Chapter 155: Will You Be Considerate of Each Other?
"What does General Ji mean by this?" Xu asked rhetorically.
The matter is said here, if General Ji is still hesitant and inconvenient to open his mouth now, it will be cowardice.
General Ji said bluntly: "The matter of the heir, has always needed fate, if my daughter marries, I don't know that you will not have a grudge because of today, and put pressure on her in the matter of the heir, and besides, your Xie family and son Lang have already bought a prostitute with a thousand dollars before the emperor gave marriage, if you become a relative, even if you occupy the position of a wife, who can guarantee that the Xie family will not spoil the concubine and kill the wife, and give my daughter a bad look."
"General Ji, my family Jingliang is not such a person," Xu said in a rather impulsive tone.
Xu thought that he had considered the daughter of the Ji family very much, but he didn't expect that his kindness would be regarded as a donkey's liver and lungs, which would lead to so many problems. Xu was inevitably angry.
However, being angry is angry, but she has to admit that these problems that General Ji considered are very likely to happen.
Her son is her own, and she understands her son's temper best.
If Jing Liang falls in love with someone, but he can't marry into the family openly, he can only let the other party be wronged as a concubine, then Jing Liang will definitely make up for the person he likes and spoil him.
If the person that his son likes is a sensible and peaceful person, then it's okay, if it's just a person who has his son's favor and his tail cocked to the sky, then at that time, not to mention that the girl of the Ji family will be wronged, even the couple will be angry
Xu took a deep breath.
The twists and turns in the back house, she couldn't understand it best.
In the early years, the Xie family also had a few uneasy concubines, if it weren't for her noble birth and sufficient means, I was afraid that her relationship with her husband would not be like this.
If she has a daughter, she naturally doesn't want her daughter to face the same situation as herself.
Xu hated it so much in her heart, she couldn't wait to pull Xie Jingliang out of the barracks and beat him hard.
If it weren't for this matter that my father caused so much trouble, why would she, a mother, be scolded here, and I can't refute it
At this time, it was not the time to complain about his son, Xu just thought about it
At the beginning, she quickly suppressed this emotion, and she looked at General Ji with a cold face.
It's all been conceded to this point, and she doesn't want to go any further.
Although General Ji thinks about things that parents will definitely think about for their daughters, she is also a mother, and she must also think about her son
It's not that there is no way for General Ji to dispel his concerns, but it means that she has to lose more of her son's interests.
Now that they haven't gotten married, they have already reduced their son's choices and chances to almost zero, and if something happens to the girl of the Ji family after she gets married, it will be difficult for her son to be a widower for the rest of his life
Even if it is a princess, it is not as demanding as the Ji family
Xu's expression lightened a lot, and he didn't want to say more.
Seeing this, General Ji naturally understood what the Xu family meant, so he stood up: "It seems that our two families are destined to be unable to become in-laws, since this is the case, then there is nothing to say, so I will say goodbye, and I will go up tomorrow morning, and I hope that Hou Ye Xie will not make a hindrance from it."
Xu knew that if this matter was allowed to develop as General Ji said, it would only be detrimental to her family, but at this time, she couldn't put her mind to block the choice of her son's lifelong events in the future.
Looking at the figure of General Ji leaving, the Xu family was extremely conflicted.
Old Marquis Xie is more rational than his wife.
He knows very well that once his son's marriage with the Ji family is completely yellow, in addition to losing their favor in front of the emperor, their Xie family will also face a very serious problem that is Xie Jingliang's marriage.
When the time comes, any noble girl with a good family background will not dare to marry Xie Jingliang.
No, it's because Xie Jingliang's reputation will also be ruined because of this incident.
I don't dare, because no one wants to get along with the General's Mansion. And the emperor will not be able to please him.
As for those who are of low rank and want to cling to the Xie family through marriage, whether it is the old marquis Xie and his wife, or Xie Jingliang, it is difficult to look at them.
There is no doubt about this.
"Brother Ji, it's slow, it's slow" Old Marquis Xie hurriedly grabbed General Ji.
There is an advantage for the couple to face this matter together, that is, after one of them collapses, the other can be matched.
originally thought that the person who collapsed the conversation would be himself, but he didn't expect it to be his wife.
On the contrary, he has become one of the peacemakers. Old Marquis Xie was stunned in his heart, but he didn't dare to delay more.
"We've been friends for so many years, so let's be considerate of each other," Old Marquis Xie said in a somewhat pleading tone. "What you just said is also out of a fatherly heart, both of us understand, but you also have to be considerate of us, if no one knows what will happen in the future, you can't, block all the back roads of Jingliang."
Xie Lao Houye's words, General Ji actually understood very well.
To be honest, in fact, when the Xu family put forward the conditions just now, General Ji was also moved, but although the conditions are good, there are still hidden dangers, and it is almost impossible to completely eliminate this hidden danger.
Therefore, the best way is to minimize the possible adverse effects of this hidden danger.
If this can be done, then it is okay for the two families to give in one step.
"You're right, we're all out of a fatherly heart for our children." General Ji took over and sighed. "You and I have been friends for many years, if it weren't for Ling Lang's disregard for my family's graceful face, why wouldn't this be the case?"
Seeing that General Ji's tone had a soft meaning, Old Marquis Xie hurriedly climbed up the pole.
"This incident is indeed something that our family did wrong, and I apologize to you. But Brother Ji, let's put our hearts into our hearts, this incident has happened, although it is not our original intention, but it does have an impact on Ling Yan, if this marriage is withdrawn like this, I am afraid that the children of our two families will have to go through a lot of twists and turns to find a lover. ”
This is indeed the case, but General Ji will not follow this.
General Ji's face, which had just eased a little, suddenly became cold again.
Old Marquis Xie saw it in his eyes, but he could only continue to talk hard.
He's gambling now, too.
The bet is that General Ji will not be rash and make it difficult for his daughter to marry in order to get out of the marriage.