294. It's all a family

"Brother Cheng, Mrs. Cui, in fact, you should go and talk to Miss Cheng about this kind of thing. She just couldn't accept it for a while, that's why she did. If you can talk to her in time, you should be able to resolve it. After all, you are a family, how can a family have an overnight feud! Therefore, as parents, you should take the initiative to communicate with her, so that you should be able to solve the problem. Jingwen said.

In later generations, Jingwen has seen a lot of news, but there is a lack of communication in the family, and as a result, both parents and children cannot understand each other, which finally causes a family tragedy. Now Jingwen just hopes that Cheng Yanjin can communicate with his daughter, so that many contradictions can be resolved. After all, they are father and daughter, if they don't communicate well, then I'm afraid the problem will be very strict, and even in the last life, they won't be able to resolve this grudge. Therefore, Jingwen didn't want Cheng Lin and her father Cheng Yanjin to be so embarrassed. And in the future, Jingwen still wants to marry Cheng Lin, so how will Jingwen face Cheng Biting Jin at that time!

"But, let me take the initiative to resolve it with my daughter, how can I pull this face?" Cheng Yanjin said.

"Feudal thinking kills people!" Jing Wen muttered in his heart.

Many parents can't pull their faces to take the initiative to communicate with their children, they all think that they are parents and superior to others, and they should take the initiative to apologize and forgive their parents. In the end, both parties couldn't understand it, and finally fell out completely. This feudal thinking existed even in later generations, not to mention that in ancient times, this kind of thinking was stricter. In ancient times, how many kings, parents, and husbands were able to apologize to their courtiers, children, and wives and ask for forgiveness? I'm afraid it's very few!

"Brother Cheng, think about it, is your face important, or the family's affection is important. Usually you don't want to, ahh Why do you cherish your face so much now? It's all a family, so why fall out for this thing that you don't usually cherish? Jing Wen persuaded him.

And Jingwen immediately persuaded Cui's family, saying: "Mrs. Cui, although you and Miss Cheng do not have the name of mother and daughter, they have the reality of mother and daughter. Could it be that the feelings of your heart for many years have been blown like this? So, can't you give up the so-called face and communicate more with Miss Cheng? In fact, many times it is just a question of who will be soft first. I envy you very much, you still have parents, but I only have a master! Don't. Do you have to make a disturbance in the family? ”

Cui Shi thought about it for a while, the reason why he was willing to marry Cheng Yanjin may be more for Cheng Lin, the adopted daughter. After marrying Cheng Yanjin, can't you really be Cheng Lin's mother? Why bother falling out with Cheng Lin for this matter, this is putting the cart before the horse.

"Lao Cheng, this kid is right, we might as well go to Xiao Lin and ask for his understanding." Cui said.

Cheng Yanjin also sighed and said, "Isn't it just face?" I've been embarrassed a lot of times. What kind of face do you want at this time? Walk! ”

"Daughter, I've come to see you!" Cheng Yanjin knocked on the door.

And Cheng Lin opened the door with a cold face, obviously very dissatisfied with Cheng Yanjin. And Cheng Lin is not too enthusiastic about Cui's former adoptive mother.

"Xiao Lin. Here's the thing, at that time, your mother ......" Cui Shi hurriedly explained the reason.

After listening to Cui's explanation, Cheng Lin's face softened a lot. In fact, this is also a process of mutual understanding, and they have not been able to understand each other before. Now that Cui's and Cheng Yanjin can come over and understand each other, this is actually not a big deal.

"Cheng Lin, what a big deal this is. Why keep being angry? So, it's all a family! Since they are all a family, why should they be angry about such a trivial matter? So, Cheng Lin, don't be angry with Brother Cheng, go home well, and spend the next days together! Jingwen said.

Cheng Lin saw that several of them persuaded themselves like this, and Cheng Lin also forgave Cheng Yanjin and Cui's in her heart, anyway, they are all family! Since they are all a family, why hold grudges for so long?

"Well, in that case, I'll forgive you!" Cheng Lin said.

After a while, Jingwen and Cheng Yanjin were drinking distilled liquor.

"Brother Jingwen, thanks to you this time! If it weren't for you, I'm afraid my relationship with Xiao Lin would be ruined! Cheng Yanjin first picked up a glass of wine and said.

Jingwen also raised his wine glass and said with a pun: "We are all a family!" Family, why say thank you! ”

"Yes, Brother Jingwen and we are both a family, a family doesn't speak two words, do it!" Cheng Yanjin said.

Obviously, the words of the two did not mean the same thing. Jingwen's family actually means that he will marry Cheng Yanjin's daughter in the future and be his son-in-law. And Cheng Yanjin obviously didn't know what Jingwen meant, he just regarded Jingwen as a "buddy" with a good relationship, and didn't expect Jingwen to mean to be his son-in-law.

And Cui Shi and Cheng Lin were on the other side, as if they were talking about something.

"Xiao Lin, did that Jingwen take advantage of you?" Choi asked.

Cheng Lin just wanted to refute, but Cui continued to ask: "Xiao Lin, I have also been married, of course I know that you have been taken advantage of by other men." And since you can listen to that Jingwen like this, then I'm afraid that the man who took advantage of you is him, right? ”

"Hmm!" Cheng Lin answered honestly.

Cui Shi said helplessly: "You don't know, Lao Cheng has always wanted a promising general to be his son-in-law, I'm afraid Jingwen is not easy!" ”

"Mother, is there anything you can do?" Cheng Lin asked.

Cui Shi thought for a while, and also said: "It's not that there is no chance at all, then now this Jingwen is also the master of the army, and he is the festival envoy of the Snow Shame Army." And if he can make meritorious contributions in the future, it is not impossible to take this opportunity to convince Lao Cheng. The premise is that he can make meritorious contributions on the battlefield, otherwise he will not be able to convince Lao Cheng at all. And according to my analysis, I am afraid that there will be a war between the Tang Dynasty and the Turks, and his shameful army will definitely go to the battlefield. If Jingwen was still the festival envoy of the Snow Shame Army at that time, then he could use the Snow Shame Army to make meritorious contributions. ”

"Okay, then I'll persuade him that when the time comes, he must make a contribution to the war of the Turks, so that he can justifiably propose to his father. But I don't know how long it will take! Cheng Lin said.

Cui Shi also talked about it, not knowing when the war between the Tang Dynasty and the Turks would come. Although many people know that there will be a war between the Tang Dynasty and the Turks, no one knows when the real war will come. (To be continued......)