28 Father-son negotiations
In fact, he usually doesn't beat children.
But reasoning alone is useless in this situation.
Because Han Huaiyi found out that this kid hadn't seen him for a week, he was actually proud of this state.
This is obviously a little crooked in the bottom of my heart.
The little sapling is crooked, and it is useless for you to pull it with your mouth, you have to poke it on the side with a stick, and after it is tied, it can grow straight.
So Han Huaiyi said: "Lie on the stool over there." ”
“。。。。” Tony is sensitive and murderous.
This guy's eyes turned and he was about to run away, but Han Huaiyi grabbed him directly, and pressed it on the stool with a crackling thud.
The kid suddenly cried wolf, and shouted from Victor to Mother, and even the names of Old John and Xiangshuai were shouted.
Han Huaiyi was furious: "If you dare to cry, if you dare to beg for mercy, if you dare to mess with your father's relationship, I will collapse you now!" ”
The fish hugged Rogers and was anxious to save his son.
Mrs. Victor stopped her: "This is a matter between father and son, and it is also a family matter, and it is also a matter related to the development of the second and third generations of the family!" If you don't have Charlie's insight, don't stop him. ”
Rogers looked through the old lady's shoulder in horror at his brother lying there.
He clearly heard his father's unprecedented anger warning his brother not to cry, not to beg for mercy, not to talk about his relationship...
A few minutes later, Tony was picked up by Han Huaiyi and sat back on the sofa.
The butt hurts, and Tony, who is full of flowers, grins.
But after meeting Han Huaiyi's cold gaze, he quickly sat up straight.
Han Huaiyi began to ask: "It's very enjoyable to be surrounded by a group of women, right?" So let me tell you, if it weren't for your father's power, you wouldn't have been treated like this, what do you think about it? ”
"I understand." Tony is well aware of that.
Han Huaiyi didn't continue to scold him, but asked, "What makes you enjoy more is Xie Te's respect for you, right?" ”
"It also comes from my father."
"No, I'm not talking about the obvious essence, I'm going to say another word, fairness."
Fair? Tony was dazed.
Han Huaiyi asked: "When you enjoy their protection, obedience, and even command them, have you ever thought about what you can bring them!" What have you given them? The world seeks fairness, and you must be fair to yourself and others. ”
"I..."
"Have you ever treated them to a meal or thanked them for their efforts? If you all took it for granted, then I'm disappointed in you. ”
"I didn't. I'm sorry father. ”
"What else?"
"And them. I'm also sorry for the girls because I didn't give them anything. "Qingqing
"Now that you understand, do you know how to solve this problem?"
“。。。。。”
"This brings us to another issue, that is, the staged identity and obligations of human beings in this world." Han Huaiyi said.
He then told Tony about the difference between boys in their school years, their youth, and their men's years.
He mainly reminded Tony: "Based on the principle of fairness, I raise you and need you to repay me with good learning, so you should do this, especially note that good learning is also beneficial for you to move on to the next stage." Not only do it fair, but also good for yourself, and make your father feel that you are a trustworthy and good child, so why don't you do it? Only a fool wouldn't do it, right? ”
Tony thought for a moment, nodded, but said, "You hit me." ”
。。。。
Tony said: "You didn't tell me these things before, and it wasn't fair to me that you hit me first after it happened." ”
My Nima, no, that's my wife...
Han Huaiyi endured the embarrassment and approved: "It seems that you have mastered the principle of fairness and used it on yourself first, which is in line with human nature." But you ignore the fact that your father didn't do that, he only had your mother, and he didn't have any other women. You yourself did not follow such an example! ”
"You mean, I can talk to one girl, but not all girls?"
"Is this what I'm talking to you about?" Han Huaiyi finally blew up, but Tony giggled, and he said, "I understand my father, I understand my current scope of responsibility." I was just kidding. ”
"So how do you solve this problem?" Han Huaiyi asked again.
"So you're the father." Tony didn't answer the question, Han Huaiyi covered his forehead, Tony is a cunning guy, he finally found out.
"Okay, son." After half a ring, he said, "Gather them and everyone to dinner, tell them what you plan next, and thank them for taking care of them before, and then get everything back on track." ”
"Got it, including the girls."
"Yes."
"But I don't have any money. Can I post a bill? ”
"No, you can't!" Han Huaiyi said: "You can't delay anything, so you have to borrow money from your father first, because this is an additional expense in addition to raising you, and you have to make an IOU." And you can repay this money by doing chores on the weekends. ”
"Okay."
"How much you need, how to spend it, where to treat what dishes, how many people in total, you have to make a budget! Because you can't say that you don't have enough money halfway through eating. But you can't open your mouth to your father, the lion. ”
"Understood."
"Got it?"
"Yes, I also thought of the question, can I borrow more after I have made a budget, after all, I can't just ask for this time, and then announce the disengagement with them, we will always have some interaction in the coming days. I feel like I should ... ”
Han Huaiyi was happy: "That's right, so this is what I want you to talk to you about next." ”
"What are you talking about?"
"In the future, I will give you $1 per month in pocket money, which is my favor. Your borrowing is extra. In addition, if you reach the top 10 of your class, I will give you $3 in pocket money. If you get the first place in your class, then I will reward you. ”
"What to reward me? No, father, didn't you say that it was my duty to study? ”
"You are already doing your duty by studying hard, but your excellent grades are an extra reward for my spirit, so I have to give something out of fairness, such as rewarding you. The current reward is that you get the first place and forgive you this debt. If you don't get it, then I'm sorry, but if you haven't paid me back after a year, I'll deduct your pocket money. And it's interest-bearing. ”