Article 1068

After all, if you are too ambitious, you will often get nothing, and only by being content can you not experience the pain of powerlessness from time to time. But you will be warned that you must be far-sighted, you don't have to be ambitious, but you must not be too short-sighted, otherwise you will regret it.

At this point, you should suspect that there is something wrong with the idea of one of them? Actually, it shouldn't.

Because people often have to live in contradictions, while doing one thing, they also have to do the opposite of the other point, and in fact, if you see more clearly, these two seemingly opposite things are not contradictory.

Just as you need to be far-sighted, not short-sighted, and only for the pleasures of seeing, but also to be satisfied in a timely manner, and not to be too greedy, this is a difficult balance to master, and like all other seemingly contradictory things, this balance will fall into anxiety once you break it.

……

Qin Yi didn't wait long, and arrived on time.

He is wearing a black trench coat, the current season is probably the end of autumn and the beginning of winter, so this guy's dress is normal, he wears a peaked cap, and the tall collar of the trench coat blocks most of his face, making it impossible to see his true face, this guy likes to pretend to be mysterious, Qin Yi is already expected, he didn't wear sunglasses and masks, which made Qin Yi feel a little novel.

Although the other party did not clearly inform him of his physical characteristics and clothing, and before he had any intention of coming to Qin Yi's table, Qin Yi could already intuitively judge that this guy was the mysterious man who had taken away the ghost daughter before and contacted Qin Yi.

After all, in fact, intuition doesn't play a big role here, the most important thing is that this guy's dress is out of place with the people around him, even if he is dressed tightly now, it's nothing, but the restaurant has air conditioning inside, and he wraps himself so tightly, obviously many people will think more.

What this person's face is burned and he doesn't dare to see people, what this person is a thief or a murderer, he doesn't dare to show his true face, because he has been being compiled, in short, because of many people's unwarranted thoughts, this black-clothed brother is not less misunderstood, and it is common to be cold-eyed.

It is always difficult for people to accept those who are different from them, but in the final analysis, the deep reason is that they are worried that the other party is different from them and will threaten them, whether it is life, life, or interests.

As the saying goes, "those who are not of my race will have different hearts", in fact, this is not necessarily the case, but this has become an excuse for many people to fight against each other, after all, even those closest to them have the possibility of threatening their own interests, not to mention those who are different from them in many places.

People don't trust other people easily, and those who easily believe in other people exist at first, but after being ruthlessly tortured by the years, they finally choose not to trust other people easily.

And those who have experienced vicissitudes and have been hurt countless times but still choose to trust them, can't say that there are basically none, but there are too few.

……

"You're not surprised, how do I know it's at this table?" The man in black finally came to Qin Yi's table, sat down as if no one was around, and asked casually.

"If you don't even know this, then the mystery you keep all the time is too cheap." Qin Yi smiled and sneered.

……

After all, if you are too ambitious, you will often get nothing, and only by being content can you not experience the pain of powerlessness from time to time. But you will be warned that you must be far-sighted, you don't have to be ambitious, but you must not be too short-sighted, otherwise you will regret it.

At this point, you should suspect that there is something wrong with the idea of one of them? Actually, it shouldn't.

Because people often have to live in contradictions, while doing one thing, they also have to do the opposite of the other point, and in fact, if you see more clearly, these two seemingly opposite things are not contradictory.

Just as you need to be far-sighted, not short-sighted, and only for the pleasures of seeing, but also to be satisfied in a timely manner, and not to be too greedy, this is a difficult balance to master, and like all other seemingly contradictory things, this balance will fall into anxiety once you break it.

……

Qin Yi didn't wait long, and arrived on time.

He is wearing a black trench coat, the current season is probably the end of autumn and the beginning of winter, so this guy's dress is normal, he wears a peaked cap, and the tall collar of the trench coat blocks most of his face, making it impossible to see his true face, this guy likes to pretend to be mysterious, Qin Yi is already expected, he didn't wear sunglasses and masks, which made Qin Yi feel a little novel.

Although the other party did not clearly inform him of his physical characteristics and clothing, and before he had any intention of coming to Qin Yi's table, Qin Yi could already intuitively judge that this guy was the mysterious man who had taken away the ghost daughter before and contacted Qin Yi.

After all, in fact, intuition doesn't play a big role here, the most important thing is that this guy's dress is out of place with the people around him, even if he is dressed tightly now, it's nothing, but the restaurant has air conditioning inside, and he wraps himself so tightly, obviously many people will think more.

What this person's face is burned and he doesn't dare to see people, what this person is a thief or a murderer, he doesn't dare to show his true face, because he has been being compiled, in short, because of many people's unwarranted thoughts, this black-clothed brother is not less misunderstood, and it is common to be cold-eyed.

It is always difficult for people to accept those who are different from them, but in the final analysis, the deep reason is that they are worried that the other party is different from them and will threaten them, whether it is life, life, or interests.

As the saying goes, "those who are not of my race will have different hearts", in fact, this is not necessarily the case, but this has become an excuse for many people to fight against each other, after all, even those closest to them have the possibility of threatening their own interests, not to mention those who are different from them in many places.

People don't trust other people easily, and those who easily believe in other people exist at first, but after being ruthlessly tortured by the years, they finally choose not to trust other people easily.

And those who have experienced vicissitudes and have been hurt countless times but still choose to trust them, can't say that there are basically none, but there are too few.

……。

"You're not surprised, how do I know it's at this table?" The man in black finally came to Qin Yi's table, sat down as if no one was around, and asked casually.

"If you don't even know this, then the mystery you keep all the time is too cheap." Qin Yi smiled and sneered.