Chapter 1342: Weakness of Heart
Cao Mansion went up and down, and there were more than 100 people coming down, and Mrs. had two decent grandmothers, and she should know what she should know that night.
The silver rice that has been leathered for half a year is already a not light disposition for the Cao family, and even the children and grandchildren of the two grandmothers are faceless.
Aunt Ping, who was selected by his wife to take care of the property, was a decent thing, everyone knew that Miss Ping was not a stingy person, not to mention taking two portions of silver rice, and when the little master and little lady landed, they could not only get a heavy red envelope.
But I went to take care of it for a few months, and this came, and there was a mistake, and I lost my old face.
The sons and daughters-in-law of the two families complained about the old lady in their hearts, but they had to be relieved, and they also inquired about the details of Aunt Ping's birth.
The two grandmothers Xu Wei also felt shameless, and they were impatient to say more, but they couldn't stand their son and daughter-in-law, so they vaguely said that the two old sisters were negligent, and Aunt Ping's grandmother was born prematurely, and she almost couldn't get through, which annoyed the old lady.
When the two sons and daughters-in-law heard this, they gasped and were silent from then on, not daring to mention the matter again.
are all born in the family, and they know that Aunt Ping's grandmother was raised in the Cao family when she was a child, and she was raised by the girls of the Cao family, and Aunt Ping is the nephew of the master, and she is very favored by the master.
Due to the negligence of the two grandmothers, Aunt Ping's grandmother suffered from childbirth, and she couldn't control the anger of the old man and his wife.
That is, kind people like the lord and wife, who are not interested in beating and scolding their subordinates, but they have been reformed for half a year; If it is someone else's house, there are dozens of boards that are knocked half to death.
I don't know if the two grandmothers have learned a lesson, An An closed the door separately, so that many people who were jealous of them before had a good errand and waited to see the joke had nowhere to talk.
On the second day of Niuniu's birth, Chu Yu picked two more stable old mothers from the family to serve Niuniu in the past.
Tianhui's nursing mother was sent out a long time ago, and Niuniu's side was breastfed by her biological mother, and she was taken care of by her biological mother and aunt, so Niuniu was not like other boudoir ladies, who married the nurse and nanny when she got married.
Because Niuniu and Tianhui are small and big, Chu Yu doesn't think there's anything wrong with not having a nurse and nanny around.
In the final analysis, there are still some careful eyes for sisters-in-law and mothers, and they don't want Niuniu and Tianhui to rely too much on others; In addition, I thought that I got married at the beginning of the year, because of this nursing mother and mother, I almost had a dislike with my husband, which is more or less a lesson from the past.
After all, the nursing mother and the nanny are poor housewives, how much knowledge can they have, and they don't rely on the old to sell the veterans, and the good girls are confused.
But after Niuniu's incident, Chu Yu regretted it very much.
No matter how sensible you are at home, in the end, you are a teenager, and you still need some experience to see the elderly help you after leaving the cabinet.
Niuniu is used to being her own master, and there is no one around her who can persuade her, so she doesn't know the severity and walks before the ghost gate closes.
On the daughter's side, in addition to the daughter-in-law who was set earlier, she has to consider it again...... On the tenth day of the first month of April, the Wei Mansion held the "three baptismal ceremonies" for newborns.
In addition to the relatives of the Cao family, there are also the Wei family's clansmen in the capital, and Wei Wenzhi's guard colleagues in Zhuangwang's Mansion are also lively.
Cao Hao is in a high position in the end, and it is not good to ask for leave and delay for these things, and the Cao family is Chu Yu's mother and daughter.
Since Cao Hao recognized Niuniu as a "righteous sister", then for Cao Hao's sake, several aunts and grandmothers in Cao's mansion had to send people to give three baptismal gifts, among which the fourth sister was similar in age to Niuniu, and she grew up together when she was young, and the prepared ceremony was heavier; Cao Yi came over in person, in addition to being close to the head of Cao's mansion and loving the house and Wu, and really liking Niuniu, he also had other things to say to Chu Yu because of his role as a messenger.
It is the old lady of the university scholar's mansion, who speaks tactfully, but there is only one meaning, that is, she wants to see Tianhui before her grandson is filial.
If the two adults had already interacted, they would have found a reason to come to the door; It's really that the two families have no contact, and it's not good to move around at will, so I wondered if it would be arranged in the Guogong Mansion.
This is a common practice in Beijing, when the two families officially get married, unmarried men and women may not be able to meet, but the elders of both sides have to look at each other.
Even Chu Yu himself once wanted to see Liugege.
According to Cao Yi's meaning, he was looking for a reason to hold a banquet in the Guogong Mansion and invited two female dependents.
But Tianhui's family affairs are not good to go over one person, that is Cao Jia's family.
Because he thought that Shu Hede was still a little filial piety, Chu Yu was still thinking about going to Pingwangfu to talk about it, but he forgot that Shu Hede was nineteen years old, and the old lady of the university scholar must be in a hurry.
But it will take a year and a half from marriage to marriage.
If the old lady wants her grandson to go out of service and decide on a family affair, don't you want to see each other now?
Chu Yu thought for a while and said, "Don't be in a hurry to reply first, wait until you leave here, and I'll go to King Ping's Mansion for a walk." ”
Cao Yi knew that her sister loved Tianhui, so she said: "It's good that my sister-in-law has an idea, I'm not in a hurry here, it's good to have a reply in three or five days......"
After the newborn's "washing three" ceremony ended, Chu Yu went directly to Prince Ping's mansion.
Hearing that his brother-in-law was coming, Cao Jiashi was quite surprised.
However, she is an understanding person, and without waiting for Chu Yu to speak, she has already thought of Tianhui's head: "Is Sister Hui'er's family affair eyebrows?" ”
Chu Yu didn't show it on his face, but he was a little apprehensive in his heart.
The eldest sister-in-law has long said that Tianhui's family affairs not only need their parents to pay attention, but it is not good to cross her.
They are husband and wife, but they are somewhat suspected of "yang and yin".
It's not that she has the intention to snub Cao Jia's eldest girl, but the families she comes and goes with, most of them are clans. And Cao Hao and Chu Yu have long extinguished the idea of Jiang's daughter marrying the clan.
I didn't think it before, but now that I am in front of my sister-in-law, Chu Yu is somewhat weak-hearted.
Although she is grateful for her eldest sister's love for her daughter, she still feels a little sour when she thinks that Tianhui didn't kiss herself when she was a child and was close to Cao Jia's alone.
In front of the eldest sister, Chu Yu couldn't say that the two of them looked at their son-in-law, and they also talked thoroughly, and things were almost the same.
After thinking about it, she only said that it was a friend of God's blessing, and her husband thought it was good, so that people inquired about the family style and were rigorous, and they had the heart to be married.
In Cao Jia's heart, there are some complaints about his brothers and brothers' daughters-in-law.
The two of them, who feel sorry for their daughter, are not only cautious about Tianhui's marriage, but also repeatedly.
began to say that he didn't want his daughter to work too hard and couldn't find his eldest son. But the world takes daughters-in-law, and they all value the eldest daughter-in-law, and there is no reason why the background of the little daughter-in-law overshadows the eldest daughter-in-law.
The Cao family is not a small family, and it is not easy to find a suitable second son among the lords of the family.
If the Cao family wants to find the second son and the youngest son to be their uncle, they can only find it in the clan.
But most of the clans are populous, and the little daughter-in-law is not so easy to do.
Even if they live separately, most of them have to rely on their descendants in order to gain a foothold in the clan.
Moreover, the clan family is even more hierarchical, and ordinary relatives speak according to their grades.
Cao Jia's family is also a parent, and he knows that his brother and brother's daughter-in-law are distressed nieces, but because of their surname Shuangli, they can't really see the grinding and chirping of these two people.
I didn't expect to toss around, but in the end I still picked the eldest son who was the right person.
Cao Jiashi sat up straight, looked at Chu Yu, and said suspiciously: "You didn't object, you think you've seen it?" ”
Chu Yu couldn't say anything about Lingshan Temple, so he said: "That kid was a classmate of Tianyou in his early years, and he also came to the house, so he felt that he was a good character at that time. It's just that Tianhui is the age difference and doesn't think about it. Whoever wants to knock doesn't dare to knock, the child then keeps filial piety, and the family affair is delayed. ”
Cao Jia's expression slowed slightly, nodded, and said, "Since both of you think it's good, it's good to think about it." I'm an aunt, can I stop it? Although our royal palace has no contact with the university scholars' mansion, when we did not leave Beijing in the early years, we also met him and was a clear person...... It's just that that people don't have to worry about it, and the people are a little thinner......"
Seeing that she had no objection, Chu Yu breathed a sigh of relief, and then said what Cao Yi had said.
Cao Jia's family was very happy, and when he saw that Chu Yu seemed to have an idea, he didn't do much anymore, but said that he no longer had to worry about it, let them be his parents' own convenience, and he was only going to add makeup to his niece...... Coming out of the Pingwang Mansion, Chu Yu sighed, she knew that although the eldest sister-in-law didn't say anything, she was a little annoyed.
When Cao Hao came back, Chu Yu mentioned the matter to her husband.
Cao Hao patted his head, feeling that he was a little unkind.
Before arranging the Lingguang Temple and their party, the two of them had a lunch box to say hello to Cao Jia's family.
Now, the marriage between the two families is almost decided, and Cao Jiashi is informed, complaining that she is annoyed.
"It's me who was careless and didn't do things thoroughly, so don't get too entangled. My sister has always loved us, and I said that if I used to accompany my sister, she wouldn't be annoyed with us. Cao Hao thought about it and said with relief.
Chu Yu knew that what her husband said was reasonable, so she didn't mention it.
The next time, Cao Hao thought about going to the Pingwang Mansion, so he came out of the yamen early, not wanting to be blocked by Yiduli.
Thinking that he didn't understand the accident of Yiduli's desire to marry before, and now that his daughter was about to give it to others, Cao Hao couldn't help but feel a little weak.
He thought in his heart, he always had to think about the past, otherwise, it would not be good to have a dislike after many years of intersection.
Before he could think about how to speak, Yi Duli had already greeted him enthusiastically and greeted Cao Hao: "I was looking for you, but wasn't it just in time?" ”
Immediately, Yi Duli looked at Cao Hao and hesitated: "Fu Ruo came out of the yamen this morning, but something happened?" ”
Cao Hao just wanted to talk about going to the Ping Wangfu, but it could be seen that Yi Duli was wearing regular clothes, as if she was looking for herself, and there was a look of depression between her eyebrows and eyes, and she changed her words when she came to her mouth: "It's nothing, but I finished handling the errand at hand, and I came out earlier." ”
Being in officialdom, I don't know when I added entertainment, even at their level, it is no exception.
Therefore, in addition to wearing supplementary clothes to the yamen on errands, they also brought regular clothes with them, just to make it easier to change clothes when they had something to do.
Listening to Cao Hao's words, Yi Duli breathed a sigh of relief and said: "It's okay if there is nothing to do, if I don't want to delay Furuo, but if I don't find someone to talk to, I will suffocate to death...... There is a new master in Qinghetang, specializing in swallow wing seats, and today I want to invite Fu Ruo to have a good drink......"
Cao Hao couldn't help but be surprised when he heard this.
With the identity of the secretary of the military department of Yidu, there are really not many things that can make him depressed, what is it......
(To be continued)