"When these people succeed and then collapse, it's a better opportunity for people to help him convert. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 If they seek help from psychological counseling at this time, a psychologist can guide them, let them discover their deep inferiority complex and trauma, help them express and release these negative feelings, help them transform these inferiority complexes and traumas, let them get love, and transform into a more psychologically healthy person. But the number of people like the emperor who seek psychological counseling should be in the minority, so the usefulness of this method is limited. ”

"Lin said that the more useful treatment is actually a kind of prevention, which is to avoid a 'lonely emperor culture' and promote a healthier culture in society as a whole."

"And the first thing people can do is identify the 'lonely emperor culture.'"

"For example, there is a man in a novel who is such a character, who has absolute power, who has all his subordinates firmly in his hands, and uses them to serve his hegemony. He ruthlessly exterminates anyone who might threaten his rule, without affection or love for anyone. Someone like this is the embodiment of this emperor. No matter what mask such a person uses to cover himself, no matter how beautiful the words come out of such a person's mouth, we must not be deceived. And we ourselves must avoid such a life like avoiding poison. ”

Lin said that he personally believes that even in the current part of corporate training or success training in the United States, there is a tendency to this 'lonely emperor culture'. In part of the training, the implicit value is that everything is to be successful. As a result, they don't care much about the social significance of what they do in the course of their lives. In terms of methods, some methods also stimulate the psychology of the 'lonely emperor': for example, in a kind of training, a group of people are placed in a circle, and one person is surrounded in the middle, and all of them use demeaning language, scolding, ridiculing, and attacking him. It is said that this is to exercise the person's 'endurance'. This method, on the surface, seems to be useful, but in fact, the effect of this only inspires an inferiority complex like that of the emperor, and only makes the person's heart more cold, and in doing so, he can have a stronger desire to achieve, to overcome the desire of others, and to be more desperate. So, such an approach may make people more successful, but it must also make people more perverted inside. ”

The same is true of a lot of business training, where they use fanatical psychological cues to stir up the participants' ambitions and strong desires for money, and then use all sorts of self-deceptive arguments to tell the participants that they are doing the right thing. Although in reality, all they did was to scam money from their relatives and friends. ”

"For another example, in the American book market, we will find some books that clearly teach people how to deceive others, how to make sycophants, and how to harm others for their own benefit, and these books can also be said to be the 'lonely emperor' style of success. Enterprises are fake, and everything looks at money, which is also a kind of emperor culture. Whoever has such values is the product of this 'lonely emperor culture'. ”

"In Lin's view, success is certainly worth pursuing, but if we lose our soul, love and yearning for a better life in order to succeed, then this so-called 'success' is actually a failure. If someone cut off their own feet and sold them, and then used that money to buy a pair of the most famous shoes, would we envy his designer shoes? The people who have embraced the 'lonely emperor culture', like this foot seller, have achieved so-called success at the cost of giving up their ability to true love, but it is impossible to get true happiness from success. Because people who do not have the ability to love cannot know love, and it is impossible to enjoy love, and a life without love, even if there is money and status as embellishments, is still a curse. ”

"Lin believes that it is incumbent upon the intellectual community in the United States to recognize this 'lonely emperor culture' and to point it out at any time, so that the whole society is on guard against it, which is also a way of prevention and cure."

"In addition to recognition, people must also have the courage to resist this 'lonely emperor culture'. The characteristic of the emperor and his ilk was that they despised the weak and respected the strong. If you don't have the courage to confront him, if you are someone weaker than him, don't expect him to follow your advice; However, if you are stronger than him, if you can defeat him, then he will have the motivation to learn from you, and you will also have the opportunity to let him understand that the real strong man is not the hegemon, but the benevolent. ”

These people mistakenly believe that the only cure for inferiority complex is victory, and they mistakenly believe that they will not feel inferior if they surpass others, and victory can indeed temporarily relieve the pain of inferiority. However, they do not know that the most effective antidote to low self-esteem is not victory and surpassing others, but love. ”

Lin said that if we are facing an enemy, we must be stronger than them to feel safe. But if we are dealing with people we love and love me, they are not a danger, but a security. Behind the inferiority complex is insecurity, inferiority is to realize that it is difficult for us to win, if we are facing someone who loves us, why do we need to be inferior?! ”

"If we are going to treat this emperor, I should make him realize that if you don't treat everyone else as an enemy, everyone else won't see you as an enemy. Further, we will let him learn how to love, let him bravely try to love others, bravely try to trust others, and finally let his personality be reshaped, from an ambitious, gloomy temperament, cruel and ruthless person, to a person who knows how to love. ”

Of course, Lin also said that this is not a simple and easy task to accomplish, whether in the United States or in Qianguo."

The carriage turned two corners, walked two streets, and came to the gate of the Wardof-Astoria Hotel. Schiff stepped out of the carriage and was led by the waiter into the hotel.

In the "Palm" restaurant, under the lights, there are glittering porcelain cups and saucers, silver cutlery and various faces, and you can also hear the noisy laughter and crisp clinking of cups and plates.

Jacob. Schiff walked straight to a row of tables with leather chairs along the base of the wall. As soon as the maître d'hom saw Jacob. Schiff graciously invited him to a seat, and brought him exquisite snacks, wines, and glasses one by one.

At this time, there were already several people sitting at the table. Jerome sat against the wall, and Jacob. Schiff, Andrew. Carnegie and Westinghouse sat across from each other.

"Will Mr. Tesla come today?" Seeing that Tesla's usual dining table was empty, Jacob. Schiff asked.

"It doesn't look like it's coming, and the fall of Edison is also a big blow to him." Leonard. Jerome smiled and bowed slightly to the waiter, signaling that the waiter was ready to open the drink.

The waiter opened a bottle of famous wine and poured the glasses of the four people in turn. Jerome took a big sip of his glass.

Looking at the rude appearance of this newspaper magnate drinking, Jacob. Schiff frowned slightly.

"Rockefeller was working in private to push Congress to pass the 'Power Rationing Act' and remarket his kerosene lamp," said Jacob Brown. Schiff asked, "Do you all know?" ”

"What do you think we're sitting here today?" Leonard. Jerome laughed, and he looked up and said to the waiter, "I want to eat the cake first, please bring the cake." ”

"Okay." The waiter agreed, and turned to leave.

Jacob. Schiff certainly understands that Leonard. Jerome brings up what it means to eat cake first.

After the suicide of Cofinn and the arrest of Edison, General Electric was at the end of its rope, and under the impetus of Lin Yiqing, they took the opportunity to buy this once-famous and famous company at a very cheap price.

In the newly reorganized General Electric Company, Jacob . Schiff joined the board as an investor, the other board members were Jerome Sr., Carnegie and Westinghouse, and Tesla was a patent owner.

The delicate cake was served, and old Jerome unceremoniously took the knife, cut off a large piece, put it on the plate, and handed it to Jacob. Schiff, "This is for you, and Mr. Lin Yiqing's share is also here." Old Jerome said meaningfully.

They were not long ago to learn that Jacob. Schiff, a Jewish banker, had an unusual relationship with Lin Yiqing.

Listening to old Jerome, Jacob. Schiff just smiled, he took the cake, cut a small piece with a knife, put it in his mouth, and savored it.

"I've heard about the power rationing bill, and it should be just a temporary bill." Andrew. Carnegie said, "No matter what Rockefeller does, kerosene lamps will not replace electric lights, alternating current systems will replace direct current systems, this is a trend, and no one can stop it." ”

"Yes." Westinghouse nodded in agreement.

"But this fire accident did shake people's perception of the safety of electricity, which is why there is such a thing as a 'power rationing bill' in the country." Jacob. "There's still a lot of work to be done to rebuild confidence in the safety of electricity," Schiff said. ”

"At least for now, we need to find a way to stop the passage of the 'power rationing bill.'" Jerome Sr. said, "I'll do it in the newspapers." ”

"I'll have a few more AC showcases." Westinghouse said.

"My company will complete the AC system as soon as possible to replace the original DC system. Of course, advocacy is also essential. "But we have to be careful with Morgan. ”

"He's still in a hospital in Washington, isn't he?" Hearing Morgan's name, Schiff frowned again.

"Yes, but I know he's not really sick." Carnegie sneered.

Everyone here knows very well the contradictions between Morgan and Carnegie, the pair of sworn enemies, and they still remember the past when Morgan framed Carnegie's benefactor, Scott.

"It seems that Morgan is deliberately trying to get out of the control of the Rothchild family." Leonard. Jerome smiled and looked at Jacob. Schiff

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