Chapter 92: Returning Home to Meet My Parents
The media is still hyping up the "phonegate" affair and rumours of player transfers. But if they wanted to hear what Chang Sheng had to say, I'm afraid they would all be disappointed.
Because they can't get in touch with Changsheng at all right now.
So where is the constant victory?
Chang Sheng returned to China with his girlfriend Avril Lavigne.
This is the first time he has taken Avril back to China after establishing a relationship with Avril.
Although I have brought Avril home before, the relationship between the two at that time was completely different from now, just good friends.
Now, it's a little bit like taking my wife back to see my in-laws.
Why do you want to go back to see your parents, because Avril wants to marry Chang Sheng.
It has been six years since they met in the summer of 2000. They were already very familiar with each other, so Avril made this request, and Chang Sheng agreed.
At the age of thirty-three, he is not too early to get married.
As for Avril, it seems a bit early to get married at the age of twenty-two. And it will definitely have an impact on her career, but Avril is very resolute and has no objection to Chang Sheng.
So this time, Chang Sheng plans to take Avril to meet his parents, and if his parents have no objections, he is ready to organize the wedding.
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Although Chang Sheng bought his parents a house in the best neighborhood in the city six years ago, the house is still vacant, and his parents still live in the dilapidated family community.
So Chang Sheng naturally could only bring Avril to the family community.
Unlike the last time I came, there were a lot of people around, when Chang Sheng brought Avril with him again. There weren't so many people watching.
Although everyone will still follow them with their eyes, at least they will not follow behind to watch the excitement.
Everyone's literacy has also been improving with the improvement of comprehensive national strength over the years. It used to be rare to see foreigners on the streets, but now it is commonplace, and naturally no one will make a fuss.
Even if Chang Sheng and Avril are both celebrities, so what?
In the eyes of these people, it makes no difference. They grew up watching Chang Sheng, and they have a lot less of that kind of worship for celebrities, of course, there is envy.
Chang Sheng took Avril back to the family community where he grew up.
The mother, who knew the news in advance, couldn't sit still at home, so she simply went to the gate of the community to wait to greet her son and his girlfriend - she didn't know that Avril was planning to marry Chang Sheng.
Her husband. Chang Sheng's father stayed at home, and this taciturn man was not good at showing his emotions, so he was anxious to see his son, and then ran to the gate of the community to wait for his son. He can't do it.
At the gate of the community, the three people met, and Avril greeted her future mother-in-law in Chinese, which made Chang Sheng's mother happily close her mouth.
"That's good!" She is full of praise for her ever-winning girlfriend.
Avril Lavigne, who only wore light makeup, was almost without makeup, and her signature smoky dark circles were gone, looking much more refreshing.
His son came out and came back to see them, which made Chang Sheng's mother very proud, and on the way home, she would say hello to people she knew well. Walk with a tiger. Energetic, all of a sudden twenty years younger.
Chang Sheng looked at his mother's back behind his back, and felt a lot of emotion in his heart.
There are some things that I don't understand all over again, I'm afraid I won't understand them so thoroughly......
In his previous life, he especially hated the kind of thing that "parents pinned their ardent hopes on their children". He feels that parents are parents, children are children, why should children live according to their parents' wishes? Why do parents pin their hopes on their children? He longed to live freely and rebelliously. For this reason, although his parents sent him to Beijing to study in the hope that he would find a good job, he would still choose to learn guitar without a serious career and go to the subway to sing, but in the end he still achieved nothing, and finally could only return to his hometown and wander around.
But now his thinking has changed, and he is beginning to understand why his parents are pinning their hopes on their children, and why parents are always used to planning their children's futures.
Because parents who have eaten more salt than their children have ever eaten, always hope that their children can grow up safely, smoothly, start a family, and start a business. So they pass on their experience to their children, hoping that they can make fewer detours according to their own experience.
But what kid would want their life to be predetermined from the start? So the war between the child and the parents will always exist.
The result is that parents and children become enemies.
Looking at his mother's elated appearance in front, Chang Sheng understood his parents' hard work for him at the beginning.
They always want to be good, whether they are famous or not, rich or not. But in this society, if you don't have money, you're basically not getting by.
So now that Chang Sheng is rich and famous, they are happy.
It's not that they are greedy for their children's money, but that their children have the ability to make a lot of money, and they finally don't have to worry about it. This is more important than anything else.
Raising a child, if you have to rely on your parents to support you at the age of thirty, such a child will only break your parents' hearts.
In the past, Chang Sheng was such a person.
At the age of thirty, I earn every month, not to mention subsidizing the family, and I don't even have enough expenses for myself, and I have become a moonlight clan at the end of every month, and I have to rely on my parents to support me.
Would anyone be proud of such a child?
I'm afraid it will only be in the voice of others, burying my head lower and lower, and my back will become hunched more and more.
It may be a bit utilitarian to say this, and use economic income to measure whether a child is promising. But what do you live in in a real society that doesn't need money? You can't even find love without money, so why let the person you like live a hard life without money with you?
So money, it's really important.
Because having money means that you have the ability to survive in this world.
Knowing this, Chang Sheng understands the pride and pride shown by his parents. And I feel guilty about my previous ignorance.
Fortunately, now he still has a chance to do it all over again, otherwise I'm afraid he will really regret his death.
He is an ordinary person, except for loving football very much, he is no different from ordinary people, to put it bluntly, he is a vulgar person.
He likes money, likes beautiful women, hopes that his parents can live a long life, and hopes that his parents can be proud and proud of him. He is not high, he is not a maverick, and he can't learn to be petty and bourgeoisie.
So happy to see their own parents. He was also happy from the bottom of his heart.
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When he returned home and met his father, the family sat down for a meal, and then Chang Sheng told his parents that he wanted to marry Avril.
There are no very bloody parents who oppose the plot.
Chang Sheng's parents do not discriminate against foreigners. didn't say that Chang Sheng was not allowed to marry a foreign girl. In their opinion, as long as the son likes it and the other girl's character is trustworthy, then there is no problem.
Now that the son is rich, there is no need to think about whether the woman is rich or not.
As for the fact that Avril Lavigne is an entertainment star, the two old men are quite open to it - as long as the children are willing, what does the old man care?
Chang Sheng is not young in his early twenties, and now he is thirty-three, has a successful career, and has been training outside for so many years. People have matured a lot. His choice. What else are we worried about?
Isn't it said in the media all the time that Changsheng has a very accurate eye for people? So his eyes for a girl shouldn't be too bad, right?
The two old men glanced at each other and didn't speak, but the tacit understanding of years of married life had let them know each other's thoughts.
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After Chang Sheng told the plan to get married, Avril looked at the two old men nervously. On the way to China, Chang Sheng gave her a lot of knowledge about traditional Chinese customs.
So she knows that Chinese attach great importance to their parents and elders. Marriage is such a major event in life, naturally it is not as simple as two people holding hands and going to church. In China, the opinion of parents is very important.
So he and she were a little nervous, and she was afraid that Chang Sheng's parents would disagree.
What if you don't agree?
She didn't even think about it.
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Chang Sheng's parents glanced at each other. I looked at Avril again, who was visibly nervous. This girl is not good at hiding her true thoughts......
They couldn't bear to let this well-behaved girl always worry so much, and in the end, Chang Sheng's mother smiled and said to Chang Sheng: "As long as you like it, I have no problem with your father." ”
In fact, Chang Sheng didn't want his new parents to refuse, because he knew them very well, and he had more than 60 years of experience in two lives, so he knew very well who his parents were.
They are just an ordinary working family, who have received an ordinary education and have the most simple and ordinary values.
As long as the child likes it and is really good to the child, they will not object.
Is Avril good to herself? I believe they have seen it for a long time.
When he brought Avril back for the first time, Chang Sheng could see that his parents liked this little foreign girl...... Of course, it would be better if her hair color and makeup could be normal......
So Chang Sheng turned to Avril and said, "I'm going to give you an engagement ring, Avril." ”
This sentence meant that Chang Sheng's parents agreed, and Avril jumped up from her seat in surprise, and then kept bowing to Chang Sheng's parents: "Thank you!" Thank you! That's great! I love you! "She was a mix of Chinese and English, jumping and jumping.
Chang Sheng's parents looked at Avril with a smile, and their loving eyes were like looking at their own daughter.
Chang Sheng also turned his head to look at Avril with a permissive smile on his face.
Then Avril finally realized that her behavior seemed indulgent and frivolous to the old man, so she sat down in her seat again and coughed.
Chang Sheng reached out and grabbed her head.
Then the taciturn father suddenly said, "When will you buy the wedding wine?" ”
His mother glared at him: "You just said that you are going to buy wedding wine?" What's the hurry! ”
The father also realized that he was in too much of a hurry, so he took a sip of wine and pretended to cover up.
Chang Sheng looked at his father, and he realized that his parents had actually been waiting for this day for a long time......
The tradition of the Chinese is that men should marry and women should marry.
It's time for him to start a family.
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