36. Parental perceptions
Mingyue didn't take a few steps, suddenly stopped, Mingcheng also stopped, because he didn't dare to move anymore, it turned out that Mingyue had a free hand, and he didn't know where to take out a short knife and put it on his neck......
Good guy, this mother and son are the same people, of course, Mingcheng didn't know that his mother would be such a person, on the surface it seems to be weak, but in fact, he is tough and resolute, stubborn, and not afraid of life and death.
Everyone turned around, not daring to move, looking at Mingyue, Mingyue's face with teardrops, actually laughed, and said: "Pull me, come, pull, pull me again, I'll die here"
Mingcheng's head got big all of a sudden, I'll go, what's going on, I didn't expect Mingyue to make this move, calmed down a little, took out an object, and said to my sister:
"Look, do you know what this thing is? It's my mother's hairpin, you should recognize it."
“……”
"Before I came to chase you, my mother pulled me and said, don't let Mingyue do stupid things, it's really not good, just let you go, this is in a hurry and there is nothing to prepare, just give me this blonde hairpin to Mingyue, and it's okay to do some winding on the road......"
"Mother......", the tough Mingyue finally softened, her mouth flattened, and she called "Mother", and tears couldn't stop flowing.
My mother is so good and dear to herself, but I have done such a big and sorry thing for her, and this time, I am afraid that I will not be able to see my mother for the rest of my life, it is considered goodbye, my mother took me so big, I have not honored her.
In fact, when Mingyue wanted her father to marry and defend the city, she strongly disagreed with her mother, and even directly told her mother that she only liked Sangou, and she would marry Sangou if she married.
Mother looked at Mingyue, like looking in a mirror, vaguely seeing her when she was young, and couldn't help sighing, "Don't you know, Sangou is your brother?" How can a sister marry an older brother".
"Brother Sangou is just a godbrother, not a biological brother, what's not to do", Mingyue disagreed.
However, when Mingcheng's mother discussed this matter with Mingcheng's father, she didn't expect that Mingcheng's father would resolutely refuse the request for change.
Mingcheng's father thinks that Sangou and Mingyue are brother and sister, and they are both in the same village, and the whole village knows the relationship between this brother and sister. Where will the face of the old Wang family be put in the future?
Second, there is a first-come, first-come, first- The city defender is in their place, and it is also a family with a head and a face, where will the face of the people go?
The third is Sangou's parents, who have never meant this, and have never proposed it, the man doesn't mean this, and your woman still sticks her face to others? Do you want to save face?
The last one is, what kind of experience do children have, what do you know if you like or dislike, live closer and play more, and you like it? Ridiculous nonsense.
Take 10,000 steps back and say, even if you like it, so what? Can it be eaten as a meal? The marriage of this child is not determined by the parents, and it cannot be left to her, she is not sensible now, and she will naturally know the good intentions of her parents in the future.
Of course, there is a layer of meaning in this that is not explained thoroughly, that is, the door is right, the Mingyue family and the city guard family are the right door, and with the Sangou family, it is not the right door.
From the perspective of face, the right person wants to save face, from the inside, Mingyue married in the past, the family is a big family, not worried about food and clothing, as parents, of course, they want their daughters to have a good home.
And on the side of the Sangou family, even if the relationship between the two families is very good, the relationship is very deep, and even Mingyue's life is exchanged for the life of the Sangou father, if the Sangou family comes to propose marriage first, Mingcheng's father will definitely agree, this is the face of the village, where is it worthy of this fateful friendship.
However, their family didn't mention it, so it's another matter, and the Sangou family is indeed average, and the daughter married in the past, although it is under his nose, but he can't help for a lifetime, and his parents will die first, what will they do in the future? Is it just for my daughter to live a poor life for the rest of her life? Think about it, which parent is not distressed, which parent would be willing to do this?
So, in short, it doesn't work.
Mingcheng's mother saw that these were all truths, and she couldn't refute them, so she secretly went to Sangou's mother to talk about it, Sangou's mother naturally likes Mingyue, and with such a daughter-in-law, it's like finding a treasure under the sea.
So on the side of the pillow at night, I tried to ask the three dog fathers about this, but I didn't expect that the three dog fathers' refusals were roughly similar to Ming Cheng's father.
It's just that there are still a few points that have not been thoroughly explained, although when there were bandits back then, he helped Mingcheng's family, it was also voluntary, or it was a friendship from childhood to adulthood, and if he didn't help, people would be disdainful. But if you help, you will help, and you can't talk about it, otherwise it will be too small.
Moreover, Mingyue is a child who has grown up, as close as her own daughter, even if she is not a goddaughter, such a good relationship, she must hope that she will have a good home, and she can't be selfish to let her marry into a poor family like us, delaying her life.
As for the child Sangou, it seems that he can't see whether he likes Mingyue or not, or if he likes it, so it's also the love of his brother and sister? Anyway, I haven't seen him bring it up himself, so take a step back and say, even if you like it, so what?
The girls in the world are much better, how can they just wait for this little grass by the nest; As a man, you should have a higher vision and a little farther away.
So, in short, it doesn't work.
This bright moon, for the first time in life, suffered a lot of setbacks, and the worst thing is that this is a big event related to a lifetime of happiness. It doesn't work to say left or right, Mingyue directly her father, and it was useless to cry, make trouble, and hang herself.
Father said, you go to die, if you dare to die, I won't even look at it; Do you want me to die with you? Okay, let's die now, I'll accompany you. As he spoke, he also picked up a knife to cut himself, so frightened that the whole family quickly snatched the knife down, and persuaded him slowly and persuaded, which can be regarded as calming the fight between father and daughter.
If one is unreasonable, and another is even more unreasonable, then there is no way. The main reason is that Mingcheng's father also went out to wander when he was young, and he has seen the world, and even life and death occasions.
As far as your daughter's family is concerned, that little trick and little threat, in the eyes of Mingcheng's father, what is that, there are too many tricks to deal with you; Eating more than you and walking more than you have not come in vain.
Alas! Why did you recruit such a hard-hearted father? Am I your own? Mingyue itched her father's teeth, but she couldn't do anything about him.