Ninety Little sister should be self-reliant
Suning is very helpless to classify Su Xiaomei's situation as soon as she learns mathematics as talent, everyone always has their own skills that they are good at and are not good at, different from person to person, good at and not good at are also relative, some people are top geniuses in some fields, some people are ignorant in some fields, this is normal, so there are not so many all-round geniuses on this shijie, the so-called hearing has a sequence, and there is a specialization in the art industry, that's all.
It's like Einstein going boxing and Tyson going to the theory of relativity, then it is destined to be a tragedy, Einstein will be killed, the last headline and then disappear completely; Tyson, on the other hand, will become a philistine who will not be able to bite his ears again.
Einstein had a talent for physics and was suitable for mental work; Tyson has a talent for boxing confrontation, good physical fitness, and is suitable for manual work, which is originally a preparation for haode, but if they have to do something they are not good at, then the result can only be a tragedy, and there are few all-rounders on shijie.
Of course, there are also all-rounders, such as Yu Turn, a minister of Eastern Wu during the Three Kingdoms period, who is a civil and military all-rounder, good at running, and has super physical strength; Good at making a spear, the force value is quite high, Sun Quan once fled when Yu turned over with a spear on foot, and Sun Quan rode a horse; Good at diplomacy, sharp-tongued, good at divination, has the potential to be a god stick, followed the attack on Jingzhou in history, after Guan Yu was defeated by Cao Cao, Sun Quan let Yu turn over a hexagram, saying that Guan Yu would die in less than two days, and sure enough, Guan Yu died, or Sun Quan killed himself; He is proficient in medicine, proficient in classics, is a medical scientist and a literary scholar, has a double doctorate, and has a very high quality, which can be described as a hexathlon.
However, his martial name is not as good as the Five Tiger Generals, his reputation is not as good as that of Wolong and Phoenix, his literary name is not as good as that of Jian'an's Seven Sons, his medical name is not as good as Hua Tuo Zhang Ji, his name is not as good as Sima Shuijing, his foot strength is not as good as Hu Che'er who stole the Dian Wei Halberd, and his diplomacy is not as good as Lu Zijing of Liu Kang Cao, all of which can be said that the hexathlon is not as good as specializing in one subject, and outstanding talents in various fields can be left in history, but the hexathlon Yu is unknown, isn't this a clear proof?
Suning also deeply understands the importance of this, so for Su Xiaomei, Suning did not beg her to be proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, just begging her to live her life in peace, but Su Xiaomei is unwilling, although Su Xiaomei is young, she has her own ideals, has her own ambitions, is not willing to live a dull life, is not willing to be a husband when she is young, a son when she is old, and has never lived for herself!
This is a secret that Su Xiaomei buried in her heart, she has never told others, because he knows that this shijie is a man's shijie, and no woman can make a name for herself in a man's shijie, well, it can't be said completely, such as a beautiful name......
But that's an insult, Su Xiaomei thinks it's an insult, appearance is the most unreliable, even if it's stunning, there is a day when she has gray hair, she loses her appearance, she has no man to rely on, she can only wait for death, this shijie woman can only be used as an accessory, not as a master, not as a master! Su Xiaomei felt unwilling, weishenme? weishenme women can't live for themselves? Weishenme women can't make a career on their own?
She witnessed what happened to her mother Wang after losing her husband and son, and she witnessed her aunt Liu losing her husband and worrying about her son, she didn't want to try, she didn't want to follow the path of Wang and Liu, what about being born in a scholarly family? What about farming and reading heirlooms? In the end, a woman is still an accessory, or an ordinary thing! The concubines of those who have some money in Zhuangzi live as well as a dog, they are just tools for giving birth to children, and the only use is to give birth to children......
Over the years, I have heard those women chew their tongues and say that the little lady was beaten again, and which concubine was carried to the mass grave again, all kinds of things made Su Xiaomei feel afraid and resistant to this man's shijie who controlled everything from the bottom of her heart, she was afraid of men.
But Suning's appearance made Su Xiaomei trust men for the first time in her life......
Su Dingfang has been fighting all year round, Su Xiaomei has been fighting outside before she was born, although Su Dingfang loves her own girl, she has rarely expressed and cared for her, for Su Dingfang, Su Xiaomei respects, but she has no feeling of being able to rely on, but Suning is different, Su Xiaomei and Suning have only known each other for more than ten days, but the feeling that Suning brings to Su Xiaomei is a feeling that she can be completely trusted and can be relied on.
Men, not all of them are bad, such as the second brother......
For more than a dozen nights, Su Xiaomei said to herself......
But after all, he is his elder brother, he can't protect himself forever, he still has to get married, he still has to face everything that his mother and aunt faced, experience everything that his mother and aunt went through, feel everything they feel, live for her husband when she is young, live for her son when she is old, and can never live for herself......
She didn't want to, she didn't want to, she didn't want to live her life like this, how good would it be if she was a boy? Su Xiaomei asked herself more than once, but this is an unsolvable question, and no one will bring him an answer, Su Xiaomei naturally doesn't know that there will be sex reassignment surgery on shijie more than a thousand years later, but even if she knows, what?
She once felt desperate, and once wanted not to marry for the rest of her life, so she followed Suning for the rest of her life, being his good sister, and living under his wing for the rest of her life, at least without worrying about her life; This is not an uncommon thing in ancient times, it does not mean that a woman who is divorced from her husband's family has nowhere to go, there is no such inhumanity in ancient times, a woman divorced from her husband's family, she can get back the dowry, return to her mother's house with her husband's alimony, and be cheeky enough to live in her mother's house for the rest of her life, and the younger generations will have to support themselves, and they are not allowed to chew the root of their tongue.
But that is limited to the wife, and the concubine is not a complete person in the legal sense......
"Second brother, Jing'er doesn't want to live like A-Niang and her aunt, when she was young, for her husband, when she is old, for her children, her whole life has passed like this, Jing'er doesn't want to do this! Jing'er wants to do what she loves! Su Xiaomei mustered up the greatest courage, and used more than ten years of courage to say this sentence, this sentence was absolutely shocking in ancient times, and such a woman would not be allowed in a man's shijie.
Su Xiaomei trusts Suning and trusts her second brother, this second brother who loves her will definitely not let herself down, maybe......
Su Xiaomei herself is not sure, she doesn't know how Suning will treat her own thoughts, will she slap herself in anger and drive herself back to reflect on it, copy what "Female Ring", and then discipline herself harshly...... In that case, Su Xiaomei will accept her fate, and her greatest hope is gone, forget it......
Su Xiaomei looked at Suning with nine points of hope, a point of anxiety, and looked at her greatest hope.
Suning looked at Su Xiaomei and didn't say a word, time passed slowly, the brilliance in Su Xiaomei's eyes faded little by little, hope turned into apprehension, worry turned into despair, despair turned into ashes......
"Well done! My Suning's sister, how can she live an ordinary life?! ”
When Su Xiaomei's heart was like ashes, such a voice sounded, as if a dazzling light in the darkness cut through everything, and fell on Su Xiaomei's heart, the green seedlings of hope broke through the soil of despair, and in an instant, the sun was shining, the blue sky and white clouds, and the warm wind was gusting......
Su Xiaomei looked at Suning ecstatically, speechless, Suning stroked Su Xiaomei's head with a smile: "My Suning's sister, it's like this!" My Suning is extraordinary, and my sister is also extraordinary! Little sister, don't care what others say about you, the second brother supports you! Do whatever you want! The second brother will teach you everything immediately, and if you learn it, you will help the second brother manage the restaurant! When the time comes, there will be the name of the second brother in the history books, and there will be your name too! ”
Su Xiaomei felt that the softest place in her heart was touched, and suddenly threw herself into Suning's arms, tears burst out, and the negative emotions that had accumulated in her heart for more than ten years gushed out with the welling of tears, Suning hugged Su Xiaomei tightly, felt all the emotions of Su Xiaomei, and comforted her softly: "Jing'er, don't cry!" ”
In fact, Suning's heart is not calm at all, Suning can't understand the status of ancient women, she was born, grew up, married, gave birth to children, died, plain, and went to death; has never said that a woman can do a great career, which is also incredible in ancient times, but Su Xiaomei's words made Su Ning vaguely think of a person.
In the man's shijie, in the shijie where the man is in power and decides everything, he surpasses all men with a female stream, stands at the pinnacle of power in the world, makes all the eyebrows in the world bow down, and let all the men in the world use it for his own use, the strange woman who has only one person for thousands of years - Wu Zetian!
Suning is very curious, a woman, in the deep palace, what kind of experience and circumstances can make her want to rule the world, drive the golden dragon on the altar off the altar, and become the lord of the world, she is not a normal woman, she has paid everything she can as a woman for all this, she is almost not a woman, she killed all the people she needs to kill, drives away all the people who can be driven away, and changes Tang to Zhou, no one in the world dares to object.
What kind of deviant soul and rebellious blood can build such a woman? Suning didn't know, she only left a wordless tablet behind herself, Suning felt that this was her greatest pride, if that wordless tablet was her own true meaning, then Suning felt that she must want to tell those men who had surrendered to her, wait, not worthy of evaluating me!
Indeed, being a woman who has achieved the highest position of power in a patriarchal society, where are the men of that era worthy of evaluating Wu Zetian? Wu Zetian must have been very lonely before he died, he must have been very lonely, looking back on her life, she may have a little self-deprecation, but although Wu Zetian after the Shenlong Revolution lost everything, he never lost that pride, because no man can defeat Wu Zetian face to face, no! The wordless monument is her biggest and zuihou's pride, and it is also her eternal mockery of the world's eyebrows.
Will Su Xiaomei become Wu Zetian? No, no, absolutely not, although Suning has some respect and admiration for Wu Zetian, he will never allow Su Zetian to appear under his nose, because the premise of Wu Zetian's pride is to lose everything, and what he gains, he will have to pay the same price, Suning will not let Su Xiaomei kill her own flesh and blood with her own hands, kill her relatives, her descendants, and everyone around her, absolutely not!
Su Xiaomei will not become a person in the palace, she will not become the concubine of any prince, absolutely not! But from today on, she is destined to be a legend, destined to be as famous in history as Cai Wenji and Wu Zetian, but as long as I Suning lives for a day, I will not let her be hurt in the slightest.
Su Xiaomei will not be taken captive by foreign races and live miserably for more than ten years, and then her flesh and blood will be separated and she will suffer a lot of suffering in the world; will not enter the palace at the age of more than ten years, first serve Taizong, then serve Gaozong, and then kill flesh and blood with his own hands and ascend to a high position, absolutely not!
Then again, that proud woman is six years old this year......