Text Text_Chapter 1006 Yin Marriage One
In the eyes of many people, a woman like Yue Zitong, who is so beautiful that she is bubbling, marries a dead ghost, it is purely a joke.
Except for those ignorant girls who were moved by her infatuation with a certain man, Zifan is a normal person and will scoff at it.
felt that she was grandstanding: "When a person dies, he is a handful of ashes, and he doesn't have any sense of bullshit." Even if you make the wedding the most luxurious wedding in the world, he won't crawl out of the urn and lift your red hijab. ”
However, when the officiant of this yin and yang wedding is Director Liang of the General Office, and among the people who came to attend the wedding, there are Jing Hongming of the Supreme Security Bureau, Wang Yulin, the boss of MI13, and the two sons of the Helan family, Fusu, Qunxing and others, then this wedding, which is scorned by the world, will become extremely solemn.
What's more, the bride in this wedding is Miss Yue Zitong, the head of the Jinghua Yue family?
Whoever dares to scoff at it will give it a try.
The vast majority of men who know about this wedding will look at the handful of ashes in the urn, and they can't wait to burn themselves into ashes, lie in the crystal clear white jade urn, and then be held in the arms of Yue Meinu, who is wearing a white wedding dress that drags the ground, and feel the warmth of her arms.
Of course, they're just so crooked.
If you really want them to die, and then be burned to ashes, Hugh said that she was held in her arms by Yue Meinu, even if she ate it in her mouth, she didn't need to talk about it.
But they can be crooked like this, and then looked at Yue Zitong, and secretly cursed a certain dead ghost in his heart, and the dead Du Nima competed with the living for excellent resources.
Yue Zitong, who was holding the urn in his arms, of course ignored the thoughts of those passers-by, but under the guidance of Zong Gang, he slowly walked onto the red carpet with a blank expression.
Her jet-black hair, tied back by a white silk about two inches wide, hung down at her waist, swaying from side to side with the breeze, as if she had life.
Because it is a dead man getting married, no hotel will receive this kind of wedding, although it only takes Zong Gang's phone call to solve this problem, but Yue Zitong is still very considerate of public opinion, knowing that people who do business are basically very taboo about certain things.
So she arranged this wedding in a vacant lot in the suburbs.
As early as a week ago, Zong Gang, who was in charge of preparing for the wedding, personally brought people here and worked overtime to repair a simple hotel.
When the wedding is over, the hotel will be dismantled and everything will be removed, not even a single cigarette butt will be left, as if nothing had happened.
The preparation funds for this hotel cost a lot of money, just the red carpet from the roadside to the lobby, which is handmade wool carpet.
What's more, this temporary hotel, which took Zong Gang and others a week to complete, can only survive for half a day at most.
After the wedding is over, after the guests have a symbolic glass of wine, they will go back to their respective homes and find their own mothers.
Then, Zong Gang will immediately take people to demolish this hotel, use a large truck parked in the distance, pull it to a place where the garbage is professionally incinerated and destroy it.
The temporary hotel worth millions of yuan took a week but only half a day before it was demolished, and all the raw materials would be burned, which was a waste of red fruits.
But who made Yue Zitong rich?
People burn the things they bought with money, who can take care of them?
Who dares to care!
It is said that the location of this temporary hotel was also specially seen by Zong Gang and the Taoist monks.
Only on this small gentle slope of more than ten meters above sea level can the hotel be built to ensure that Mr. Groom can feel the bride's love for him over there - can he close his eyes contentedly, and then be put on a chain around his neck by the little ghost, like leading a donkey, into the city, after being fried and whipped, and then beaten into the eighteenth layer of hell, never able to turn over.
This is to prevent Mr. Groom, a dead ghost who covets the bride's beauty and delicate body, because he can't bear to be moved, when the ghost door is closed, he sneaks out and possesses a man and sexually harasses the bride.
Otherwise, it's just endless dreams for the bride every night, crying and saying I love you, please hurry up and come with me.
As a result, the bride's spirit weakened rapidly, and she was sick all day long, and it didn't take long for her to die and be taken away by the groom.
Therefore, in order to ensure the absolute safety of the bride, Zong Gang must invite a Taoist monk to choose a feng shui treasure to be the wedding scene.
This wedding is the yin marriage in folklore.
Yin marriage, also known as ghost marriage, etc.
Generally speaking, the marriage partners of yin marriages are basically children who are both dead or have died before the engagement, and the parents want to complete the marriage for them out of love.
Yin marriage is divided into two types: the dead and the dead, and the dead and the living.
According to ancient legends, a solitary grave in the ancestral tomb will affect the prosperity of future generations, so it is necessary to hold a yin marriage for the deceased.
Yin marriages mostly occur in nobles or wealthy families, and poor families rarely engage in such activities.
As for the dynasty from which the yin marriage came from, there is no way to check, but what is certain is that it existed long before the Han Dynasty.
However, because yin marriage consumes manpower and material resources in society and is meaningless, it has been banned.
"Zhou Li" once said: "It is forbidden to move the burial and marry the dead." ”
It's just that this kind of atmosphere has never been eradicated, and some of it is even directly manifested in the rulers.
The prevalence of yin marriage was the Song Dynasty.
According to Kang Yuzhi's "Yesterday's Dream Record", when an unmarried man or woman dies, his parents must ask a ghost matchmaker to say goodbye, and then carry out divination.
However, there has never been a rule for holding a yin marriage.
Although yin marriage is regarded as a happy event, it is inevitable that the etiquette of red and white things is mixed and intertwined.
To a large extent, it depends on the claims of the parties, so the form of the wedding ceremony varies greatly.
One thing is the same as a normal wedding, the yin marriage also has to be introduced through the matchmaker, and the two parties go through the portal post, go to the life hall to get married, and get the dragon and phoenix post.
Half of the gifts sent by the man to the woman are real silk rulers, gold and silver treasures, and half are papier-mâché clothes for the four seasons, two pairs of brocade boxes, and jewelry such as earrings.
This is called letting go.
On the night of the fixation, it was burned in front of the woman's house or on the grave.
During the communication, the "goose cage", "sea of wine", dragon and phoenix cakes, elbows, and fruits sent by the man to the woman are all real, but the clothes and jewelry are papier-mâché utensils.
The dowry sent by the woman is generally paper work, and after it is sent to the man, it is only displayed in front of the photo or tablet of the "groom" for half a day, and some are only carried around the man's courtyard for a week, that is, led by drum music, and sent to the nearby square for incineration.
Of course, the above ceremonies are not necessarily held for yin marriages, but the marriage ceremony is indispensable.
It is a high day to build a greenhouse, feast relatives and friends, and light the sedan chair in front of the door.
In the wedding room, worship the "hundred" full god, set up a low table on the opposite kang, for the "groom" photo or tablet, set up apples, dragon and phoenix wedding cakes in front of several plates, and have a big red flower, decorated with the words "groom" on the silk ribbon.
The woman's "boudoir" is offered a photo or tablet of the "bride", as before, and there is a big red flower, decorated with a ribbon, and the word "bride" is written on it.
After the sedan chair arrives at the woman, the "bride" photo or tablet is taken down by the wife, and the wife takes it over and releases the sedan chair.
At this time, the father and mother of the "bride" will inevitably cry loudly and chase them out of the house.
After the sedan chair returns to the man, the photo or tablet of the "bride" should be taken out and placed on the offering table on the kang of the wedding room, alongside the "groom". And tie up the two photos with a red head rope, take the meaning of the old moon and pull the red line, and reuse the red and yellow colored silk.
Only when the wife of the marriage gives the whole god "100 percent" incense and kowtows, even if the husband and wife worship heaven and earth.
Then the tea room will bring things such as "a glass of wine" to the yin wedding couple before the photo or tablet.
After the above ceremonies are held, find a good day to break the ground and bury, and the woman can raise her spirit.
According to the time designated by Mr. Yin and Yang, after the coffin was lifted, he immediately poured a bucket of water in the pit and threw down two apples.
At the same time, raise the red paper money high.
The man digs a hole on the side of the grave, exposes the groove of the "groom" coffin, buries the "bride" in this hole, and buries the "husband and wife" together.
After the burial, that is, in front of the grave, the wine and fruit are displayed, the red paper money is incinerated, and the marriage sacrifice is held.
The fathers, mothers and other family members of both the man and the woman cried and said "great joy".
After that, the man and the woman can be treated as in-laws.
The more famous secret marriage in history was organized by Cao Cao for his son Cao Chong.
According to the "Chronicles of the Three Kingdoms", Cao Cao's son Cao Chong "was thirteen years old, Jian'an was thirteen years old, and Taizu personally asked for his life." and death, mourning. Emperor Wen said to Taizu, and Taizu said: 'This is my misfortune, and you Cao's luck is also.'" In order to hire the deceased daughter of the Zhen family and bury them together, he gave the seal of the captain of the horse, and ordered the Marquis of Wan to be sent to the queen. ”
Here, Cao Cao hired a woman surnamed Zhen who died early as his daughter-in-law.
The most famous example of modern yin marriage is that four years after the death of a female star in South Korea, her mother always wanted to give comfort to her single deceased daughter, so she arranged for her to "get married" and hold a secret marriage ceremony with an outsider.
The star mother on the scene cried tears while holding the posthumous photo of her beloved daughter, and the monks held a wedding for a couple of "newlyweds", and the participants looked solemn.
The head of the Yue family, if he wants to hold a yin marriage with Li Yingying, who sacrificed for the country, of course he will not follow these secular rules.
What's more, Li Nannan doesn't seem to have parents, even if Yue Zitong wants to make a letter of appointment, he has nowhere to go.
She asked Zong Gang to ask to see Jing Hongming.
Jing Hongming regarded Li Nannan as his nephew, and his protection of his lover was no longer a secret in this circle.
Therefore, Yue Zitong wanted to "entrust" Jing Hongming and his wife to be Li Nannan's "reborn parents" and marry him.
As a result, Mrs. Jing Hong, who has a gentle and kind personality, was smashed out with a feather duster.
even reprimanded unceremoniously: "Go back and tell your family master, just say that the Jing Hong family can't climb their family!" ”
Why is Lady Jing Hong so angry?
Fools can see that Yue Zitong wants to use a meaningless yin marriage to tie Jing Hong's life to the Yue family's chariot to serve her family.
Originally, Jing Hongming and his wife greatly despised Yue Zitong's behavior of squeezing out the last trace of Li Nannan's use value for the benefit of the Yue family, and now they naively came to marry - this IQ is really high, I can't say it.
This wishful thinking is even more crackling.
It's a pity that the Jing Hong family doesn't bird her.
She knew where Li Nannan's mother was, and she knew that the eldest sister was the most qualified person to be Li Nannan's mother, but she didn't dare to go.
Yue Zitong was really afraid that the person she sent over there to propose marriage would be directly killed by the angry eldest sister, and by the way, it would be buried in the ground as fertilizer, red cherries and green plantains.
In desperation, she had no choice but to be a bride and a mother at the suggestion of Master Kongkong to manage the wedding.