Chapter 533: Lessons to Be Learned (Plus Update)
"Oh my God, she would think that!"
Lin Zhishu's eyes widened, his complexion changed, he covered his face, and looked at Shen Chong with a surprised face.
After Shen Chong told her about it, Lin Zhishu had this expression.
It is a good thing that Shin Shin will be sad and cry because of the experience of others.
But what she said later seemed funny and ridiculous.
The proverbial story seems ridiculous, but if it happens to your own daughter, you can't laugh at all.
The problems revealed here are serious and should not be taken lightly.
Lin Zhishu leaned against the door frame, shocked and fell into a long exam.
After a long time, she sighed again and looked at Shen Chong with a little grievance, "Maybe I did something wrong?" Really wrong? Shouldn't I have copied my life to Shin Shin? But what exactly do I do? I've done my best, but it seems that I'm still a long, far way from doing a good job. ”
She's reflecting on the way she's been educating.
She thought she had done everything well, but it turned out to make Shin Shin so ungrounded.
Shen Chong saw her self-blaming look, but he didn't have the heart to slap her face, but raised his hand and grabbed her hand, patted the back of her hand, and said with relief.
"In fact, the problem is not so serious, the child is in the formative period of the worldview, at this age to accept the outside world things are very fast, problems will arise at any time, but as long as it is found in time, timely guidance, it is not difficult to correct. I know you're usually busy, but you're also attentive. Although Sister Jiang can help bring Xinxin, Sister Jiang is not as strict as you and me after all. I look back and think of a way, Shin Shin is so smart and sensible, she should be able to understand our good intentions. ”
Lin Zhishu was relieved a lot by his enlightenment, but smiled reluctantly, "Thank you." ”
"What's polite, that's what I'm supposed to do."
"Can you let go of my hand? I...... Not very used to it. ”
"Oooo Good night, I'll take a shower and go to bed, and you rest early! ”
Before falling asleep, Shen Chong raised the pillow and racked his brains, thinking hard about the solution to the problem.
This is not always true for the children of the poor, especially in this day and age.
There are really few poor families who can withhold their children.
Like when Shen Chong was a child, many of his primary school classmates had to help with farm work at the age of five or six, and had to walk several miles alone to school at the age of six or seven.
But it is really rare for a family as wealthy to Lao Lin as far away from the "mortal world" as Xinxin.
Now Shen Chong is also developed, fortunately, he himself was born in a poor family, and he does not have the inferior nature of the nouveau riche, and he has learned a lot of parenting scriptures, and he has his own system, so he can realize these problems.
If you are another parent, how can you treat this as a problem, just as an interesting episode in daily life, just laugh and pass.
When the child grows up, the problem becomes more and more serious, and then he regrets it.
It's a pity that this matter is not simple, Shen Chong felt that he could only think long-term, and decided to pay more attention to it usually, and he had to reason with Xinxin when he saw the opportunity.
Persistently instilling in her will always have an effect.
The next morning, when Xinxin was still asleep, Lin Zhishu and Jiang Yu got up early and went out together, saying that they were going to preside over an important project meeting of Shenglin Group.
Shen Chong let Xinxin sleep until half past eight, and then knocked people up.
Xinxin rubbed her sleepy eyes in a daze, sat up straight and looked left and right, "Where's Mom?" ”
"Mom and your Aunt Jiang are out on errands, Dad will take you to play in the morning, do you like it?"
Xinxin suddenly became excited, got up and lost her breath, jumped three feet high, raised her arms and shouted, "Wow! ”
After she yelled, she pounced on Shen Chong and kissed him on the face, "Dad, you're so good!" I love you! ”
Shen Chong grinned, but he didn't expect that his happiness would only last for two minutes.
There are some problems that are not a problem until you realize it.
But once the problem is revealed, it is a problem everywhere.
"Daddy, I'm going to wear this, pink! Skirt! ”
"Ah, it's not good-looking, Dad, you can help me change that one, I want that!"
"Dad, I don't want to tie braided hair, it's not fun to always have braided hair, Ruoxi is always braided hair, I don't want to be the same as her."
"This isn't good-looking, Dad, you tie me like that, it's just that there are two small bags behind the head, okay?"
"That's it!"
Shen Chong had a smile on his face, but his heart was heavy.
A few months ago, Shin Shin was not like that.
Maybe it's because she returned to her life and always helped her save face, which made her vanity more and more serious during this time?
The more Shen Chong thought about it, the more likely it was, and secretly glad that he didn't use the topic to slap Lao Lin's face last night, otherwise how embarrassing would it be.
I took the initiative to take this pot!
After eating, when Shen Chong took Xinxin to play with other children in Runya Garden, Shen Chong found that the problem was getting more and more serious.
The originally very harmonious circle of friends in the circle of friends has been divided into camps!
Things started because of the small conflict between Xinxin and Liang Zai and several other children who raised dogs last time, and in the past few days, Lingling, who raised border herders, and Ali, who raised Shiba Inu, obviously did not pass the stalk in his heart.
But they were also severely reminded by their parents not to provoke Xinxin.
After all, children can't be as sleek as adults, and if they don't like it, it's not pleasing to the eye, even if adults warn them again and again, it's useless to have more money.
I don't expect your parents to buy me gifts, what am I afraid of you doing?
Fortunately, they didn't provoke Xinxin, they just hid far away.
The children in the community are clearly divided into two factions.
One faction is the group of little guys like Xinxin and Chen Yanzheng, and the other is Lingling's slightly older children.
The well water of the children on both sides does not interfere with the river water, but it is inevitable that they will compete in the air.
You're hopscotch fast, I'm jumping on one foot.
You'll be a little magic trick on your side, and I'll kick the shuttlecock on my side.
Shen Chong watched Xinxin get together with this group of children with the same family conditions, and then chatted with Chen Yuanqing from time to time, but he knew in his heart the reason for Xinxin's comparison and why he became ungrounded.
At a young age, he competes with people all day long to see whose clothes are good-looking, whose braids are beautiful, who jumps far and runs fast.
Nothing is better than anything, Shin Shin is still old and wins, of course, vanity will get stronger and stronger!
No, I have to do something, I can't indulge it any longer!
Shen Chongzheng quickly thought about the way, the mobile phone rang, and when he looked down, it was his brother-in-law Lin Dali calling.
"Brother-in-law, are you in Runya Yuan now? I've arrived at your door, why haven't I seen anyone? ”
Lin Dali said on the phone.
Shen Chong replied: "I took Xinxin to play here in the club, your sister was on a business trip in the morning, what's the matter?" ”
"I'm looking for you, I'll come right over."
After less than two minutes, Lin Dali appeared at the intersection of the green belt with a smile on his face, holding a one-man tall doll in his arms!
Shen Chong pinched his brows, his teeth aching.
Xinxin is comparing whose doll is bigger than other children, and Lin Dali, who is an uncle, will bring a big guy!
What a genius!
Shen Chong secretly thought, Xinxin Mo is not the child of destiny?
What is it like?
With a lot of help, heaven and earth work together?