I was talking to my assistant about something at the time. At this time, my phone rang. I took out my phone and saw that it was an unfamiliar number

Seriously, this kind of unfamiliar number, if it were in normal times, I would definitely not answer such a call. Because I know that a lot of strange numbers are called to harass, although my phone is a private phone, but for the current Huaxia, there are still private phones, private messages, many students' phones or teachers' phones, have been used by some criminals. But this kind of problem, as a public security department, has no way to intervene, if they can intervene, then this phenomenon, they will prohibit it.

But today, I don't know what happened to me, maybe which nerve is abnormal, right? It's just that the mood came. I'm so self-defeating. Then take it!

Does he care if he is a stranger or not? I'll just take it. I said so in my heart.

"Hello, that one?" I asked.

"It's such a teacher, I'm the parent of the child, and my child has a bad problem, I really don't know what to say." The parent said.

This parent has been on the phone for a long time, and I think there must be something unspeakable. I can better understand her helplessness as a mother.

So I asked, "You're the child's mother, right?"

"That's right!" The child's mother said.

So I came out of the house with my phone. To be honest, I've guessed pretty much at this point.

"Since you feel that you are embarrassed to talk to your child about this problem, then why don't you let your child's father tell your child." I asked.

"It's such a teacher, the child's father is not at home and goes out to work." The child's mother said.

"Oh! That's right. Okay, I've come out of the office, say whatever you want. Before you talk about this question, since you think it is something difficult to say, let me tell you, is it convenient for you to speak in your current position?" I asked.

To be honest, after I asked, I regretted it a little because I knew that my so-called convenience to her was for her children. But what time is it, when the children are in class. So what's the inconvenience to say?

"Convenient, teacher, can I start now? The parent said. ”

"Of course, you can get started."

"It's such a teacher, I've been thinking about this for a long time, who should I talk to. I'll talk to the child's father, I'm afraid that the child's father doesn't know much about this issue, although he may have some criminal records, but I think it's still you and I think it's more reassuring after I say it. Because you are a person who learns traditional culture and teaches traditional culture, I still believe in you more. Having said so much nonsense, you see. As I spoke, I could see laughter on the other side of the phone.

And then after a while, she went on to say, "Well, one day I went to clean the bathroom, and I forgot to lock the door when he entered the bathroom." Guess what he's doing in the bathroom. Really, I don't even know how I came up with such a child.

I could hear the remorse of the child's mother on the other side of the phone.

"What grade is your child in?" I asked.

"He's in the second year of junior high school this year." The child's mother replied.

"Oh, I said, it's easy to make mistakes at this age, and of course, you, as the child's mother, must be embarrassed to ask your child such a question.

"Yes." The child's mother said.

"Then if you believe in me like this, I will definitely not be able to live up to your trust in me. Is this the kind of parent, let me tell you, are you talking about children's problems? I said.

"Yes, teacher." child

"Well, as for the child's name, it will not play much role in solving this problem, so I don't need to ask, but I tell you, the child's mother, I want to tell you about this first, and when I come back and wait for the child to get out of school, I will tell the child that although it is the child who wants to change this problem, but as you, the child's mother, you should educate the child and let him use the main energy on the child. Then the child will change. And I, as a male compatriot, as a person who has come over, tell you that your problems are not very easy to change to be honest. But we're going to change it too. You should know this. ”

Because of the child's mother, I think she should be about the same age as me, although her children are so old, it just proves that she got married relatively early. On the other hand, as the principal of this traditional culture school, I should explain everything clearly, and I can't be embarrassed to say some things, how can that be done.

"I can say this thing, basically more than 60% of men have committed such a mistake when they are young, but how about it, a large part of this reason must be due to social reasons, such as the moral decline in recent years, the emancipation of Western values, and some of them should be the reasons in the family, that is, as parents of children, they do not know how to educate their children.

Why in the past, there were few problems of one kind or another? Because people in the past were not so open-minded, and besides, children were exposed to very few things. It's different now, in today's society, with the popularization of smartphones, all children, no matter how big or small, have mobile phones in their hands. And in addition to mobile phones, computers, television, newspapers and magazines, and print media advertisements do you say that such things do not directly or indirectly affect children?

Children who are exposed to bad information about this or that thing will naturally learn it slowly. As our parents, we must learn to guide.

Some teenagers sometimes have to do it several times a day. When I say this, all my friends should be able to understand it. You said that your body was young at this time, and when you were a little older, those problems of one kind or another came out, such as soreness in the waist and knees. Now is the time for the child to grow up, and you say that if he wastes all his time on this, he will definitely not do anything in the future.

Dr. Peng Xin once said that a friend of his specializes in domesticating hunting dogs, if the male and female dogs are together overnight. Then it will have a great impact on the sense of smell the next day, and if people want to make achievements and innovations in science and technology or art, they must control the number of times they do this.

I'll give you so much briefly, you see that the child is after school tonight, is it okay, just let him call this number.

And they said, okay. I hung up the phone.

After school in the evening, I was busy tutoring my child Jiang Cong's homework, so I forgot about such things.

College was at nine o'clock when my phone rang. I understood as soon as I looked at my phone.