Chapter 1009: Daily
The Ban family moved from Anling to Luoyang City, but the Cao family was still in the countryside of Anling, and after the matter of Ban Gu was resolved, Zhou Shaoyu immediately 'went out' again, because the two of them had not seen each other for a while, and they never thought that she had indeed come over by herself.
If it is put in the future generations, it is not a new thing for women to go out alone, although there will still be a certain danger in terms of safety, but it is much better than in ancient times, after all, I have never heard of any girl in ancient times who dared to travel alone from Gar. It's really too dangerous to move, and accidents will happen if you're not careful, not to mention that Aunt Cao's appearance is quite good.
From this aspect, no matter what reason Cao Xiaogu has, Zhou Shaoyu will not give a good face, willful, too capricious! What if something really happens?
"Do you think you need to do that? I haven't suffered before. ”
Zhou Shaoyu is funny and angry.
This Nizi is not too stupid, she is sloppy and sloppy, and she doesn't know what dirty things she touched, anyway, there is a strange smell all over her body, and it really doesn't smell good.
But Rao is like this, and it is also extremely lucky to be able to arrive in Luoyang City smoothly. Even if it's not too far.
After all, it's just dirty and smelly, where do those township men care about this, they really think about it, and forcibly pull it back to wash, just pick up a daughter-in-law and come back, and there is still a bride price left, how good. At that time, Cao Xiaogu's name was called a point where the sky was not good and the earth should not be. Is it true that the lack of a wife is exclusive to the next generation?
Let's take a look later, good guy, Cao Xiaogu is not only quite beautiful, but also can read and write, that is three words, valuable goods! It can definitely be sold for a fortune.
"But if the slave doesn't leave, it's too late." Aunt Cao is so aggrieved.
She arrived early, which naturally means that she has reached the age of marriage early, and Aunt Cao didn't care about it, she was still naïve. But since I hit once, I accidentally saw a matchmaker at home come to talk about matchmaking, and I began to worry.
Don't forget, the concept of Cao Xiaogu and Ban Zhao is completely opposite, if Ban Zhao is the most typical ancient virtuous and virtuous woman, then Cao Xiaogu is a deviant. It's not that Cao Xiaogu doesn't know the skills of a virtuous and virtuous woman, it's just a matter of thought.
Otherwise, in the original history, she would not have written a book to refute Ban Zhao's views after he wrote "The Female Commandment".
It's a pity that Ban Zhao's "Female Commandment" is more in line with the mainstream ideas of the moment, and is more popular with the public, well, to be precise, it is more accepted by men in the male-respecting society, so naturally, Cao Xiaogu's article has become dross and is abandoned by people. As a result, even the title of the book was not left, and even the person himself was only a passing mention.
But then again, according to the original history, even if Cao Xiaogu deviated from the scriptures, she would never do such a thing as running away from home.
You can imagine that Ban Zhao wrote "The Female Commandment" in his old age, and Cao Xiaogu wanted to refute it, and his age was naturally already in his old age. At that time, Cao Xiaogu's thoughts were still so 'dross', which fully showed that her marital experience was by no means perfect, in other words, her overall thoughts, at most, were a bud when she was young, and the rest were gradually perfected in the process of growing up.
But now, because of Zhou Shaoyu's existence, it has obviously accelerated this process.
Because he didn't want to 'hurt people', Zhou Shaoyu didn't really tell Cao Xiaogu what kind of thinking about women being independent, the so-called half a step ahead is a genius, and one step ahead is a madman, and the influence is too much, then Cao Xiaogu will only be regarded as a madman, and when Zhou Shaoyu and Ban Zhao are gone in the future, Cao Xiaogu's life will definitely be difficult.
But if you don't take the initiative, you don't take the initiative, but if you get along with each other, if you have more contact, how can you not affect each other.
You must know that Zhou Shaoyu is familiar with him, and even before Ban Zhao, there is a lot of communication between the two. Maybe it's true that there is no further instigation of thought, but it is natural to condone this aspect, who makes Zhou Shaoyu not care, in the end, where can the ancient girl go if she is deviant.
But running away from home like this is a bit unexpected.
Not to mention ancient times, even in the later generations, running away from home is definitely a big rebellion, this thing is exaggerated.
It is conceivable that if there is no Zhou Shaoyu's existence, and the original history is estimated, Cao Xiaogu will eventually marry honestly, after all, the status of women is here, and the overall social atmosphere is the same, with personal strength, it is almost impossible to resist.
But it's different now, in the same time period, the original history, although the Ban family has moved to Luoyang City, but the relationship between Cao Xiaogu and the Ban family is like this, not to mention that their private relationship with Ban Zhao is not bad, in the end, the concepts of the two are too different.
But who let one more Zhou Shaoyu.
It's true that she didn't further instigate others, but she didn't spoil her less, and she was a righteous sister anyway. Anyway, Zhou Shaoyu never blushed, let alone said a word heavy, even if the words Cao Xiaogu said on weekdays were very 'non-mainstream', she smiled and didn't care.
In this way, in Cao Xiaogu's opinion, can she not have some different ideas? In the final analysis, people are just a girl, even if the ancients were relatively precocious, but how precocious can they be.
Naturally, I thought that Zhou Shaoyu still doted on her and agreed with her or something.
So it gave her the courage to leave home.
I think it's impossible to marry a man who has never known him or even met him so casually anyway, if it's normal, maybe there's no way, but now it's not one more way back.
So he decisively ran away from home and defected to Zhou Shaoyu, his brother-in-law.
According to Cao Xiaogu's expectations, she has suffered so much grievances and suffered so much, and after seeing Zhou Shaoyu, she should be full of concern and condolences and spoiling, but what do you think, the gap between reality and imagination is too big, this cheap brother directly scolded her with a cold face!
Don't bring such!
Thinking of the days of crying in the past few days, coupled with the pressure she felt on her body, Aunt Cao finally wowed, crying is not too miserable.
Seeing this, Zhou Shaoyu looked confused, and said, we haven't said anything yet, this is just the beginning, and before you start to teach a lesson, you are crying so miserably, what do you want us to do?
Well, forget it.
"Zhao'er, take her to wash the pulp first." Zhou Shaoyu is most afraid that the girl's family will lose her golden beans, and she is helpless.
Although Ban Zhao couldn't agree with Aunt Cao's actions and ideas at all, in the end, she was the sister-in-law of her husband, as a good wife, she didn't care too much, and she was relieved with kind words and led Aunt Cao down to clean.
And Zhou Shaoyu also ordered a servant to go to Anling quickly, and went to Cao's house to inform her, saying that Aunt Cao was here now and there was no need to worry.
After thinking about it, he wrote another letter, which was a euphemism for taking over Aunt Cao's marriage, and said that he would find a good home for her. In fact, to put it bluntly, it is to postpone this matter and slow down Cao Xiaogu's emotions, otherwise in her current state, it will not be rare to give her a queen.
Although Aunt Cao's arrival was unexpected, it would not affect the original plan to visit Ban's family, it was nothing more than bringing one more person.
When he arrived at Ban's house, Ban Gu had not yet released the ya, and he had not returned for the time being, and Ban Chao came forward to greet him as the owner's family.
In fact, if you really talk about the level of appreciation, Zhou Shaoyu's appreciation of Ban Chao is far greater than that of Ban Gu.
It's not that Bangu is not good enough, as everyone in the Han Dynasty, Bangu is definitely the top-notch. But in Chinese history, there has never been a shortage of brilliant literati. On the other hand, there are very few people as capable as Ban Chao.
Ban Chao made the Western Regions and made the Western Regions further return smoothly, this merit is proper, otherwise the Marquis of Dingyuan would not have won the title of Dingyuan Marquis in the end.
At this moment, it was the Eastern Han Dynasty, and at the same time in the Middle East, there was indeed an existence called the Kushan Empire, which at that time was one of the four great powers of Eurasia, alongside the Han Dynasty, Rome, and Anxi.
Of course, in our history, it was called the Moon Empire.
When Ban Chao was in charge of the Western Regions, the Yue Empire wanted to marry the princess of the Han Dynasty, but he never thought that he would be rejected by Ban Chao directly, just kidding, where did the barbarian country come from, and he dared to peep at the princess of the Heavenly Empire?
And then Yue's is not happy, Wucao, Lao Tzu is kind enough to propose that you don't do it, isn't this forceful?
So the king was annoyed, and with a wave of his hand, he sent 70,000 troops over the Pamirs, and then prepared a large army to attack!
Well, that's a hole in the head.
According to various historical records, during the heyday of the Kushan Empire, there was a lot of territory, but it had a population of more than 5 million and an army of more than 200,000.
What does Huaxia say about it?
Guoheng is destroyed by weakness, and only Han is dyed by strength!
Look at the Qiang people in the late Eastern Han Dynasty, the Qiang people in the northwest, they dare to be dishonest? No matter how chaotic the country is, it is an absolute vassal. One Ma Teng and one Han Sui can subdue them neatly.
Look at the north again, first there is Gongsun Zhan, and then there are Yuan Shao and Cao Cao, do you see what tricks they have come up with?
Ha, a mere 70,000 expeditionary force, for a strong man, it is not a matter. No, the court of the Han Dynasty didn't react much, so he directly begged for peace with Ban Chao's own beating of the falling flowers and flowing water.
can not look at it anymore, it is also 70,000, and Ban Chao is far away from the center, which shows Ban Chao's ability.
It's a pity that China is gradually going astray, and Confucianism has gradually changed its taste. There is no doubt that Ban Chao is an absolute top talent, but it is a pity that he is much inferior to others in terms of fame, but this does not prevent him from appreciating Ban Chao.
It's a pity that Zhou Shaoyu can't take the man......
Well, it can't be counted like this, if he could take away the man, Zhou Shaoyu would have gone crazy a long time ago. But then again, men, who don't have ambition or anything, may not be so honest, after all, Zhou Shaoyu is not orthodox.
Well, by the way, I also said the strange story of the princess being killed by a colt. Coincidentally, Ban Chao's grandson Ban Shi also did this.
Ban Shi married the princess of Qinghe King Liu Qingzhi ** City, but this princess's private life is not good, if this princess was born in the Tang Dynasty, there may be nothing, but let it still be the Han Dynasty, so Ban Shi can't bear it, what should I do? Draw your sword!
Hula, slaughter the princess!
Well, people are also the emperor's aunt, okay, the dignity of the royal family is still needed. So Emperor Han Shun was angry and directly beheaded Ban Shi, and all the Ban brothers were slaughtered......
Hey, sad and sad, what a good class.
Speaking of which, the three brothers and sisters of Ban Zhao's generation can be regarded as the pinnacle of the Ban family. Looking at the entire ancient times, there is no one that has left a name in history for both men and women.
Go back to your home with plenty of food and wine. I also wanted to educate Cao Xiaogu, but the people didn't give a good face, and kept humming that the Lun family was very angry. No, I'll leave it to Ban Zhao for the time being. I never thought that this time, the two who were always wrong could talk very well, and I don't know what to talk about.
After all, Aunt Cao really lived in the Zhou family for the time being. It is also Zhou Shaoyu who is dull, he has traveled through various periods of antiquity, and Daliang naturally belongs to feudal society, but there are many things, after all, he has not formed a subconscious opinion.
Take the matter of Aunt Cao coming to the door.
It's not that he has no family, in terms of relationships, he is just a righteous brother, living at home so unclearly, if it spreads, how can there be no rumors, that is, Zhou Shaoyu doesn't have this concept, and he didn't think of this at all.
As for Ban Zhao......
I've bothered to find a suitable concubine for so long, but isn't there a very qualified one in front of me?
In other words, I wouldn't have thought about it before, how to say that Cao's sister-in-law is a righteous sister, and although the Cao family is average, the size is also a scholarly family, which is not too bad. Let the concubine out as a concubine? That's something you won't be able to agree to, unless you're about the same thing.
But now it's different, this is running away from home, which means that words and deeds are at a loss, but any serious person, after learning about this, is 100% will never marry such a woman. In other words, unless you marry far away, people have no way to know the roots, otherwise it will be difficult for Aunt Cao to find a good in-law to be a wife.
But if you lower the standard and find a small family, it is better to find a suitable family to be a concubine.
Uh-huh, the obstacles have been cleared.
Maybe Cao Xiaogu's concept is not right with her, but at least if she really talks about it, she can also say that she can write and be knowledgeable, except for some aspects that are more deviant, but most of the time she will never lose her manners, and more importantly, she knows the roots, and her relationship with Zhou Shaoyu is good.
The more I think about it, the more reasonable it becomes, Ban Zhao has this feeling, how to look at it and how satisfied. It's hard to mention it at this time, I'm afraid that Zhou Shaoyu won't agree, so I'm just waiting for Zhou Shaoyu to leave home again and operate on his own.
Well, Zhou Shaoyu didn't know this, after staying for a while, he estimated that the time was about the same, and he crossed back to Daliang again.
Hmph, just kidding, wiping your neck, such a big feud, it's not too much to charge interest, right?