If it weren't for Yuan Zhiruo, who didn't approve of him being so rash, he wanted to beat the mandarin duck, and stopped him by tugging tightly on the corner of his clothes below. I'm afraid that because he can't explain too much, Yang Zhen, who has always forcibly suppressed the anger in his heart, has already burst out. It is true that Yang Jicai is his younger brother, but he is still his soldier.

However, receiving Yang Jicai's eyes for help, Yuan Zhiruo did not answer him immediately. Instead, he picked up the wine glass and gave it to the brothers who were obviously a little stiff, and after pouring a glass of wine each, he said, "Third brother, don't blame your eldest brother." Your eldest brother is opposed to this matter because of your eldest brother's concerns. ”

"If you can get to your eldest brother's position one day in the future, you know what he's worried about. Of course, you have your own thoughts on this matter, and we can understand that. But you're right, your eldest brother doesn't know people, let alone be familiar with them. It is indeed inappropriate to insist on opposing it in this way. ”

Speaking of this, Yuan Zhiruo looked at Yang Jicai with a sad face, pursed her lips and smiled: "But there are several brothers and sisters in your Yang family, except for the younger brother I am not familiar with, the rest are all the same temper and dead eyes in emotional matters, and your eldest brother was almost like this at the beginning." I think you're all over your brother's business. ”

"I don't think it's good or not, don't rush to conclusions with your eldest brother. As for you, you have withdrawn your marriage report for the time being. When we got acquainted with the girl, we got to know each other for a real time. If she is really as good as you say, your eldest brother will naturally have no reason to object. ”

"Anyway, you're both young now, and it's not the time to get married. If she is really a good girl, and there is a temporary setback in her marriage, I don't think there will be a situation where Lao Yan separates. If you really have a fate, it's not someone who can dissolve it. Besides, you have to think about your father's attitude, don't you? Slow down for a while, so that parents also have a process of acceptance. ”

After all, from a colleague around him to a daughter-in-law all of a sudden, the elderly also need a certain adaptation process. When everyone got to know each other, I think it would come naturally. But for now, it's better to give everyone some buffering process. ”

"Your eldest brother doesn't have much time, if you believe me as a sister-in-law in this matter, then leave it to me. I promise to give you a satisfactory answer, and even if I disagree, I will give you an acceptable reason. But third brother, there is one thing I have to make clear to you, if things are not what you imagined, I hope you can accept it rationally. ”

"If you really can't accept a different outcome, then you don't need your eldest brother to come forward in this marriage, I'll go to their social department and transfer that girl now. And you two, don't want to meet in this life. You are a man, and you are a soldier who stands up to the sky. ”

"I don't have this bit of responsibility and bearing, how can I lead the troops to gallop across the field in the future, and how can I hold up a world for the woman you love? Men don't just talk about it, and it's not just the two words that are simply written. The big husband should do something and not do something. ”

"Back then, your sister-in-law and I failed in the Fourth Army's Western Expedition, and I traveled thousands of miles with a comrade-in-arms, relying on two 38 rifles and more than 100 rounds of ammunition, and rushed out of several encirclements of the Japanese army. After being separated from the troops, he braved the severe cold of more than 30 degrees below zero, starved along the way, hiding from the Japanese puppet army who searched the mountains all over the mountains, and walked back to the base area to find the old troops while fighting to no avail. ”

"I was trapped in the deep mountains and old forests for a whole year, often without food for several days in a row, walking hungry and shaking, looking at the gun in my hand, I wanted to shoot myself in the head. In the third and ninth days, he didn't dare to make a fire, so he could only hug his only remaining comrade-in-arms to keep warm, and he lived like two beasts. ”

"What's more important is the feeling of loneliness after leaving the army, which you can't imagine. Was that frustration great? Isn't it still the same as sticking to it? You should know my family background, if I put down my gun at that time, I would have gone home to be my eldest lady. ”

"Your sister-in-law and I can do it as a woman, and I hope you, a man, should do it even more. In particular, don't forget that you are a soldier who has stood the test of life and death on the battlefield. The life and death hurdles have been passed, and I hope that your love hurdles can be passed as well. ”

"After the death of your eldest brother's ex-fiancée, he was even more sad than you are now. But as the head of the army, no matter how painful he was, he had to press it in his heart, and he didn't even dare to show it on his face, for fear of causing the army's heart to waver. But didn't he just persevere? You are born at most, but what about your eldest brother at that time? ”

"Of course, the experiences of your two brothers are different, and I don't require you to be completely as strong as your eldest brother, but you must overcome this hurdle in your heart. Because the door is closed, we are all family. Whether you understand it or not, you have to accept your eldest brother's final decision. He's not just your big brother, he's your chief. ”

After Yuan Zhiruo's words, Yang Jicai, who was taken aback by his sister-in-law's experience, didn't know that the wine in his mouth flowed down the corners of his mouth. He knew about the sacrifice of his eldest brother's ex-fiancée. After all, although many people don't know the inside story of this matter, Zhang Ting was the first senior cadre to die since the reorganization of the Second Route Army of the Anti-Japanese Alliance, which was also quite a sensation.

But Yuan Zhiruo's experience, don't look at the two people who were found in the same place and entered the army with their front and back feet, but Yang Jicai is really not clear. Now Yang Jicai knows that he is always gentle and elegant on the outside, and he is very good at mediating internal family affairs. The sister-in-law who convinced herself and her little sister actually had such an experience.

The winter climate in the Northeast, he is very clear. It is difficult for a woman or a man to persevere in that environment. But my sister-in-law, who looked soft and weak, actually persevered so stubbornly, not to mention, and the two of them fought alone for so long. Yang Jicai realized that he really underestimated his sister-in-law.

However, although he was very surprised by Yuan Zhiruo's experience, after Yuan Zhiruo said this, Yang Jicai's expression was much better. Although he was obviously a little unwilling, he finally nodded after hesitating for a long time. He knew that if he went under the hard top and his sister-in-law's support was gone, then there would really be no hope at all.

But for Yang Jicai, the sister-in-law promised that the sister-in-law agreed, and the eldest brother did not nod but always made his heart hang. If you don't say anything else, as long as the eldest brother says a word, it is very easy to transfer people to Guannai. If that's the case, it's hard to meet your sweetheart.

Yang Jicai knew that his eldest brother still cared about family affection, otherwise he wouldn't have needed to set up today's family banquet. It wasn't until he saw that the eldest brother's frowning brows did not loosen, but he finally nodded slightly, that Yang Jicai's heart that had always been hanging finally let go.

It's just that Yang Jicai didn't know that Yang Zhen nodded this time, but he didn't agree with his sister-in-law's idea. It was because Yuan Zhiruo mentioned the person she was once familiar with, which caused some troubles, so she finally nodded and agreed to Yuan Zhiruo's idea. If it weren't for Yuan Zhiruo mentioning the past in order to give Yang Jicai some encouragement, Yang Zhen wouldn't have been able to nod at all.

After Yang Jicai left, looking at Yang Zhen, who was a little sullen because he didn't get along, Yuan Zhiruo sighed slightly: "You, you can't always treat your family like you like a soldier." The third brother is also a flesh-and-blood person, and he has a very deep relationship with that girl, how can you break it up in just a few words? ”

"Besides, if Jicai really broke up with that girl immediately because of your opinion, do you dare to reuse such a person? If you give up so simply, won't Jicai become a ruthless, unrighteous and mercenary person? Even a woman with deep affection is abandoned so casually, even if this person is your younger brother, it is not worth entrusting him with a heavy responsibility. ”

"Don't forget that you're not just his big brother, you're the number one in the army. How to use people, you have a certain ruler in mind. If Jicai really gives up completely because of your few words, I think even if you follow your wishes, I am afraid that you will at most transfer him back to the rear in the future, and you will never be exclusive to the front again. ”

"The two of us have been together for so long, don't I know your temperament? Discipline is discipline, ideas are ideas, but the bottom line of your life is there. If Jicai agrees to this easy move, I think you will not only breathe a sigh of relief in your heart, but I am afraid that you will be more dissatisfied. ”

"Actually, I'm not worried about this girl, although Jicai is younger, but he is shrewd and capable, and he is not the kind of person who can be easily fascinated by sex. This girl can enter his eyes, and throw out the identity and background that make you a little taboo, not to mention, it should be something extraordinary. ”

"Compared with the matter of the two of them, I am more worried that Jicai's affectionate and righteous character will suffer losses in the future, and even have to fall and fight. He is different from us, we have all come from the most difficult environment, little by little. But he has had a smooth ride since joining the army and has suffered largely no setbacks. Although he has won a lot of battles, he is still a little immature in terms of experience.

"Although it is not as youthful as some people, and some achievements are extremely public, but the arrogance in my heart must be there. And I look at his performance on the battlefield, and he is also very bold. Even No. 3 once said that Jicai's courage on the battlefield is not ordinary. ”

"Coupled with the fact that I attach great importance to love and righteousness, and even have some Shanghainese personalities, I am really a little worried about his future, whether it is on the battlefield or in other aspects, will he suffer a big loss? It's a good thing to value love and righteousness, but I'm afraid it's too much. ”

Regarding his wife's worries, Yang Zhen was silent for a long time before nodding: "You, who are sisters-in-law, are much more competent than me, who are brothers." These analyses of yours just hit his point of weakness. This kid is not small, not to mention, and not only has arrogance in his heart, but that arrogance is definitely not small. ”

"At that time, I was more fighting, if I didn't fight, there would be no way out, and the only way out was to annihilate the whole army or die. There is no way, the hope of the whole army is in you, even if you take a step back, it will be an abyss. It's a dead end, and you can't fight it. ”

But right now, he really dares to think and do. To tell the truth, some of his methods were replaced by me, and I didn't dare to make this decision easily, saying that he was bold, that was picking up good praise for him. It's not good to say, this kid is just a gambler. ”

"You're right, he's having a good time now, and with the addition of young ambition, even the most humble person has to develop some arrogance. This arrogance should be necessary as a soldier, but the arrogance is too much, and no one in his eyes is the beginning of the disaster. In a man's life, it's not a good thing to be too smooth. There were some tribulations before real gold could be refined. ”