Article 1136

The reason why they ask you is because they have discovered your abnormality, and asking is just a form, a form of confirming that you are okay, and as for the reason why you are in trouble, many other times are not what the other party is willing to care about.

Of course, it depends on the intimacy between you and the other person, like two people in a normal relationship, this kind of casual asking "what's wrong with you" and something like that, in fact, most of the time just want to make sure that you are okay, it does not mean that they care about what happens to you.

What's more, when they ask you this, they don't necessarily really care about your situation, but just out of politeness.

They notice something strange about you, but they don't really care about your situation, and they just think it's polite to ask.

Socializing with people is very taboo to overshare, especially those with whom the relationship is not very familiar and intimate.

People just ask, "Have you eaten?", maybe they really care about whether you have eaten or not, or maybe they just say it out of politeness or no other topic.

But if you not only answer that he "ate", but also tell him what exactly he is eating, etc., in many cases it is not suitable.

Of course, it still has to be based on the premise that your relationship with the other party is not very familiar, if it is a very familiar person, you can say anything.

If you can think about it from the other person's point of view, you will know how stupid your behavior is that it may cause the other party to resent and may also bring unnecessary trouble to yourself.

There is a person with very low emotional intelligence, who is walking on the road home from work, but unexpectedly encounters a new colleague in the company, they have not known each other for long, and they have not even talked to each other before.

But this person had to come up and say hello to the other party, and then say, "Ah, what a coincidence, your house is also here?" My house is in xxxx ......"

"xxxx" is the specific address, I already have questions when I hear this, since you are not familiar with the other party, it is necessary to explain your address so clearly as soon as you come up?

It's enough for you to say "my house is nearby".

And after that, this person knows that the other party is on the same road as him, but he likes to go by himself and doesn't want anyone to go with him, but obviously the other party is a company with him, and he also lets the other party know the address of his home, so he complains every day that it is too annoying and so on.

Since you don't want to know more about each other, what's the point of giving so much information about yourself as soon as you come up? I'm afraid that others don't know who you are, and since you said it, then don't regret it.

If you have a shallow relationship with the other party, in fact, many requirements and dialogues are inappropriate, which can easily arouse the disgust of the other party, and will also make yourself encounter some unnecessary trouble.

……

Xu Ya said the question of the joke, Qin kept saying that he had told this joke many times, but there were no more than three people laughing.

The last time I was in that copy of the separation between the "new humans" and the "old humans", when he was on the same plane as the members of Storm Studios, some of the audience laughed.

Other times, when he told the joke, the other party basically just politely replied, "It's a little funny, but it's too cold".

"So, you're not thinking about how different you are, are you? If you want me to say, the difference should be those of us who laugh when we hear it. "Qin Yi doesn't care.

"Don't be sentimental, I'm thinking about this joke mainly because I think that young lady has nothing to do with you." Xu Ya said, "That young lady is too simple, I want her contact information, we can team up together tonight, anyway, the version has not been updated, and the copies of the dawning module have been conquered by us so far......"

"Don't you work?" Qin Yi asked.

"I'll talk about it tomorrow, anyway, my readers are very understanding and considerate of me, I'm a little tired today, I don't want to work, I just want to have fun and indulge." Xu Ya said indifferently, her face was not red when she said such words, her heart was not beating, and she had no shame at all.

"That young lady's quest is progressing quite well, isn't it? As far as I know, the previous copies were all carried out by a single person...... "Qin Yiyi."

"Sexism again?" Xu Ya glanced at Qin Yi, "Her dungeon progress is only two times slower than ours, which is quite powerful." ”

"Really? That's kind of awesome. Qin nodded.

"Forget it, the size of the team is not enough, I thought I could rotate it, but you are so short-sighted, then I have to line up with that young lady for one night."

"That's what you were going to do, didn't you?" Qin Yi asked rhetorically, "Then you look for a young lady, and I have to find another young lady......

"Whatever you want." Xu Ya snorted lightly, obviously she had a new love, and she didn't care much about Qin Yi.

Qin Yi looked up to the sky and sighed, and then planned to take a taxi and go home directly, not to send Xu Ya home.

"Are you threatening me?" Xu Ya asked, "Since I am already familiar with those two copies, I should clear the customs quickly, and the later dungeons, I can line up with you, and that young lady will wait for me to understand the situation of the dungeon, and then I will arrange it with her." ”

"Are you keeping me?" Qin Yi smiled, "It's useless, when you change your mind, I can't keep it, okay, I know that you are a weird person, and you also like to communicate with people who are not very normal...... I don't mean to insult people, it's just that the young lady is really simpler, and in this impetuous society, she is indeed abnormal. ”

"I don't think she would be angry if she heard you." Xu Ya said, "She seems to admire you." ”

"Really? It seems that it should be because of my extraordinary conversation and profound knowledge......" Qin Yiyi, "After all, you were so attracted to me in the first place......"

"Phew, don't be narcissistic, send me home quickly, and then you can take a taxi home." Xu Ya said.

"Why don't you come by car?" Qin Yi asked.

"It's raining today and don't want to dirty my car." Xu Ya said.

"Understand, understand, understand." Qin nodded, many girls actually pay more attention not to the practicality of an item, but to its aesthetics.

Just like a car, in fact, many girls don't have to take it to drive when they buy it, and many times they would rather let the car eat dirt than necessarily plan to drive it.

It's very real, so to speak.

After Qin Yi sent Xu Ya away, he left alone, and this feeling of being abandoned was obviously not good.