Five hundred and fifty-eight Be more tolerant

Kong Yingda really didn't expect it, I really didn't expect Suning to be such a person, giving people a feeling of spring breeze outside, and he is very polite to anyone, and the policies proposed are all to improve the lives of the people of the Tang Dynasty, for the country and the people, not for personal gain, even if it is an industry purchased for the family, it is also a luxury industry for the wealthy, not competing with the people, let alone taking money from the people's pockets, and is quite respected by the people of Chang'an.

However, I never expected, I really never expected, in private, in the Su Mansion, Su Ding was so cruel and unkind, and treated the people in the mansion so cruelly, no wonder, no wonder you could feel that tense atmosphere as soon as you entered his mansion, those subordinates were so flustered and nervous, it should be caused by a long period of abuse, I really didn't expect it, I really didn't expect it! You can deceive the world outside, and when you get home, you indulge it, and actually, in front of yourself!

This, this, this is simply unforgivable! It's simply unforgivable!

Well?

Kong Yingda seemed to have seen something, and suddenly froze, turned his head and looked at Suning's fierce face, a little strange, just wanted to ask, but Suning put on a smiling face and said: "Master Confucius, the troubles have been cleared, now, we can go and take a look at the "Zizhi Tongjian", what do you have to say, you can say it in the house, okay?" ”

Kong Yingda frowned, and still walked forward, but the doubts in his heart were not small, he still didn't ask, he planned to ask again later, after entering the study, Kong Yingda "snorted" and said: "You should remember that when the old man punished Rui Han, you came out to talk back." What the old man said, if your knowledge is not good, it doesn't hurt, just study hard, there is no end to learning, and you can't finish learning in a lifetime.

But moral turpitude is hopeless! Etiquette, righteousness, honesty and shame are the four dimensions of the country, and the country is perished if the four dimensions are not open! If the morally corrupt person is only one person, it will not harm the whole nation. But the moral turpitude of one person can affect an entire nation. With the spread of rumors, it will affect every corner of the world! The country will not be a country!

At the beginning, you were willing to apologize for Rui Han, and the old man could see that it was from that time. Rui Han cares about you. Presumably she is the same as the old man. It's not your talent that matters, it's your natural goodness. The old man has never deliberately asked how good your talent is, but he hopes that your morality will not be corrupted, and the court competition will not destroy your morality, but now it seems that the old man is worried!

The subordinates just made a little mistake, you treat them like that, the old man still remembers that there is such a paragraph in your book The Three Kingdoms, Liu Bei is very worried about Zhang Fei's admiration for the gentleman and the villain, worried that he will be harmed one day, but Zhang Fei was really killed by the villain and died, and what you did was different from Zhang Fei?!

Acting like Zhang Fei, aren't you worried about Zhang Fei's end? The old man also saw what His Majesty praised you for saying, the lessons of the past, the future generations mourn but do not learn from it, and the descendants will mourn the future generations! You warn your majesty to pay attention to the lessons of the past, but what about yourself? Is this how you do it?! ”

Su Jing listened quietly, with a respectful look, not only did he not get angry, but laughed out loud, and said: "It turns out that Master Confucius still remembers saying this, but he also saw the words of the student to remind His Majesty, so why do you treat the student and the prince separately?" ”

Kong Yingda was stunned for a moment and asked, "What do you mean by this?" What does this have to do with the old man? His Royal Highness the Crown Prince is the prince of a country, compared with you, the education method is naturally different, this is a fundamental difference, if you are educated in the same way, in the end are you the prince, or the prince is the prince? ”

Su Ning said with a smile: "But there is one point, the student and the prince are the same, we and others, we are all young men, similar in age, similar in feelings, Confucius can still be kind and patient in treating the excessive behavior of the student, why do you treat some small mistakes of the prince with harsh words, and even blame in the book?"

Didn't the prince's nurse tell Mr. Kong? The prince has grown up, he is no longer a child, he needs a little space and respect of his own, Mr. Kong should no longer treat the prince in the same way as a child, how much to save some face for the prince, but how did Master Confucius answer? Nine deaths without regrets? ”

Kong Yingda's brows furrowed more and more, and he asked sharply, "Why did you call the old man to come today?" ”

Suning also replied sternly: "The student is about to leave Chang'an City to live in the fiefdom of Sanyuan County for a while, study behind closed doors, recuperate quietly, and will not return to Chang'an without major events, but before leaving, the student knows some contradictions and entanglements between Confucius and the prince, and feels that things are extraordinary, if you ignore it, it will probably not be a good thing for the next student to return to Chang'an, so before the student leaves, he must do one thing!" ”

Kong Yingda asked, "Is it the prince who sued you?" That's why you came to say this to the old man? The prince is young, he doesn't understand things, and his advice to the old man is difficult to distinguish, the old man is anxious, of course, he must be severely reprimanded, and the prince must not be allowed to take a detour, the prince is the prince, and it is related to the inheritance of the country, how can he be underestimated? The prince is still looking for you to be a lobbyist! It's ridiculous! Ridiculous! Wait for the old man to go back and teach him a hard lesson! ”

Kong Yingda was furious, turned around and was about to leave, Suning was also furious, it was you who completely forced Li Chengqian to a dead end and forced him to the point of no return! The tragedy of Li Chengqian is the tragedy of royal education and the emperor's governance! It's a tragedy! It's a tragedy!

"Stop!" Suning shouted, in a fit of rage, he couldn't care about Kong Yingda's identity at all, and a loud roar shocked Kong Yingda, turned his head, and his face was full of disbelief: "You said to the old man to stop?" ”

Suning walked up to Kong Yingda angrily and said loudly: "You old man! How can I say anything about you! The prince is the prince, and the prince is the prince of a country! But he's also a human being! Not God! He is a sixteen-year-old boy who also has the same feelings that a normal person should have, and he can make mistakes and do wrong things! His Majesty also admits that it is impossible for the emperor not to make mistakes, so he asks the ministers to play more and supervise the emperor's words and deeds, and His Majesty is still like this, not to mention the prince!

You always impose your thoughts on the prince, and have you ever asked the prince what he wants? What do you want to do? Is it wrong for the prince to want to eat some delicious food? If you are a human being, you will eat, and if you don't eat, you will die, so what about eating some delicious food? Is this extravagance and waste? So those wealthy families have not seen what Master Confucius has said when they spend a lot of money, has Master Confucius ever seen what the prince eats and drinks in Pingsuli?

The desire of the mouth is a normal human desire, Confucius said that etiquette, righteousness and shame, but once said that he wanted to destroy people's desires? Human desire does not lie in suppression, but in guidance, and Confucius can still follow the good persuasion in the face of students, telling them what is wrong and what is right. The tone is gentle. The students are very teachable, very teachable and totally acceptable!

But in the face of the crown prince, the same mistake. The same is done. Confucius reprimanded him severely. didn't talk about how to change, just a simple reprimand, and even compared with the rest of the Confucians. The wording is more severe and fierce than the other, and at every turn, it is compared with the death of Emperor Yang of Sui!

Emperor Yang of Sui is a dead country, a teacher of the past and future generations, but he can talk day and night, and even compare the prince with Emperor Yang of Sui? The prince is also a human being, and he also has human feelings, the prince has been docile and humble since he was a child, but it does not mean that the prince is a wooden man and has no feelings!

This is not educating the prince, not guiding the prince to goodness, this is forcing the prince to a dead end! I'm in a hurry, the prince will come against you in everything! What do you say, he doesn't do it! In the end, it will inevitably lead to tragedy! Confucius has no regrets for nine deaths, but Datang has lost an original good emperor because of Confucius's nine deaths! The original wise monarch! This is not to educate the prince, this is to ruin the prince! ”

Suning glared angrily, and roared at Kong Yingda, the voice was so loud that half of the Su family could hear it clearly, Kong Yingda's face was shocked and confused, and his eyes were empty, it seemed that he couldn't reflect what happened just now, and he couldn't imagine why Suning, who had always been humble and friendly, would be so angry, this was indeed the biggest fire Suning had in three years, and the loudest one to speak.

After Suning finished speaking, he was a little hypoxic, dizzy for a while, walked to the table, took a sip of water from a cup, and then came to his senses, took a breath, and looked back at Kong Yingda, the words have been finished, everything that should be done has been done, everything that can be done has been done, and after planning for so long, a good person must not be ruined by this rough and stupid way of education.

No matter what, you have to fight hard, and when dealing with an old guy like Kong Yingda, you have to be ruthless, stand firm, and not move an inch, and then beat him with a lot of facts, for him, the sword is like bullshit, words are a sharp weapon, and the words that can be said are even more nirvana.

Kong Yingda reacted for a while, his body staggered as if he was about to fall, Suning hurriedly stepped forward to support the old guy, the last time he said that he didn't eat for a day, how many officials impeached him for not knowing how to respect the old man, and now if something happens, it will outweigh the losses, and there will be no benefit to Li Chengqian, nor will it be good for himself.

"You arranged all those things just now, right?" Kong Yingda's voice sounded, and Suning helped him to the chair while saying: "Yes, the student thinks that in this way, it will be better to persuade Master Confucius not to be so harsh on Cheng Qian, a few days before Master Confucius came, the student had a private conversation with Cheng Qian about some things, and felt the dissatisfaction in Cheng Qian's heart, any big mistake is brewed by small mistakes, and the student has a premonition of danger and doesn't want this kind of thing to really happen." ”

Kong Yingda sighed deeply and sighed: "What you said makes sense, it makes sense, the prince is also a human being, he will make mistakes, and he also has his own feelings, the reason why the old man did that was because he was worried that the prince would take a detour, no teacher hoped that his students would take a detour, and no courtier would want the emperor to become a faint tyrant, but, alas......"

Kong Yingda didn't get angry, didn't feel angry because Suning's words were disrespectful to him, but spoke softly, as if he had aged several years all of a sudden.

Suning said: "Confucius's words are also a little inappropriate, Confucius's approach is understandable, this is right, Confucius is full of responsibility for the prince, which is also commendable, but Confucius's biggest mistake is to treat the prince as a saint, and he doesn't want the prince to make a little mistake, and when the prince makes a mistake, he can't calmly let the prince realize his mistake and correct it, but treat the prince with harsh words."

No one likes to be scolded by others, His Majesty is tolerant and generous, is Rao so still angry at Wei Shizhong's confrontation, shouting to kill Wei Shizhong? The prince is growing up, even more so, who can bear being scolded from childhood to adulthood? Why can't Confucius treat the prince with the same attitude as he treats his students? If Confucius thinks so, then the student can sue Confucius, and the prince just wants to be treated like a student by Confucius, less scolding and more tolerance, which is good for everyone. (To be continued......)