Chapter 473 - Teaching the Bar to Be a Man (3600 Words First Update)

Jealous people always live with anger and do not see any "unfair" treatment.

Some people's success is inevitable, while others are accidental.

This part of the parents who were unbalanced in their hearts and were dissatisfied with Shen Chong secretly slandered and complained, chattering endlessly, as if they were really standing at the top of morality and holding the authority of the weak.

But they didn't realize that the root of the problem was not the differential treatment of others, but the all-round crushing of Shen Chong's family from social status to personal achievements.

Shenglin Group and Stone Hammer Technology, such a traditional giant and emerging industry overlords have joined forces, and the descendants of the helmsmen of the two major enterprises are worthy of 10,000 points of attention based on their identity alone.

What's more, Shin Shin is still so outstanding that others are not even qualified to be compared.

They only saw that Shen Chong was highly valued, they only saw that they were treated coldly, and they didn't see that Shen Chong and Lin Zhishu took out ten times and a hundred times the efforts of ordinary people in all aspects.

After about 10 minutes, the parents and children moved to the small hall.

The seats of Shen Chong and Shin Shin were arranged in the front.

The principal took the stage first and gave some impassioned speeches, which were generally to thank the students and parents for their cooperation over the years, and sincerely wished the children to rise again in their future study and life.

As time passed, the children's expressions slowly became depressed.

Graduating from kindergarten is almost like saying goodbye to children at this age, and there is no chance to see each other in the future.

Although children don't think about it so far-reaching, they can always feel it in their emotions.

Shen Chongze was holding his mobile phone and turned on >, "Look, who told you to leave for so long as you go on a business trip, you can't even come to your daughter's graduation ceremony." ”

"Why don't you just go?"

"That's different, a lot of mom and dad are here."

Lin Zhishu gave him a smile, and then said: "Most of the parents of Xinxin's kindergarten are business executives, or company bosses, and no matter how poor they are, they are the second or third generations, and there are few idlers." Why do you think they are not doing business, and the family of two is running to attend the graduation ceremony? ”

Shen Chong was puzzled, "Why?" ”

"For you, or for me who might go."

Shen Chongzhi rolled his eyes.

He really wanted to complain about the child's mother, which was too good for himself.

You have a big face, aren't you ashamed?

But when he thought about it, it seemed really possible.

The primary school admissions representative didn't want to let go of this last chance to grab people, and so did the parents of other students.

They want to me, they want to get close to me.

He remembered something again and asked Lin Zhishu what he thought of Xinxin's elementary school.

She replied, "Don't worry for the time being, I have other plans." ”

"What are you going to do?"

……

"Farewell is imminent, Mr. Shen has some parting words to give to you, and I would like to invite Mr. Shen Chongshen, the father of Shen Xinxin's classmates and the chairman of Stone Hammer Technology, to take the stage and share his experience with you! Applaud! ”

He didn't wait for Lin Zhishu's answer, and Teacher Ouyang, who finished speaking, suddenly said loudly and coldly.

Regardless of the fact that it was a parent who had no opinion on Shen Chong, they applauded when they heard this, Shen Chong put his mobile phone in his trouser pocket and went on stage with his head held high.

In other respects, everyone is different, and he may not have much to talk about, but when it comes to parenting, he dares to say that he is more professional than 99.99% of the people on this planet.

He has learned so many parenting scriptures, parenting books, and children's education encyclopedias.

With his memory and ability to comprehend, it is not for nothing.

He also doesn't have time to write a book, otherwise he can learn from the strengths of all families and write a classic collection of parenting scriptures.

After Shen Chong stood on the stage, he coughed lightly, then pressed down with his hands, and waited until the applause stopped, he smiled, "Hello everyone, it's a pleasure to stand here, in fact, I didn't make any preparations today, but since I'm here, then I'll talk to you about something briefly, just talk about it casually......"

An hour later......

He poured beans into a bamboo tube and spoke fiercely for a whole hour, without drinking water and breathing in between.

He really taught him, with so many things in his stomach, although it was only for Xinxin alone, but it was rare to have the opportunity to share it with others, he made the mistake of being a good teacher.

He didn't talk nonsense, but removed what he had learned, and picked the ones that had been verified by practice and found useful and reliable through his theoretical calculations.

How he cultivated Shin Shin and how he stimulated Shin Shin's hobbies, he had no reservations about these conceptual and technical things.

Although Lin Zhishu was in charge of Shin Shin's education in the early days, Shin Shin was able to have this state today, and Lin Zhishu played a major role.

But if it weren't for Shen Chong's timely appearance and intervention, and the mediation in the middle, in fact, Xinxin would have been tired of studying, and his own credit in the past half a year would be indelible.

Most of the parents in the venue listened with relish and thought it was true.

If you really know the goods, you can naturally understand everything he says, and feel that Mr. Shen is really a real person, and he teaches everything at the bottom of the box, and it is really useful.

Many parents of students have taken out a voice recorder or mobile phone from their trouser pockets and started recording and videotaping, planning to take them home to study seriously.

But some people have preconceived preconceived dissatisfaction with Shen Chong, he can't listen to what he says, and he doesn't want to study seriously.

This is why some families have endured for a long time, while others have only been able to glorify one or two generations, or even one generation, to the end.

They are unable to correctly understand the gaps, are unwilling to acknowledge the abilities of others, are unwilling to face up to the gaps, and are even unwilling to learn what others have taught.

As long as they look at a person who is not pleasing to the eye, these people will biased themselves to resist everything related to that person, even if it is beneficial.

Now that's it, most people listen carefully, and a small number of people sit grinding and rubbing their skin, scolding in their hearts.

If you say okay, just talk about it, your talk is more than an hour, and you won't let people go home for dinner!

Don't you see that our children can't sit still!

You don't look at your own baby......

These people who got together looked at Xinxin who was sitting in the front row again.

I saw Xinxin sitting precariously, looking up at the podium with her head held high, her face full of pride.

Forget it, convinced.

This family is really invincible, what an old child, how can they sit so still!

Your dad is fooling you on the podium!

Although these people were very dissatisfied, no one really had the courage to interrupt Shen Chong.

Finally, Shen Chong on the stage waved his hand with a smile and said, "Okay, time is limited, I will talk to you about this today. ”

"Mr. Shen, we all understand what you said, but it's easier said than done. This is no different from those official accounts that pour chicken soup. ”

Finally, someone stood up against his "tyranny" and stayed in court.

Shen Chong turned his head to look at this person, "Oh, what is this friend's opinion?" ”

This kind of bar essence is very annoying.

When you are serious and reasonable, he thinks that you are pouring poisonous chicken soup on him, and you have to push the bar and let him say it himself, but he can't come up with any insight, only the ability to top the bar.

Unexpectedly, Shen Chong immediately threw the question back, and this person was focused by everyone's eyes, and he suddenly felt uncomfortable.

The comrades around him quietly tugged at his trouser leg and motioned for him to stop talking.

This person was aggrieved, he looked down at his uncompetitive son, gritted his teeth, and said stubbornly: "I'm not completely denying Mr. Shen's point of view, I just think that what you say varies from person to person." Like this baby in my family, every time I have to arrange something for him, he can't concentrate at all. Not cooperative at all. I've tried all the guidance methods you mentioned, but they didn't work. ”

As soon as the adult's words came out, the little boy who had just turned six years old next to him suddenly turned red.

The child is sad.

The six-year-old child has already understood some human feelings, and he can't accept being counted down by his father in front of his teachers and classmates.

At this time, the adult was indulging in the pleasure of confronting Shen Chong, where did he realize that his words had caused a heavy blow to his son, and looked directly at Shen Chong with pride, thinking that he had finally refuted him.

Unexpectedly, Shen Chong on the stage suddenly glared angrily and shouted, "Shut up!" ”

This person was so frightened that he was full of excitement, thinking that Shen Chong couldn't be reasonable, so he had to go crazy, and he might even hold a grudge against himself when he turned around.

He couldn't help but secretly regret it, and even more dissatisfied, feeling that Shen Chong was too bullying.

"You...... Mr. Shen, everyone is discussing with each other, even if I am not right, don't you do this, right? ”

Shen Chong snorted in his nose, he could see through these people.

Are you stupid?

Don't you see your son like this, tears are falling to the ground, and you are still busy arguing with me?

Interesting?

"No child is born obedient! Everything has an effect, there must be a cause! My own baby was taught to be a bear child, and 99% of the fault lies with adults! But what did you just say? As an adult, you don't know how to reflect. Now that you feel annoyed and tired and have a headache, you just care about throwing the pot. You don't think you have a problem, you just blindly blame your child for being disobedient. You blame your children for your failures! ”

Shen Chonghe said that the more angry he was, he pointed at this product from a distance, and his fingers trembled.

The man was speechless by him and froze in place.

"Ask yourself, how much thought do you put into your child? Today's adults, whether they bring it themselves or their parents help them, or they are blindly indulgent and only know how to pet; Either blindly restrict, it will only say that it is not allowed or not. You don't think about when to encourage, when to blame, to what extent, to what extent. You don't think about how to educate properly. ”

"You don't want to use your brains, it's all up to your own nature. You are lazy and making excuses. Children are also a career, and you don't have to worry about it. Why do you dream of spring and autumn and expect your children to be self-taught by free-range? Want to be rewarded without effort? ”

Shen Chong's machine-gun-like continuous combo hit the man dumbfounded, and he was speechless for a long time.

"I once saw a couple whose son pushed a little girl who was playing with others to the ground for no reason, not only did he not teach him to apologize, but the man also beat other people's children's mothers by virtue of his big size. I've also seen a couple who tripped over their own child and broke something in their hand, only to beat the child indiscriminately, saying that the child was too careless. Before you shirk your responsibilities, take a look in the mirror and think about what kind of person you are. ”

That bar spirit has topped countless bars in his life, and he has never encountered such a situation, and he was dumbfounded.

How could Shen Chong let him go easily, what should he do if he met a bar spirit?

Hammer to death!

"I know you're trying to contradict me, don't shake your lips, it's useless. You don't agree with my ideas, and I respect your right to express your opinions, and I even respect your ideas, even if they are wrong. But you can't use your son's failure as an excuse or justification, you're selfish! You can't just say that your child is not in front of so many people, do you know what harm your words will cause him? Do you look down for yourself? ”

The man turned his head sharply and looked at his son, and his heart chuckled.

The little boy covered his mouth and cried so much.

"Any idea why I'm angry? It's not because you contradict me, it's because you behave like this that makes me disgraceful! ”

After speaking, Shen Chong waved his hand and stopped talking.

After a short period of confusion, the parent finally made the right choice.

He squatted down, hugged his son, hesitated for a few seconds, and then made up his mind and said, "Qingqing is sorry!" Daddy, I'm sorry! Qingqing, can you forgive Dad? ”

The little boy was stunned for a moment, then nodded, "Hmm! ”

There was thunderous applause in the small hall, not only for Shen Chong, but also for this lost spirit.

Everyone is really convinced this time, and the success of Mr. Shen's family is no accident.

People are more professional than others in everything they do, including bringing a baby!