728, it is easy to govern the country, but it is difficult to govern the family (I)

Hearing that several beauties actually began to compete for favor for the position of this flat wife, Jingwen had to find a way to solve this problem. For Jingwen, obviously the best way is to choose one person as much as possible, so as to fill the position of this flat wife. As long as they choose to come out, then they will have no elements of fighting, which is still very helpful for family harmony. Therefore, Jingwen immediately began to ponder the candidate for this flat wife. However, of course, Cheng Lin has to refer to it.

"Lin'er, who do you think I should choose to be this flat wife? It's better for this flat wife to decide as much as possible, otherwise I'm afraid there will be a lot of problems in the future. Jingwen asked.

Cheng Lin shook his head and said, "This should be decided by you, husband, the concubine is not suitable for Yue Yan!" ”

Although in ancient times, a wife could take a concubine for her husband, but after all, this is a flat wife, and it no longer belongs to the category of concubines, so Cheng Lin is still not suitable to replace Jingwen without authorization. Therefore, Cheng Lin still let Jingwen decide for himself, so Jingwen still scratched his ears and cheeks, not knowing how to decide.

Of course, Jingwen knows that if he chooses a certain person, he is afraid that he will disappoint other women in the end. But Jingwen doesn't want to disappoint them, so that he can be stable and harmonious in his backyard! Isn't what Jingwen pursues is family harmony? So now, of course, I hope to solve this problem as much as possible.

"Lin'er, how about choosing Liu Qing as this flat wife? She gave birth to a daughter for me, so she should raise her status! Jingwen said.

But Cheng Lin said: "It's a bit far-fetched to give birth to a daughter to improve status." After all, she didn't give birth to a son, and if she gave birth to a daughter that could be promoted, I'm afraid it would be too far-fetched. ”

Jingwen also had to admit that the ancient patriarchal thinking was also very strict. In ancient times, a wife who gave birth to a boy could stabilize her status, but if she gave birth to a daughter, it was the same as not giving birth to a daughter. Nothing interesting. Of course, there is no credit, and the hard work depends on whether the husband recognizes it or not. However, in the eyes of ordinary people, having a daughter does not improve their status, but there is no change in general. Therefore, Jingwen used Liu Qing to give birth to a daughter to enhance her status, which is indeed a bit too far-fetched, at least in ancient times, it could not be the reason for her status to be born.

Therefore, Liu Qing was unlucky this time, so he couldn't improve his status. If her first child is a boy. There is nothing to say about elevating her status, after all, in ancient times, it was patriarchal, and it was not up to Jingwen's will to be able to change.

"Liu Qing can't do it, what about Xue Xue? If strictly speaking, Xue Xue is the first woman I knew, and now she is also the boss of eating every day. Everyday food is my earliest industry, and she is also my first partner, so the meaning is different, and there is no problem in improving it, right? Jingwen asked.

Jingwen also wants to improve from the industrial aspect. Anyway, the profit of eating every day is not small, and it is one of the pillars of Jingwen's industry, so it is normal to give Xue Xue a boost.

But Cheng Lin still shook his head and said: "It's unlikely, because the income of our family is only getting lower and lower." Perfumes and highly distilled spirits are also becoming more and more profitable, so this one is not very suitable. From the perspective of the industry, the status of daily diet is getting lower and lower, after all, the proportion of income in our family is relatively low. As for her, she is the first woman you know. This is not a good reason. After all, everyone is a concubine, why can they be promoted if they know someone earlier? It's not fair to other women! ”

Xue Xue. Then it was vetoed by Cheng Lin. After all, Jingwen still has to listen to Cheng Lin's opinion, after all, Cheng Lin is a wife, and she is second only to Jingwen, the male host, in the family. Moreover, according to the unspoken rules of ancient times, if you want to talk about this kind of family relationship, Jingwen is really not easy to interfere with. Now that Cheng Lin disagrees, Jingwen is not very easy to refute Cheng Lin.

As for the next, Jingwen continued: "What about Ashina Yun? After all, he also has the identity of a county lord, so he can be regarded as a nobleman. It's not impossible for a county lord to be a flat wife. ”

But Cheng Lin smiled bitterly again: "Husband, how did Ashinayun come here, don't you know?" What else can people who have lost their country? This kind of county lord identity, it's better not to have it! If you use this status as a way to improve your status, I am afraid that in the future, I am afraid that it will be even more discordant. ”

Ashinayun's identity as the county lord is actually just a new dynasty's canonization of the royal family of the dead country. Generally, the habit of the Central Plains Dynasty is to canonize a prince to the emperor of their fallen country after destroying the enemy country, which is relatively benevolent, and there is no cutting of the grass and eradication. And after being crowned king, their children will also be able to obtain the so-called princes and county lords. But this kind of county lord status might as well not have it! And Ash Nayun has never posed as a county lord with other women since she became Jingwen's woman, because she deeply knows that this county lord identity not only cannot bring glory, but is the source of trouble.

If a dead royal family is still fiddling with the so-called aristocratic identity in the new dynasty, it will definitely be his own death! Ash Nayun naturally wouldn't be so stupid and chose to die. Therefore, she never mentioned her so-called status as the county lord, and even lowered her stature to communicate with other women in Jingwen on an equal footing, as if she was not aggrieved as a concubine. If it was the county lord of the Li Tang royal family, no one would naturally allow her to be a concubine when she married Jingwen at that time, but it was precisely because of this county lord canonized by the royal family of the dead country that she didn't have so many concerns.

If Jingwen now elevates her status as the so-called county lord of Ashinayun, this will make the family even more discordant. Because the people who died are the people who died after all, and the hair loss phoenix is not as good as the chicken. Originally, Ash Nayun lowered his figure to be able to gain the approval of Jingwen's other women, but if Jingwen now uses his status as the county lord to improve his status, this is equivalent to being ugly and beautiful, and this is equivalent to erecting a cause for discord in the family for no reason. In the future, Jingwen is actually isolating Ash Nayun, not only is it not helping Ash Nayun, but it hurts her!

"What about Yuriko? He is the princess of the Wa Kingdom, and he is also a princess, and he is not a person who has lost the country, so it would be good if he could also be promoted appropriately. Jingwen said.

But Cheng Lin shook her head again, obviously not agreeing. (To be continued......)