Chapter 433: Look at people and things
Seeing people and seeing things have always been put together, and many people have always blurred these two things as a whole.
But these two things are completely different.
No matter what the matter, no matter what the tension of the thing is, it has a certain frame and rules that die there, with its corresponding upper and lower limits, and there are also relevant traces to follow.
But people are completely different.
A person can be an ordinary person or a person in a high position.
He can be capricious and uncertain, or he can be a more determined and consistent person.
But there is no trace of man to look for.
Those so-called traces are often illusions.
Therefore, it is easy to see things, but it is difficult to see people.
No one dares to say that he is a person who is good at seeing people, at least he Lin Chaofeng does not dare.
But it should be this mentality that he can see Chen Changqing by his side thoroughly.
This is not to say that Chen Changqing is not smart, in Lin Chaofeng's opinion, this person is just too smart.
After all, for a smart person like him, his mind is in prison, and it is completely his own making.
However, if you want to look at the person in front of you, Zhang Yawen can't see what calculation Zhang Yawen is doing, but Zhang Yawen can't see it, more precisely, after he said this, Chen Changqing also fell into a short silence, Lin Chaofeng only felt that the smile in Zhang Yawen's eyes was even worse.
They are here to be guests, and Chen Changqing is the host of this dinner.
Naturally, Lin Chaofeng will not embarrass Chen Changqing.
Lin Chaofeng turned his head to Chen Changqing and said, "Brother Changqing, you don't need to be obsessed, you don't think you should take him to heart about this matter." ”
Chen Changqing sighed: "I don't want to say that I take it to heart, it's just a small thing in the past, but today's topic sighed, and I also turned up this old thing." ”
"It's just that I never thought that I had always felt that I had handled it well, and when you said this, my friend, I instantly felt that my handling of this matter was a failure, and at the same time, thank you friend for your enlightenment, which made me understand some truth."
Saying this, he has become a person, Lin Chaofeng thought that he was not a psychological master, and he just followed his feelings and said, When you come, you have become this kind of identity.
Lin Chaofeng said with a smile: "What's the matter, don't take it too seriously, Brother Changqing, I just said it casually, and I didn't mean anything else." ”
Chen Changqing shook his head and said: "No, no, no, now that I look back, I have had problems in many things, before that I could feel that I was not good enough, but I never found the problem, and when I was irritable, I would even lower the responsibility and push it to others." ”
"Friend, when you say this, it also instantly reminds me of some other things, and now it seems that those things that I haven't dealt with well are still my problems many times; Some of the things that have passed seem to be perfect, but my role in them seems to be a little overdone. ”
At this time, Zhang Yawen was born and said: "You still haven't changed, you pay too much attention to your feelings, and you pay too much attention to your status in related things, you have always been like this." ”
"When we were both young, I told you that it was tiring to live like you, and you thought I was joking and didn't care, but now it seems that you are still like this, maybe this is your character."
Chen Changqing looked at Zhang Yawen and sighed: "Maybe my character is like this, I either don't participate in many things, and once I participate, I will do my best to deal with it." ”
"I didn't take what you said to me as a joke, and as you said, everyone was still young at that time, and I always felt that this was my character, and a person should have his own character."
"Looking back now, I am still too obsessed with some things, especially the things I care about, once I pay attention to it, I will always think about how to do my best, and I will think about how to improve my ability if I don't have the corresponding ability."
Lin Chaofeng interjected: "Isn't this very good, it's no wonder that Brother Changqing is now a big boss, a person like me who is leisurely all day long, has no big dreams and can't endure any hardships, and he is still a rubber." ”
Chen Changqing and Zhang Yawen both knew that Lin Chaofeng was ending this topic with his own self-deprecation, and they also felt that this topic was too dull.
What is the purpose of their gathering?
The dishes on this table seem to tell them that they will gather here simply to gather here, and happiness and happiness are the most important things.
Chen Changqing raised the wine glass in his hand again, and the three of them had a few glasses again, but fortunately, Lin Chaofeng and Chen Changqing had a very high amount of wine, and there was no official start to this meal, in short, they had drunk a lot so far, but they couldn't see half of the drunkenness on their faces.
After three rounds of drinking, I have something to say.
Whether it's a dinner or a simple meal between friends, after the wine and food are eaten, there will naturally be corresponding topics to match.
Chen Changqing looked up at the faint night sky, and said helplessly: "I said that the sky is not beautiful, in the final analysis, I didn't pick the right day, it stands to reason that this time period has come here, and this night will also add a little color here, but now it ......."
Lin Chaofeng didn't know that the place where the three of them were actually a more famous place to eat in H City, but he knew that it didn't make much sense, after all, in his place, eating was eating.
Lin Chaofeng looked at Zhang Yawen, and seeing that she was still silent, he couldn't help but wonder a little, thinking that he was a little distracted.
This quiet expression naturally means that Zhang Yawen should have his own preparations before coming to this dinner, not just coming by appointment.
What also made Lin Chaofeng feel a little strange was this Chen Changqing, although there were already some topics about him before, but it was never the theme.
Lin Chaofeng would not think that the reason why he sat here was not after his careful consideration, and he would not think that the reason why he was able to be so casual was entirely because he had some kind of protagonist aura.
His arrival has arrangements with Zhang Yawen; For Chen Changqing, there must be a corresponding purpose.
Otherwise, it is obviously an occasion for two old classmates with an inexplicable relationship to meet, how would such an embarrassing existence of himself appear here as a matter of course?
Lin Chaofeng is not a fool, no one knows how to measure himself better than him, at least he thinks so.