Chapter 530: Zhuangzi on Influence
"Brother Zhuang? You? How are you? Rong'er asked in disbelief.
"Brother Zhuang Zhou? You? Are you alright? Is it really okay? Yang Qing'er also asked in disbelief.
Zhuangzi sat upright, closed his eyes, and felt whether the sitting posture was right or not, and whether the flow of qi and blood was smooth. He opened his eyes again, looked at the two of them, and smiled.
"You? You don't have water in your head, do you? ”
"Are you abnormal?"
Rong Er and Yang Qing'er were almost at the same time, one on each side, reaching out to Zhuangzi's head and face. They became suspicious of Zhuangzi's smile and felt that it was abnormal.
How can a person who has died once still laugh?
"Normal! Normal! I didn't get kicked in the head by a donkey! I didn't get caught in the crack of the door! Zhuangzi said, laughing again.
"You?"
"You?"
Rong'er and Yang Qing'er still felt suspicious.
Zhuangzi moved his buttocks again, and felt that there seemed to be something hard underneath his buttocks, and it was uncomfortable to sit on it. Then he said, "I just died once, come on, come on!" Sit! Sit! Listen to me! ”
Talking! opened his arms and wanted to hug Rong'er and Yang Qing'er one by one.
Yang Qing'er understood what Zhuangzi meant, not only did she not sit down, but also got rid of Zhuangzi's arm and stood aside.
Rong'er didn't resist and sat down obediently. Moreover! He leaned into Zhuangzi's arms and rested his head on Zhuangzi's shoulder.
"You?"
Seeing Rong'er's appearance, Yang Qing'er was jealous again.
But? After the "you" sound, there was no follow-up. Tonight is the day when Rong'er and Zhuangzi get married, the two are husband and wife, what's wrong with leaning together?
Zhuangzi beckoned again and motioned for her to sit beside him.
Yang Qing'er was very reluctant, but she still sat down unconsciously. She didn't lean on Zhuangzi, she still knew shame. After all! She and Zhuang Zhou's younger brother are not yet married.
Growing up, men and women are different, and they are no longer when they were children.
When she was a child, when she was in the Mojia branch of Mengxian County, she and Zhuang Zhou's younger brother still slept together! She also slept with Zhuang Zhou in her arms. At that time, she knew everything, but she was not afraid of anything. But! Since I grew up, I suddenly knew shame.
Zhuangzi didn't force it anymore, and insisted that she lean into his arms. He's not that either, and he must hug left and right and be proud of it.
"I was killed by a South Korean officer, in my heart."
"Huh? Mind? ”
"Heart? Yes? Mind? ”
Rong'er and Yang Qing'er both screamed.
"I was controlled by this South Korean officer, and my mind did not listen to my commands. He told me something. Suddenly! He pulled out a sharp knife and stabbed me in the heart. Since my consciousness was controlled by him, I didn't react at all, and I just watched as his sharp knife stabbed into my heart, and I died instantly.
Afterward! I don't know how long it took me to feel a little more conscious. And then later! I felt someone hold me up. And then later! I heard Sister Qing'er crying. And then later! I felt like my head was so heavy that I just couldn't lift it. I'm trying, I'm trying! Ultimately! I finally got my head up. Outcome! I woke up. ”
Zhuangzi said as he looked at Yang Qing'er and Rong'er. His head and gaze turned one way and the other way.
Rong'er and Yang Qing'er both listened very seriously. The two of them didn't feel jealous at all, and they didn't care if Zhuangzi looked at him or not.
"I seem to understand a lot through this! I think? My willpower is not strong enough, and my consciousness is not strong enough. It's true! Why? I don't have that awareness? In the realm of the heart, you can't kill people. There is the realm of the mind, the world that exists with consciousness......
What is the realm of the heart? The mental realm is a person's inner world, the inner world and psychological world of human beings. In fact! It is an imaginary world that exists with consciousness.
The mental realm is divided into the individual inner world and the collective inner world.
Most of us live in the inner world of the individual, not the inner world of the collective. The inner world of the collective is the real inner realm, and it is also the mental realm that we want to cultivate, and the mental realm that we will enter in the future.
Only when we enter the collective psychological world can we reach the state of immortality.
What is the state of immortality?
The state of immortality is! When our physical body, our outer body is dead, but we are still alive in our hearts.
The self that lives in the heart is called the 'soul'. In fact! That's not the soul, that's the impression that a person leaves on others. What do we leave to others? That's influence! We make the impression we make on others through our influence.
What is Influence? What do we use to influence others?
Influence comes from ideas! A person's mind. A person who has no thoughts and no opinions cannot impress others......"
Influence comes from the impression you make on others!
What will you use to make others remember you?
Zhuangzi believes that if we want to impress others, we must use our actions, actions, and thoughts to influence others. When others are influenced by our actions, actions, and thoughts, they will have an impression. It will imitate or prevent or resist, and it will produce corresponding behavioral results......
People in real life are not affected by real life, not by the law, by others. But! Influence from the mind.
Our souls, our thoughts, are swayed. Or we are influenced by a certain person in our minds, so that we will behave and behave accordingly.
That's the "thought"!
Let's put it in layman's terms! It is that we have our own outlook on life, the world, and the universe.
What influences our outlook on life, the world, and the universe is the ideological education we receive.
The ideological education we receive comes from the heart!
The ideological education we receive, including science and technology, does not come from schools, society, let alone institutions of higher learning or world-famous universities abroad.
But! From the heart.
We are swayed by the people of the heart! Our teachers are also swayed by the people of the heart! Our society is also dominated by people in the heart world. The future direction of our human civilization and mankind is determined by the characters in the mental world.
"If we want not to be swayed by the people in our hearts, not by the people around us, and not swayed by reality, we must cultivate our willpower! We have to make our willpower strong......"
Zhuangzi believes that whether we are swayed by the people in the heart or the people around us, or by reality, it is because we are not strong enough and our willpower is not firm!
"Me? I didn't quite understand! Yang Qing'er confessed honestly.
Zhuangzi talked for a long time, but the more she listened, the more confused she became, and she had the feeling of dozing off.
"Me? I don't quite understand either! Rong'er also confessed honestly. Brother Zhuang! Later, I will tell us slowly, I can't understand so much for a while? How can we be swayed by others? ”
Zhuangzi smiled bitterly and nodded.
Also! If they talk too much and don't explain the basics, how can they understand it?
Not today? Because he was killed in the heart realm, did he sigh with emotion?
Not counted, not counted! This is not preaching.