"So what should I do?" Uncle Nangong Jing looked scared and asked.

"What else can I do? How you lived before and how you live after that, just when I didn't say anything! Lao Tzu smiled.

"But Mr. has already said it?" Uncle Nangong Jing asked.

That means that if you don't say that, I can live the way I used to live and live the way I want to live. But since listening to you, I? How can I calm down?

"Don't you want to think about these questions?" Lao Tzu asked rhetorically.

"This?"

"People have to grow up, they have to face life and reality! Isn't it? In the old days! With your parents and elders taking care of you, you can be carefree. Someone thinks about everything for you, you don't have to worry about it. Furthermore! When you are a baby, what can you understand? Isn't it?

And now! You've grown up! You know a lot, there are a lot of things that you need to deal with and face by yourself! At this time, your parents and elders can't take care of you if they want to! Isn't it? So! Forcing you to face it yourself!

At this time! You're going to meet the possibilities I told you! Is it the same with your brother? It was before, he didn't understand anything! Now it's different! He's grown up, and he's got a lot to face! Isn't it?

When we face real life and deal with problems, we have our own opinions. Our opinions may be different from those of our parents! So! We've changed! Isn't it? ”

"This?"

"What I predicted to you just now is just a conjecture, not necessarily true! Or! Just one of a kind! Isn't it? Maybe? Your brother, like you, has always maintained the brotherly bond between you when you were a child? Isn't it? He doesn't want to listen to anyone else, including your sister-in-law! Isn't it? You too! You don't want to listen to anyone else, including your wife and everyone! Isn't it? You're still brothers! Isn't it? ”

"This?" Uncle Nangong Jing thought to himself, I think it should be like this! How could it be possible for our brothers to change faces?

But! Thinking of Lao Tzu's various speculations, he shuddered.

"When you really grow up, you'll understand! When you live independently, when you face various events, you will understand! When the time comes! You'll be like me, making all sorts of guesses about the outcome of events! Uncle Nangong Jing! Believe me! I'm not trying to provoke the relationship between you and your brother, or your brother's affection and true feelings! ”

"This? Thank you sir! Uncle Nangong Jing thought about it, but still thanked him.

After thinking about it, he seemed to have an understanding.

Then he asked, "So?" Mr? What will I do in the future? ”

"Hehehe!" Lao Tzu smiled: "I just said it! How you lived before, how will you live in the future! ”

"I know this! Mr! I mean? I? ”

"Just have one more heart eye in the future! Don't trust anyone, let alone absolutely trust a person. Not trusting anyone is not the same as refusing to associate or communicate with people, which is not what it means. But! We can keep a normal mind to interact with anyone, only when we are in contact, and after a long period of contact, can we see a person clearly!

Other words! We don't trust anyone because we don't know what other people's minds and purposes are! Only when we come into contact can we see a person clearly!

Other words! We need to socialize with people, but! Be cautious in your dealings.

The same goes for it! We don't trust others easily, and neither do others. So! If we are too enthusiastic about others, then! Not only do others not appreciate it, but they may also be disgusted and suspect that you are cheating him! Isn't it? ”

"This?"

"If you can do this, you will be able to mix in the family in the future, and you will be able to continue to maintain the same relationship with your brother! Otherwise! There will be contradictions and misunderstandings in the future! Even if you don't have malicious intent, your brother and others will misunderstand you! If someone misunderstands you, can you still say no? Who knows what you're not doing well and that's misleading? Isn't it? ”

"Yes! Mr! Thank you sir! Uncle Nangong Jing seemed to understand something and said.

"Hehehe!" Lao Tzu looked at Uncle Nangong Jing and smiled.

Fang Zhong listened carefully on the side, thinking about Lao Tzu's words, and watching Uncle Nangong Jing's reaction. It seems like? He also felt something? It seems that Lao Tzu is also talking about him? There is a feeling of empathy.

"Sir? What about me? How will I live in the future? No? I? Where do I live? Will you still be with your brother? I? "Suddenly! Uncle Nangong Jing was a little confused again and asked.

"You should know what the situation will be in the future! Think about it, don't you? Your brother will inherit the title in the future and become an important minister of the Lu State. And you! Only to return to life in the fiefdom. If you have a good relationship with your brother, who trusts you and you are talented, then! It is possible for you to stay with your brother and become your brother's assistant. Isn't it? There are all kinds of possibilities, you should think about it, right? Won't you be confused and have no number in your heart? ”

"This?"

For Uncle Nangong Jing, he really didn't think about it so much. If he had thought about it so much, he wouldn't have asked Lao Tzu?

"When you grow up, you'll think about these questions!"

"Hmmm! Thank you sir! Thank you! In order to express his gratitude to Lao Tzu, Uncle Nangong Jing deliberately climbed up, and then respectfully kowtowed to Lao Tzu.

"Get up! Get up! Hehehe! Lao Tzu smiled and stretched out his hand to gesture, and said, "I hope you really understand my words!" Don't doubt your brother and sister-in-law and everyone in the future! Just now! I'm just giving you a touch of inspiration. So! Don't take it seriously! If I really think about this in the future and imagine everyone as bad people and people with unhealthy thoughts, it will be my mistake! Alas! I didn't mean it! Am I not? So that you can understand it right away? ”

"Thank you sir! I'm not going to think about it! I know the gentleman is tapping me! Thank you sir! Thank you! Uncle Nangong Jing kowtowed again, and then got up.

Uncle Nangong Jing, who was about to sit down, found that he was sitting in the wrong position, just opposite Lao Tzu, that kind of face-to-face situation.

Seeing Fang Zhong sitting on one side, he quickly moved his seat to the same angle as Fang Zhong.

The seat he sat on was the same seat that Confucius had sat on before.

Although Confucius sat opposite Lao Tzu at that time, but! He deliberately moved his seat back a certain distance. It is sitting opposite each other, but! There is a distance.

Lao Tzu didn't speak, just looked directly at Uncle Nangong Jing. When he saw Uncle Nangong Jing, he noticed his position and cared about his position, and he was very satisfied.

Fang Zhong sat on the side and didn't move, and he also looked at Uncle Nangong Jing like Lao Tzu. But! In his heart, he was snickering.

I miss you, Ma Daha! You don't know until now? Hey!

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