't say, Lu Caixia and I also took the initiative first, counting, we are really similar, but your wife's personality is different from Lu Caixia's personality, so our ending is completely different."

In other words, your wife is the kind of woman who can share hardships and prosperity, but Lu Caixia is the kind of woman who can only share prosperity and hardship.

At first, when she took the initiative, she didn't take a fancy to me, she just felt that our conditions were similar, and she wanted to find someone to keep warm, and when her conditions improved, if I was still like before, she should be separated from me immediately.

It's just that before she could make a move, my uncle helped me, so ......" Zhang Ping spread his hands, "There is really nothing to pity about the matter between us, if it doesn't collapse this time, it will collapse sooner or later." ”

"I agree with that." Zhao Qiliang nodded, "It's her loss to separate from you, one day, she will regret the decision she made, a woman who is so utilitarian, willing to marry her man, may not have much sincerity." ”

After hesitating, Zhang Ping looked at Zhao Qiliang and asked, "If I say, don't talk about her like this, I want her to live a happy life, what would you think?" ”

"This is also normal, we have different starting points, you read the previous relationship, and I, and only because of you express my opinion, so, even if you really say this, I will not think you are hypocritical."

Sighing, Zhang Ping smiled bitterly: "Then I'll tell you what I really think, I don't want to bless her, I won't curse her, I just want her to live her life, I live my life, that's all." ”

"Men are still more generous in this regard, basically, women ......" Zhao Qiliang shook his head, looked at the woman who walked over, and said, "To be exact, some women will do this kind of thing very annoyingly, like coming here now." ”

When she got closer, Ye Meiru looked at the two of them in wonder: "What's wrong, and you two want to stand guard here?" ”

"You should know, right?" Zhao Qiliang looked at her lightly, but the words he said were not polite at all, "You don't know who is coming today, isn't it interesting to pretend to be confused?" ”

"Oh......" Ye Meiru slapped her head violently, "I really forgot about this, okay, okay, then I won't bother for now, and I will trouble you to tell Master Zhou when I go back, saying that I have looked for him, and when it is convenient for him, you can pass me over, I really have something serious to discuss with him." (To be continued......)