One hundred and ninety-six Zhuge Liang is a smart man (three more to ask for a monthly pass)
Actually, Li Ruihan is not ugly, it may not look good in the eyes of ordinary people, especially the kind of people who pursue awl faces, phoenix eyes and willow eyebrows, Li Ruihan does not meet their aesthetics, but Suning prefers to be lively and cute, it is not necessary to look beautiful, with a little meat on his body, a little meat on his face, and his eyes are bent into an arc when he smiles, which is the type that Suning likes.
If she can be gentle, or Suning has never known her, Suning will not be so resistant, just a preconceived notion that Suning involuntarily has some feelings of resistance, and she didn't sleep well for a few nights, after thinking carefully, Suning will admit it, there is still a period of time, a woman can only marry at the age of fifteen, so the time for her to marry Li Ruihan will be three years later, how many things can happen in three years? Suning doesn't know, it's just that his mentality at that time must be different from now.
What is the idea of Lao Qin and Lao Li, Suning naturally knows, what is Li Xiaogong's idea, Suning also knows, such a thing can be thought of with his feet, it has been the same since ancient times, the higher the status, the more expensive the status, the more things can not be led according to their own ideas, because there are too many things to consider, and it will affect the whole body.
How many benefits are there to marry Li Ruihan, Suning can think of it with his feet, Qin Qiong and Li Jing can also think of it, Li Xiaogong should know more, so he will marry the Su family, in all fairness, this matter is a win-win thing for the Su family and the Hejian County Mansion itself, and the Su family has long had some cooperation with the Hejian County Palace. It's a pleasure to work together, and if you can deepen this relationship, a fool understands that it's a good thing.
Perhaps, except for the real aiqing, Suning has not yet felt it, the others are a match made in heaven in everyone's eyes, whether it is now or in the future, emotional matters, they will say that it is okay to cultivate slowly after marriage, isn't it like this for thousands of years? There are also many people who have the same unhappy thoughts as Suning. It's the same in modern times. Life is like a play, but haven't they all come over like this?
After figuring out this joint, Suning suddenly felt relieved in his heart, and it seemed that there was some change in his heart. What exactly has changed Suning is not clear. It's just that. Suddenly, I felt that I was not so impetuous, and I felt that I didn't have such worries about the future, or I guessed the people or things of Datang with the most malicious conjectures. The reason for this change is not clear to Suning, and there is no need to be clear, because, Suning thinks that many people will have this change, which may be quite good.
There are some sayings that there is no way to resist, and you can only enjoy it.
For example, in the past few days, Suning no longer sees Li Ruihan as if he saw the air as he did some time ago, and every time he and Li Ruihan are in the same school, the atmosphere is very embarrassing, especially when the eldest grandson Chong Changle Princess Zhuyu is in front, but he failed to usher in a more haode follow-up, which makes many people a little surprised, is it possible that Suning is unwilling to accept this marriage? Li Ruihan's complexion was not good, and he had a calm face when he returned home every day, which made Li Xiaogong very worried, and after inquiring, Li Xiaogong frowned.
But all of this ended after Suning figured it out, for example, that day, Suning got up early in the morning, went into the kitchen under the very stunned eyes of Zhang Long and Zhao Hu, who was on night duty, made a cake, and took it to the school, and then in the surprised eyes of many people, he sent the cake to Li Ruihan's hand with a smile on his face, and said: "Don't be sad all day long, don't say that your body is not good, it doesn't look beautiful, you see how much weight you have lost in these days, it's not good to be too thin, eat more!" ”
That afternoon, Li Xiaogong was about to go to Su Mansion to talk to Suning Haode and explain some things clearly, but he didn't expect Li Ruihan to run back to the mansion with a ruddy face, swept away the gloomy color of the past, smiled on his face, saw Li Xiaogong and jumped up with a hug, and then ran back to the house with a smile, which made Li Xiaogong very puzzled, and thought that something was wrong, very anxious, but when it was time to eat, Li Ruihan had a rare big meal in the past few months, which scared Mrs. Li and the three Li brothers......
"Rui Han, what's wrong with you? You, don't scare Daddy! Li Xiaogong couldn't even hold the chopsticks steadily, but Li Ruihan laughed and said, "Su Lang said that it's not good to be too thin, so you have to eat more." ”
……………………
Li Ruihan has changed and changed back to her original appearance, but it is a little different; Suning has also changed, losing its original appearance, and it is even more different.
It's like Li Jing is now looking at Suning, who is sitting honestly and completing his schoolwork with a serious face, and he is a little surprised, so he can't help asking: "Why do you feel that you have suddenly become a lot calmer these days, and you don't play or make trouble, and you don't complain that the teacher has assigned you so much homework?" Didn't you say that this sunny day should be used for play? Why are you sitting here honestly now? If something goes wrong, there must be a demon! ”
Suning raised his head, looked at Li Jing, and said with a slight smile: "I don't know why, these days, I suddenly feel quite quiet in my heart, and I don't have any other thoughts, so I feel that my studies are more interesting and valuable. ”
Li Jing was surprised and said, "Ning'er, you, don't be scared as a teacher!" You, what's wrong with you? After Li Jing finished speaking, he was about to step forward to see if Suning was crazy.
Suning blinked his eyes and smiled, "Not much!" The disciple just suddenly felt that he could calm down. ”
Li Jing took a closer look at Suning, his eyes were clear, his tone was normal, there was no problem, what was going on? Is it possible?
Li Jing suddenly showed a look of understanding, nodded and said, "I understand, do you think that if you have a wife, you should be more stable and prepare for the future?" It's good, it's good, it's a good man, this man's family, before he got married, he was more impetuous, and he was debauched, and it was inevitable, just like when he was young, he was also quite impetuous. shouted and shouted at every turn, the uncle, the former Sui general Han Baohu, always scolded the teacher, saying that the teacher was a reckless man.
Uncle is trying every means to rectify as a teacher, but there is no way, and later the teacher met your teacher and got married, this heart is the same as you are now. Suddenly. I just think it's quiet, and then, I'll be a little worried about everything, and I won't go around like I used to. Go noisy. Man. has become more stable, and only then has he learned a lot of things, and he has today's Li Jing. Indeed, getting married is not a good thing for a man. ”
Listening to Li Jing's words, Suning unexpectedly felt that this was right, as if, it really was, as if, every time you do something, there will always be a strange voice, saying Li Ruihan's name, and then telling yourself, she is your wife, you have to think about her, she will be your lifelong pillow person, and at the same time, Li Ruihan's appearance involuntarily appeared in his head, and then he quieted down inexplicably, this, it seems to be quite similar to Li Jing's experience.
"What the master said is, disciple, it seems to be the same." Suning nodded and said.
Li Jing continued: "At the beginning, when I saw that the teacher was going to forcibly settle a family affair with Yigong, I was not happy, right? ”
Suning nodded generously: "That's right, it's true that the boss is unhappy." ”
Li Jing nodded and smiled: "That's right, who wants to hand over their life's affairs to others?" Even if this person is the person closest to him, no matter how you say it, it will be a little uncomfortable, but it's a matter of fascination with the authorities, and the bystanders are clear, some things, others have to see more thoroughly than themselves, just like getting married, if you have to decide by yourself, who will you choose? ”
Suning was stunned for a moment, thought for a while, and then shook his head: "I can't think of it, I can't think of it for the time being, the disciple has only been in Chang'an for a year, and he hasn't had any contact with many women at all, and he can't think of it, even if he does, if he pursues it face-to-face, it is too shocking." ”
Li Jing nodded and said: "This is the key, young men, when choosing a wife, they will choose what they like, or they are beautiful, follow your own wishes, simply based on their appearance and personal preferences, that will not work, whether it is a woman or a man, that appearance will have an aging day, a woman is old and not good-looking, so what will the man who marries her by her appearance and preferences think?"
This world is the way of our men's family, but in this world, there are not only us men, there are also many women, and if there are no women, how can we men? In the final analysis, this is a process of yin and yang reconciliation, men and women are indispensable, the world is managed by our men's families, so there is always a place for women's families, and the head of this family should be managed by women.
So what kind of women are suitable for managing household chores? Naturally, she is a sober-minded, virtuous and virtuous woman, yes, everyone likes a dignified, virtuous, and intelligent virtuous helper, but how many such women are there? For the teacher, this appearance is the most unreliable, the ancestors have said that knowing people and knowing faces do not know the heart, if you look at a woman with a look, then you are a person, that's it.
You just said that Zhuge Liang, the prime minister of the Later Han Dynasty, why did he marry Huang Yueying? People say that Huang Yueying is ugly, with yellow hair and black skin, ouch, then it makes me sad to think about it, but a smart person like Zhuge Liang is a beautiful man with a heroic figure of eight feet, why did he marry Huang Yueying? Because Zhuge Liang saw Huang Yueying's inner beauty and the help that Huang Yueying could bring to Zhuge Liang, such a woman, smart, kind, knows that if you are good to people, if you are good to her, she will be good to you.
Sure enough, Zhuge Liang has never worried about housework in his life, Huang Yueying is his solid backing, not only helping him deal with housework, but also helping Zhuge Liang a lot in state and military affairs, so Zhuge Liang is smart, how long can a woman's beauty support? And how long can you maintain your intelligence? Is beauty important to a family, or is smart housekeeping important to the family?
Of course, if it is both, it is naturally the best, if it is not both, fish and bear's paw, Ning'er, do you know how to choose? Everyone in the world says that I, Pharmacist Li, am afraid of the inside, where am I afraid of the inside? I really admire your teacher, you can take care of everything properly for the teacher, these things can't be handled by the teacher, but your teacher can handle it, of course, you are also very lucky for the teacher, your teacher is the woman who has both, and Rui Han?
Everyone in the world says that Rui Han is the first heroine of the Li family, haha, alas, what she said is also right, her temperament is a little rougher, and there is more irony here, but do you know how much this "chivalrous" word can separate Rui Han from the rest of the spoiled princesses? Do you know why Rui Han alone is called "chivalrous", while other women are arrogant?
The world says that she is a heroine, precisely because the objects of Rui Han's nonsense are all royal relatives, family magnates, and even the princes and princesses in the palace, even the queen and princess, and even Bixia, even Bixia has also been bumped into by Rui Han, have you heard that Rui Han has done anything to the people below? Usually spoiled noblewomen like to take down the face to talk about things, beat and scold at every turn, and even take the lives of their subordinates, but Rui Han never does, she specifically looks for those powerful people, and when she sees an uncomfortable place, she goes up to mess around with others.
What does this mean? It means that although Rui Han is favored by the king of Hejian, he has not lost a bottom line, this child is kind by nature, good at fighting, but he has a tolerant heart towards his subordinates, and treats those who are unscrupulous, but he is always unaccustomed to it, and when he sees it, he always wants to go up and uphold justice, otherwise why are so many powerful people unwilling to let their daughters intersect with Rui Han? Earlier, they were scrambling to have a relationship with the king of Hejian, but every time Rui Han went to their mansion, he could always see something, and then make a big fuss, and over time, these people were afraid of Rui Han.
This kid, although it sounds like he has a bad reputation, but he has been happy to live a good life as a teacher, who hasn't seen it? You must believe in the vision of a teacher, for now, there is no one more suitable for you than Rui Han, this is a good child, how good you are to her, how good she is to you, even ten times a hundred times, Ning'er, the appearance is really not important, and the rumors of others are not important, because you can see, the important thing is what you can't see, the more you can't see, the more important it is! What's more, do you know that Rui Han has long been concerned about you?
Ning'er, do you really think that the teacher and Yigong are specifically looking for those with noble status when choosing a wife for you, and there is no bottom line? To tell you the truth for the teacher, for the teacher and Yigong have already decided, even if Bixia himself says, if you want to marry any princess to you, we will never agree, and your mother will never agree, those princesses, just for the teacher to get the news, and your age is right, except for Princess Changle, none of them are good at stubble, Bixia is good at governing the country and the army, but not good at governing the family, the reputation of the royal family, sooner or later it will be ruined in the hands of those princesses and princes, alas! (To be continued......)
PS: PS: For this matter of marrying a wife, I just want to say that this is the most realistic situation, it is like this in ancient times, regardless of whether you are a modern person who travels back or is from the ancients, you can't get around this hurdle, filial piety is the foundation of almost all dynasties, unfilial people, there is no place in the world, and the matter of marrying a wife is firmly tied to filial piety, which cannot be changed, even in modern times, there is a big contradiction, as for why Li Ruihan was chosen, because I think this is the most suitable choice, for now.