This phenomenon is very common in the village, and it is often seen that the brothers who are already married to each other, for the reasons of the resentment caused by their parents' partiality, the division of family property, and the provocation between concubines, etc., fight hard, and they are more ruthless than beating others.

But when his brother was beaten by someone else, he had to save him no matter what. This is called the hand cross-head (elbow) bent inside and not outside.

In the countryside, the poor family and parents generally devote the whole family to help the eldest build a house and marry a relative, and then hope that the eldest will not divide the family after the daughter-in-law enters the door, and then turn around and devote the whole family to help the younger brother get married to a family.

And the eldest daughter-in-law is an outsider, so she is unwilling to hand over the hard-earned money of herself and her husband to her parents-in-law; I also hope to get out of the control of my in-laws' family as soon as possible, so that I can be independent and work hard for a few years to be well-off; Therefore, she will try her best to encourage her husband to break up.

The boss thinks about it himself, over the years, my father and mother have been biased and small, and have only worked like a cow and a horse. All good things should be given to the small ones, such as reading, and the small ones should be allowed to read for a few more years.

It is also caused by animal instinct, under normal circumstances, usually parents will be open and secretly biased to the small, reading this thing, if several children come to read together, the poor family can't afford it at all, so they can only let the big one stop first, help the family do things to make money or something, it is impossible to let the small one stop, the small one has not grown up, and he can't do any work to make any money.

Unless the eldest child is very good at reading, it will let the other children stop and concentrate financial resources to cultivate one, as long as one of the family reads famous (admitted to a famous or good school and has an official to do), a large number of family members will be pulled ashore (of course, not everyone who goes ashore will pull a handful of their own family, or the ability is not enough, can not pull), so, such an investment is worth gambling.

But no matter what era it is, good educational resources are concentrated in cities. Therefore, in the poor mountain villages with scarce educational resources, there are very few people who can read the famous hall, and most of the children are ruthlessly forced to die in the mud in the fields to find something to eat in order to survive.

If you have never been a homemaker, you don't know how difficult it is to be a family, and how can a newly established small family understand the difficulties of being a parent here. And people are selfish, they have established families, and they all hope that their families can flourish as soon as possible, and they can be independent and free, and no one wants to be married or managed by their parents-in-law.

As a result, the contradiction came, basically many people after getting married, it didn't take long for them to start splitting up, this twisted melon is not sweet, the bull's head is not drunk, no matter how strong the parents are, they can't stand the centrifugal people to make trouble.

Unless you are from a rich family, and your parents are in the prime of life and have control of the family wealth and business, if you dare to divide the family, you will not give you the family property, and you will live by yourself, so that you can control those who dare to divide the family. But in poor mountain villages, few families are rich and large, they are all poor families, how can they have strong capital to support and speak.

Therefore, no matter how sad parents are, where can their children understand it? Then divide it, go to a good time for the future, if you have a younger brother who has not married, no matter how hard your parents work hard, it is better to marry a little bit better than being single (single). It's just that in this way, the little brother will be resentful, and there is no way, who told you to be reincarnated in this poor family, accept your fate.

Regardless of whether it is a poor family or a rich family, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and the rich family may make the brothers and sisters deviate from morality in order to compete for a large amount of family property, and even the six relatives who fought out did not recognize it.

Brothers and sisters are the fate of many generations of hard work, it is enough to live together for more than ten years, when they are young and vigorous, they can't see it, and when they become grandparents, they can probably understand the difficulties of their parents back then.

At that time, many brothers and sisters will still come back and get closer, but the parents are estimated to have passed away in a few years, and they can't see such a gratifying picture.

This kind of thing often happens in the village, a few years ago, Ermao's father and his uncle quarreled because of a trivial matter, normally they will not be angry because of a little dispensable thing, it is estimated that they have lived together for many years, and the grievances are getting deeper and deeper, so when it comes to a critical point, the fire is ignited.

The two of them were quite restrained at first, just scolding and fighting, but they didn't know which one of them scolded, scolding: "Fuck your mother". Now, a basket was poked out.

Originally, the scolding phrase "fuck your mother" has been a scolding mantra in China throughout the ages, and most people will naturally come out when they are angry.

But the problem is that Ermao's father and Ermaobo were both born by the same mother, and you say "fuck your mother" like this, isn't it the same as a beast, of course, these two Erha are immersed in their own emotions, and they haven't heard the inappropriateness of this sentence, but others were stunned when they heard it, and then couldn't help laughing crazy on the ground.

At this time, I suddenly found a person rushing out of the crowd with a flat pole, and slashed at the two or two Ha brothers; Everyone came back to their senses and saw that this Cheng Yanjin, who was killed halfway, turned out to be Ermao's grandfather.

It turned out that Ermao's grandfather had been in the house all the time, although he knew that the two sons were quarrelling, but the sons were all grown up and started a family, and the old man had already let go of it, and he couldn't take care of it. The friction between them is like not seeing or hearing, out of sight and out of mind, happy to be pure.

But this time it's different, when their sons quarreled with each other, they actually shouted such beastly words as "fuck your mother", fuck you, only Lao Tzu is qualified to say this to you. Now it's the other way around, Lao Tzu doesn't exert power, when I'm a sick cat.

So without saying a word, he casually picked up the flat shoulder behind the door and went out directly. The two Erha brothers were arguing, and they were suddenly flattened by their father.

was beaten by his own father, and he couldn't fight back, and he deserved to be killed, there is only one way, that is, to run quickly, no matter what is going on, escape a life is a life.

The two brothers are in their prime, and they are running with their lives, of course the old father can't catch up, even if they can't catch up, the mouth has to be snatched back, so Ermao's grandfather stood at the head of the village, jumped up with a pestle and scolded these two unsuccessful sons:

Fuck you, you two brutes, can't you even tell the old mother apart? Fuck, did you call your mother? Lao Tzu is the one who fucks you, and only Lao Tzu is qualified to say this. See when you dare to go home, and when you come back, I will break your feet......

As a result, because of this absurd allusion, it has become a classic conversation in the village, and the people in the village have been talking about it for several years, laughing at the people in the place every time they talk about it, and laughing at the people in the place every time they talk about it, without exception.

This matter is not over here, although these two stupid brothers escaped a few hills, looking back, this is wrong, the more they think about it, the more uncomfortable it becomes, the two of them just quarreled, why were they beaten several times? I can't fight back yet, it's a big loss.

I thought: It's all because of you, otherwise Lao Tzu wouldn't have suffered from this flat burden, this father, until now, he is still eccentric, and he will hit me so hard, and it is okay to beat you.

In this way, the more the two brothers thought about it, the more angry they became, and they began to do it without saying a word, and this fight was dark, from the head of the field to the end of the field, from the rope (ridge) to the middle of the field, and they were covered in mud, the same as the two mud monkeys.

These two have become mud monkeys, and they don't let them go, their fists are to the flesh, both of them have been holding their breath for decades, and they are finally able to vent out freely, this fight, it's really cool.

In the end, after being discovered by the villagers, both of them couldn't move, they were paralyzed in the muddy water, they were really powerless, and they couldn't even speak.

Both were carried home, and both lay down for several days before recovering. Since then, although the two families have not looked up and looked down, they have never interacted with each other.

But then something happened, which was an exception, Ermao's uncle got into a fight because of the conflict with his neighbor, and the neighbor also had a brother who was also at his brother's house, so they joined forces and beat Ermao's uncle enough to beat him to the ground.

This happened to be discovered by Ermao early, and immediately rushed home to call his father, Ermao's father heard it, didn't say a word, and immediately rushed to his brother's house as if he was playing with his life, and played with his life to fight with the two brothers, and the people saw a madman, so they retreated.

Ermao's father took his brother back to the bed, asked someone to invite Lang Zhong to see a doctor, grabbed medicine, boiled medicine, and never left his brother's side for a moment. It wasn't until the elder brother was able to get out of bed and walk after his body and bones recovered that he left.

At this time, the two brothers had nothing to talk about together, and no one revealed it, but Ermao and his uncle were well, and Ermao's father left, and then the two met in the field, and they didn't say a word, and they didn't say hello, as if nothing happened last time.

In the village, no one thinks this is incomprehensible, they all think it is normal, their brother is suffering, no matter how much hatred he has with himself, he has to come to the rescue, and if he doesn't save it, he will be poked in the back. Since it is a matter of duty to come to the rescue, there is nothing to praise.

As for the private contradictions between two people, it has to be the same thing, and it should be the same. The love I owe this time is just a big deal to save you once in the future, and it has nothing to do with the past.

Many people in the village have not read any books, nor do they know so many truths and regulations, but they have their own set of principles and systems for most things, and thoroughly implement them.

Because you have been with the villagers all your life, you can't do things without following the rules and never come back. Even if you can eat with your strength in the city outside when you are young, but when you are old, you can't do it, no one outside can support you, and you have to return to your own land.

If you always violate the rules in front of the people in the village who got along with you in the past, your reputation and credit coefficient will immediately spread to everyone in the village, and then everyone will guard against you, and you may have a lifetime in the future, and the cost of this violation will inevitably be too great. Therefore, this moral self-restraint is more conscious and effective in the village peasants.

The people in the city who are moving everywhere are different, not many people know me, and others are not familiar with me, so there is no way to spread the word about my bad deeds; As long as I don't break the law when I do bad things, the government can't do anything about me, others don't know, and not many people know about it, even if they do, they don't care, or they don't want to care.

If I can't mix it anymore, I will change places and look like a well-dressed person, others still think that I am a righteous man with high morals, and my credit coefficient is high, but I still cooperate with me and am deceived by me, and I live a much more nourished life than those who are honest and duty-conscious; This is "the big hidden in the city, the small hidden in the wild".