Chapter 1064: Change
After the group went to school in early summer the next day, Zhao Yulan talked to Mrs. Zhao about her daughter's remarks last night, and looked at her little grandson distressedly while talking, "Mother, do you think Beibei's eyes are a little swollen?" ”
Mrs. Zhao looked at her grandson for a while, and shook her head funny: "You, you can really make trouble, such a small baby, just cry for a while, how can your eyes be swollen?" ”
"Hey......" Zhao Yulan sighed, "I didn't sleep Ning Shi last night, my ears were full of Beibei's crying, if I hadn't promised Xia Buchao to mix, I would have really hugged Beibei to my own room and watched." ”
"Yulan, I'm really going to talk about you about this......" Old Lady Zhao looked at her daughter with a serious face, "Think about what Xia has done in the past two years, is there anything unreliable?" ”
Without thinking about it, Zhao Yulan quickly replied: "That's not true." ”
"Isn't this okay, the child has grown up and understands more than us, so follow her, and she is the child's mother, do you think she doesn't feel sorry for the child?
Since the older generation has said, the mother is in charge of the child, the child is right, let's be afraid that the child will suffer a little grievance, but we must also admit that the child who is strict is promising.
Of course, our Xia is an exception, but we can't let the south and the north be allowed because Xia is an exception, now it seems that the south and the south are more sensible than the north and the north, but we can't let the north and the north make trouble because he is sensible.
Beibei always has to compete with Nannan for favor, if you don't care now, when he is older, it will become a matter of course, Nannan was just born a few minutes earlier than Beibei, you let him let Beibei for the rest of his life. Do you think it's appropriate to let the North take the lead in everything?
Moreover, do you think Nannan will willingly let Beibei for the rest of his life? It doesn't matter which one it is. No matter how good your temper is, it is impossible to only give without asking for anything in return for a lifetime.
Even if it's a mother and a child, do you really just pay? You love her and raise her, don't you also hope that she can be productive when she is older, and she can know that she feels sorry for you, and can she be good to you when you are old? That's it. It's not very nice to say, but is it just that?
Now the children are still young, but we as elders have to think about these things in front. Lest the relationship between the brothers be bad in the future, look at your eldest brother and your second brother, as an example.
If you are young, your eldest brother will let your second brother do everything. There are delicious and fun things, and I never rob your second brother. After a long time, your second brother is used to being taken care of by your eldest brother, and occasionally feels that your eldest brother has taken advantage of him, so he has a stomach, he is boring, and he doesn't say anything, he loves to shake his face.
It was your father who first noticed this sign of him and talked to him for a long time. said that your eldest brother doesn't owe him, and it is impossible to let him do everything. If he only knows what he gets from your eldest brother and doesn't give at all, one day, your eldest brother will stop caring about him at all.
Your second brother was seventeen that year, and he was not an age to fully listen to persuasion, but he didn't take your father's words seriously in his heart, until he followed your eldest brother to get married and saw too much of the relationship between other people's brothers, so he changed a little.
However, his temperament is already like that, even if he knows the truth, it is impossible to treat your eldest brother like your eldest brother treats him, especially your second sister-in-law, who is a mouthful, if it weren't for your eldest brother not having the same knowledge as them, it is estimated that the brothers would have stopped interacting for a long time. ”
Zhao Yulan nodded: "Yes, compared with the eldest brother, the second brother's personality is indeed unpleasant, otherwise I wouldn't have been close to him." ”
"Mother and your father don't want your brother and sister relationship to be bad, and never say that your second brother is not in front of you, now, you are also at this age, there is nothing to taboo."
"In the past, I was really unhappy that my mother and father always talked to the second brother, especially the second sister-in-law was such an unreasonable person, and my father and mother still let her, so I was very angry.
I remember once I had a fight with my mother about this, and I went home with Chuxia in my arms, and vowed never to go back to my parents' house again, but my father and mother walked to Dalin Village in the middle of the night, and brought us half a bag of noodles to ......" Speaking of this, Zhao Yulan choked her voice and couldn't continue, and suddenly realized that she was so ignorant in the past......
"Yes, my mother and father watched you walk away with Chuxia in their arms, and they didn't feel good in their hearts, but if we forcibly left you, your second sister-in-law would really be able to pack up her things and go back to her parents' house.
The problem is, if she really leaves, your second brother will have to invite her, and then you will have to bring things over......" After a pause, Mrs. Zhao shook her head with a smile, "Your father and I have finally saved you the food, so why don't you let your second brother send it over?"
There's no way, we can only let you go back, and then, in the middle of the night, bring the food you have saved......" Sighing, Mrs. Zhao smiled bitterly, "At that time, it was really difficult, your father and I were worried about your future days, but I didn't expect that you would have today's ......."
"Natsu, what's wrong?" Turning her head to see her tearful daughter, Zhao Yulan panicked, and hurriedly stepped forward to hold her daughter's hand, "What's wrong?" ”
"Is it Xiaomi's side?" Mrs. Zhao was also worried, her granddaughter came back at this time and cried like this, which made her think about it again.
"No, Zhou Mikang is fine over there, and nothing happened, but I was so moved to hear my grandmother and mother say this." In early summer, I sniffed and looked embarrassed.
These things, really speaking, have little to do with her, because it was not her in the early summer at that time, but such feelings are too precious in the northern countryside where patriarchy is extremely prevalent!
Her tears were touched, happy, and missing.
Yes, even if you stay here for a few years, you have truly integrated into this era and the family here, but in the deepest part of your heart, you still have a longing that you will never forget.
Even if she knew that her biological parents and grandparents were doing well, she still couldn't help but worry about them, I don't know if the early summer over there, which has been reborn, is like her, worried about the elders here?
Zhao Yulan and Mrs. Zhao didn't know these complicated thoughts in her heart, so they breathed a sigh of relief, and instead, Mrs. Zhao looked at her funny: "You kid, what's so touching, my grandfather and I are good to your mother, and it's not the same reason that your mother is good to you?" ”
"So I'm very lucky to be born in such a family...... "Chu Xia stepped forward and hugged Mrs. Zhao, and gave her a loud "pop" on her forehead, and then hugged Zhao Yulan to take a bite, and then proudly stared at Beibei who stared at her with big wet eyes and smiled, "Little bastard, I won't kiss you!" As he spoke, the probe kissed Nannan on the forehead......
"Whew...... "In an instant, the protest of Beibei sounded............
Looking at the little grandson who was out of breath, Zhao Yulan was so angry that she slapped her daughter: "He's only been a few months, why do you want to bully him like this?" You did it on purpose, how could you be a mother like this? ”
"Look at Nannan...... Mrs. Zhao looked at the difficult turnover with a surprised face, stretched out her little hand and patted the earth-shattering little guy from Beibei who was crying, "Isn't this too sensible?" ”
Zhao Yulan and Chu Xia were also shocked when they looked at such a situation, this behavior was too beyond their cognition! After all, only a half-year-old child will ......
What's even more amazing is that when Nannan's little hands touched Beibei, the little guy who was full of strength immediately stopped crying and danced with his little mouth......
Zhao Yulan couldn't help but say: "I think our worries are unnecessary. ”
"I think so." Old Mrs. Zhao looked at Chu Xia, "You don't have to deliberately do anything in order to change Beibei, under normal circumstances, don't be too biased towards him, as for the way Nannan gets along with him, it's up to them, twins are still different from other children." ”
"This ......" Chu Xia hesitated, to be honest, she also likes the model of the brothers, but she is really worried that the two little guys will play the scene of the eldest uncle and the second uncle.
Looking at her granddaughter's expression, Mrs. Zhao guessed: "Did you listen to what I said to your mother?" ”
"Hmm." Chu Xia nodded, with an embarrassed face, "When I came back, I didn't bother when I saw what my grandmother and mother were talking about, mainly because I also wanted to hear my grandmother and mother's point of view." ”
"Don't pick up grandma's words in your heart, your eldest and second uncle's situation is different, and besides, your second uncle has a boring personality, how lively is Beibei?" As she spoke, Mrs. Zhao stretched out her hand to poke the little guy, and the happy little guy who was originally grinning toothlessly became even more excited......
Or is it overcorrecting? Chu Xia leaned over to look at the two little guys, and tapped his fingers on the door of the two little guys, and the two of them waved their paws in unison, making a gesture to let her hug, but the difference was that Nannan stretched out for a while, turned his head to glance at his younger brother, and took the initiative to change the posture of asking for a hug to dance with his hands again......
"Little thing, you are too sensible...... "Chu Xia unconsciously picked up the obedient boss first, kissed him on the forehead, and then put him down, picked up his little son who was looking at him, "Little villain, it's only a few minutes away, so let my brother let you?" Forget it, since my brother doesn't care, my mother doesn't care about you. ”
"Xia, you have something to do when you come back at this time, right?" Zhao Yulan glanced at the time and reminded, "If you have something to do, you should be busy first, the children have me and your grandmother." ”
"I came back to get the notes, I was in a hurry to leave in the morning, and I forgot to ......" Chu Xia said as he put down his happy little son who was smiling, walked to the bedside and opened the drawer to take the notes, walked two steps and paused, turned around and asked, "By the way, mother, why didn't you see the fat aunt?" ”
Zhao Yulan smiled and waved her hand: "Let's go back to class first, I'll talk to you when you come back." (To be continued......)