The story of the farmer and the snake has been passed down through ancient and modern times, this is a small story in Aesop's fable, about a farmer is very kind, in a cold winter, when he came home from the market, he found a snake on the side of the road, thinking that the snake was frozen, so the Virgin had a heart attack, put the frozen snake into his arms, and soon, the snake woke up, and after waking up, the snake instinctively bit the farmer, and finally killed the good farmer, the farmer regretted it very much before he died, He regretted that when he was doing good deeds, he failed to distinguish the situation clearly, and killed himself because of his shallow knowledge.

In this story, the farmer is pathetic and innocent, and the snake seems to be somewhat innocent, after all, the snake was supposed to hibernate on a snowy day, and it was the farmer's behavior that made the snake wake up from hibernation, and after waking up, it was inevitable for the snake to panic, so as to attack the farmer unceremoniously, because the farmer's behavior has affected its hibernation, and the snake can't find food at all in the winter, and it will starve to death if it doesn't hibernate, so it is natural to attack the farmer.

Although this is only the story of the snake, it can be reflected in the human society, some people have a heart of God when they see others are poor, and feel that they should help others, but they do not first understand what kind of character this person is and how they need to help, and once the help measures are wrong, it will bring great trouble to themselves.

For example, some people are hurt emotionally, all day long, a companion of the opposite sex feels too pitiful, so he instinctively cares about others, so as to let the injured person out of the shadows, but in this way, this person who comes out of the shadows may fall in love with this person deeply, and even regard it as the only reliance in this life, and the companion who comforts does not mean this, and even, he is a person with a family, but this comforted person will like others with an iron heart, if he is rejected, then there will be hatred, That is, because of love and hate, so as to hurt his former benefactor, therefore, this kind of person is absolutely inconsolable, even if he is hurt, let him figure it out slowly by himself, he can't help at all, at least the opposite sex companion had better not do this casually.

There are also people who have encountered financial difficulties, but this financial difficulty is an irreparable bottomless pit, which can never be filled, if you help such a person, then the person who is helped will always seek your help, until all your assets are emptied, completely drag you down, if you want to withdraw, then you will completely offend him, so that this person hates, and even revenge on you and your family, for such a person, it is absolutely impossible to help, who helps him who is unlucky, The only right thing to do is to stay away from such people.

Sometimes even if it is a good person, but if the way to help is wrong, this good person will become a bad person, for example, some people were originally just a small role, working very diligently every day, in order to support themselves and their families, and even living in poverty do not forget to be kind, but if someone helps this person and takes him to see this fancy world, then, this person's heart will change, when he has seen the luxury of high society, this life may never go back, just like a person who climbs from the bottom to the top, Once you fall back to the bottom, you will have a psychological breakdown, once you get out of the simplicity, you will change, a person who worked hard at the lowest level, after entering the world of flowers, the mentality will definitely change, it is difficult to maintain the original intention, and the requirements will become more and more, and the person who helps him, once he finds that the person he is helping has changed, will stop helping, and this will make the person being helped resentful, because you made him see this prosperous world of flowers, and you can't continue to help him get these, It's easy to create hatred.

Li An met such a person in his previous life, and he was also an ordinary man who farmed in the countryside, because the income was too low, the family would not be able to eat, so Li An was kind, took him to the bustling city, and helped him find a very easy job, at least five or six times higher than the income of farming at home, and also rented a cheap house for him, this person was naturally grateful to Dade at first, and regarded Li An as a noble person in his life, but as he became more and more familiar with the flowery world of the city, he saw that the income of the people around him was so much higher than his own, a heart is restless, I feel that I should also get more income, so I found Li An again and asked him to change to a higher income job, but this guy's ability is really limited, an ordinary farmer who farms the land, and has no skills, doing the simplest job is the only one suitable for him, and this person firmly believes that he must be able to do a higher income job, but he is suffering from no way, and Li An has a deep network, which can help him change to a good job, if he resigns, That just doesn't want to help.

This thinking is still stuck in ancient times, in ancient times, a person became a big official, and the relatives and friends around him followed the brilliant Tengda, which can be said to be a person who has attained the Tao and ascended to heaven, but the city where Li An is located is a city with extremely fierce competition, although it is also possible to obtain a position through relationships, but it must also have the most basic ability, if you don't even have the most basic ability, it will not work to go to the relationship.

So, Li An could only refuse to help this guy who made unreasonable demands, but this refusal completely annoyed this person, and he became angry on the spot, and the anger in his eyes could burn Li An to death, and he even yelled and pointed out that Li An had helped XX get a better position, and helped XX get a good position, only he was still doing this lowest-level lowest-paid position, but he didn't think about his ability, how many pounds and taels he had, and whether he could really be qualified for a better job.

Sometimes, it's not that others are unwilling to help and do good deeds, but that some things really can't be done, when you help someone in the early stage, this person is grateful to Dade, but when he puts forward higher requirements, and you can't help him do it, he will hate you, feel that you are deliberately not helping, and you don't even have a chance to explain, because others will not give you a chance to explain, and the closer you are to someone before, the higher the chance of being treated like this.

If Ang Lee just coldly helped this person at the beginning, let him get the lowest job, and then stopped contacting him and let him solve the next things by himself, then this person may not seek Ang Lee's help again, or even if he asks for help, he will not get angry in front of Ang Lee when he rejects him, after all, you don't have too deep feelings in the first place, so what reason is there to be angry?

People generally like to get angry at the people close to them, and the closer they are, the easier it is to become a punching bag for dissatisfaction, and if two people are strangers, such a thing will not happen.

Therefore, no matter what good things Yan Ruyu does, Li An will not stop it, but he will definitely not allow Yan Ruyu to treat the people he saves as sisters and brothers, and take meticulous care of these people, which will be very dangerous, at least if there are more people saved, there will always be white-eyed wolves, and the distance must be controlled.

If you want to do good deeds, you only need to give some food, or put the poor person in your workshop, so that this person can adapt to the environment of the workshop, and it is enough to be able to support yourself with your own strength, and you really don't need to take care of other things, so as not to burn yourself.

At Ang Lee's request, Yan Ruyu did so, she saved many people, and she was grateful by many people, but she did not have too much contact with these people who were helped, nor did she provide these people with help that should not belong to them, but Yan Ruyu's own heart may not really agree with Ang Lee's point of view, she is very naïve and kind, she always prefers to believe that the people she has helped are good people with gratitude.

Of course, there is nothing wrong with thinking this way, Ang Lee's worries are originally a small probability event, not everyone will ask for too much after receiving favors, and even become angry if they don't get continuous help, but there will always be such people, and once they meet such people, they will cause harm to themselves.

Therefore, even if it is only a small probability event, Ang Lee will not let this situation develop, and he will not allow his wife to suffer such harm.

Since this is the first day of the lantern festival, and the content of the lantern festival is extremely colorful, it is not until the middle of the night that there are fewer people on the street, and the road gradually becomes wider.

Pedestrians are becoming more and more scarce, but none of the dim sum vendors have left, all of them are sticking to their posts, as long as they can occasionally come across a business, it is a very satisfying thing for them.

After there were fewer pedestrians, the road naturally became easier to walk, but at this time, Yan Ruyu no longer had the strength to continue walking, and her two legs seemed to be no longer her own, and she was on a stool in a small stall, and she was reluctant to get up again.

However, with the gradual reduction of pedestrians, the vehicle control on the street began to be relaxed, and the cars and horses that were originally not allowed to pass can walk freely in the streets and alleys of the capital, which means that Yan Ruyu does not have to walk hard to enjoy the lanterns, just sit in the car and watch the lanterns.

"Come on, go and drive the car over, Madame is tired."

Li An opened his mouth and put a peanut into his mouth.

The small vendor in front of me is a small merchant selling peanuts, broad beans, corn, these small snacks, and they have been fried with oil and salt, the taste is still very good, eat in the mouth is full of fragrance, but unfortunately when you are not hungry, no matter how good the taste of the food is not much attractive, you will not be interested in eating a few bites.

The location of the vehicle is a little far, so it may take some time to rush over, and Li An and Yan Ruyu are tired, so they can only sit on the stool and wait, there is no taxi industry in Datang, there are no rickshaws and other human vehicles, and there are no pedal tricycles, so it is really not convenient, most people can only choose to walk, or buy their own transportation, and at this moment, Li An can only wait for his car to come and pick him up.

"Madame is sleepy?"

Li An asked with concern.

"No, I'm not sleepy, is my husband sleepy?"

Yan Ruyu asked with a smile.

Li An shook his head lightly and said, "With my wife by my side, how can I be sleepy?" Even if you don't sleep all night, it's very refreshing. ”

"Guest, isn't the dim sum delicious?"

"No, it's not hungry for us alone, come, collect money."

Ang Lee happily paid the money.

Soon, the vehicle was driven over, and the pedestrians on the street became fewer, so that it was much more convenient to drive, and as the vehicle gradually entered the street, the pedestrians also consciously walked on both sides of the road, in order to give the middle road to the vehicle, and the middle is a large number of lanterns, which plays a certain isolation role, so that the vehicles and pedestrians going in the opposite direction will not collide together.

Although there are fewer and fewer pedestrians, all the lanterns at the lantern festival will definitely be lit overnight, but some of the people who invite the performance will leave the lanterns, such as the previous Qinglou lanterns, the girls will definitely not suffer for a few people, and the children of the jewelry show will also go home to sleep with their pay, leaving only the lanterns themselves.

After getting into the car, Yan Ruyu lay down very comfortably with a satisfied smile on the corner of her mouth, sitting in a soft and comfortable car, which is much more comfortable than sitting on the small stool just now, at least her butt will not be hurt very much, and she will not have to continue to walk hard on her two legs.

Although I walked for a long time just now, there are not many areas to really visit, there are only about two streets, one is the street next to Dongshi, and the other is the street of Pingkangfang, these two small streets have consumed a lot of time for Li An and Yan Ruyu.

After all, the road with a lot of people is not easy to walk, almost an inch is difficult to walk, in addition, I also ate several food stalls, and took care of a few more idle things that have nothing to do with me, so time is naturally wasted.

At this moment, there are fewer pedestrians on the street, and the speed of the vehicle is relatively fast, this shopping lantern will come, the speed is naturally needless to say, it must be very fast, it only takes a short time, you can enjoy more lanterns.

The most important lantern area in the capital, naturally to give priority to watching, the distance is also the closest, that is, close to the streets outside the palace wall, the lanterns on these streets are the best, because the emperor and the nobles in the palace, there are a lot of inconvenient to go out of the palace, so, you can only stand on the city wall to watch the lanterns outside, and the nobles in the palace want to see the lanterns, naturally must be the best lanterns, the officials in charge of lantern matters, how can they not understand this truth, so, Naturally, he spared no effort to put the best lanterns on the street close to the palace, so that the nobles in the palace could better see the lanterns on the street.