Chapter 180: Communication in the Hot Springs 2
Hong Tao is a little impatient about falling in love, in his opinion, love is a process of turning the feelings between two strangers into family affection, and the vigorous so-called love in those books and movies are all art, not life, can be viewed from a distance, but not blasphemous, who plays who is unlucky.
But he couldn't meet his peers who had the same psychology as himself, Zhuge Fei's thing was an attempt he made with a hint of fantasy, and it turned out that he failed in this test, fortunately he controlled the heat better, otherwise this failed test is likely to bring him a lot of trouble.
Among the people he has come into contact with at this time, Zhou Xiaoli is undoubtedly the person he thinks is the most suitable for him, this woman is very smart, able to suppress his curiosity and possessiveness that every woman has, if possible, Hong Tao is more willing to form a family with her.
But this possibility is too small, she has a Japanese family business behind her, she is not an ordinary woman, and she is also engaged, according to Japanese customs, she is basically a woman, the reason why she still maintains this relationship with Hong Tao, on the one hand, it may be the strategy of Dawa Company, on the other hand, it is estimated that this is the maximum she can bear, Hong Tao is not naïve enough to think that a woman will give up a lot of things in reality for what love, so in his mind, The relationship between him and Zhou Xiaoli is destined to be only a short honeymoon period, and Zhou Xiaoli herself probably understands this truth, so neither of them will talk about love and marriage, and they have not talked about it once.
After Zhou Xiaoli, it is Irene, this American girl is not as pleasant as Zhou Xiaoli, although neither of them is beautiful, they are medium-looking people, but Zhou Xiaoli is obviously more in line with the aesthetic standards of Asians or Chinese, Erin's appearance looks too Western, too three-dimensional.
But in the body or stature. Erin is about to surpass Zhou Xiaoli by a big margin, I have to say that Asians are inherently inferior to European and American races in this regard, and their genes are different, no matter how hard they try, it is difficult to reach higher standards.
In terms of temperament and personality, Erin is still a girl, and she can't compare with Zhou Xiaoli, a human spirit who has been in the company for many years, so the character she shows is more real. This is a girl who is very similar to Zhou Xiaoli in personality, she does not have Zhou Xiaoli's precise means of doing things, but she has the arrogance of a young man. In general, he is also very angry with Hong Tao.
In fact, Hong Tao knows very well what kind of partner he wants, first of all, she can't be ugly, she can't be beautiful, but she can't be ugly, this is the standard of death, even if the daughter of the head of the earth comes, if she doesn't meet this standard, she doesn't have to talk about it.
The second is to be in good shape. In terms of appearance, Hong Tao only requires that it is not ugly, and in terms of figure, Hong Tao's requirements are higher, excluding the consideration of what genes affect the next generation of eugenics, and a sexy figure can make men have the desire to be close. With desire, feelings can be stronger, longer, and more harmonious.
The most important thing is character, Hong Tao is very resistant to women who are too self-motivated, because he himself is not very self-motivated. He also doesn't like to let others push forward every day; He didn't dare to touch a woman who was too jealous, and the lion roared in Hedong every day, which was a kind of mental destruction; He didn't want a woman who was too lazy and didn't pursue it. I am loose enough, if I find the same one again, I don't need to see my future life, imagine that it is enough to make people tired, what kind of good life can two lazy people live; Women who are too ignorant and too confused can't choose, just know how to eat, sleep, do housework, take care of children, and other women who don't understand anything, how to communicate every day, don't say like-minded, at least have to talk; And for those unreasonable women, how far Hong Tao is to hide, this is not like a man, saying that you can do it in a hurry, and women can't fight it, if her mixed energy comes up, and the street is full of scolding, Hong Tao will directly sell the house and move, people live with a skin, and they don't want to be faced, and they can't live together!
Pick and choose, at present, Erin is actually the only candidate that Hong Tao can choose, Hong Tao also wants to take the initiative in the past, but after all, they are two people, their living habits are different, and their ways of thinking are different, Hong Tao is unwilling to take this risk, in case the family refuses, how boring, and Sam is still his own tenant.
What's more, Hong Tao hasn't considered anything about getting married yet, he thinks it's not too late to find his other half before the age of 35, and it's okay to get married at the age of 40.
If you are not in a hurry to get married, let alone find a girlfriend, then there is no need to destroy the relationship between yourself and Erin, now the two of them can still have normal contact, whether it is called a lover or a friend, at least the two of them are voluntary, no one is reluctant, they must feel happy with each other to be together.
If the requirements are too high and not satisfied, it will be a little embarrassing to meet again, I'm afraid it's a question of whether you can meet again, saying that I don't care, in fact, from this aspect, Hong Tao still cares about the relationship between him and Erin, at least he doesn't want to destroy it at will.
"Haha Erin seemed very happy when she talked about Katie's troubles.
"For what? Is it also because the other party is too nervous? Hong Tao can't imagine what it is like to be with a Taiwanese soft man with a stupid and stunned character like Katie.
"The boy objected to Katie's contact with other male classmates, and asked if she was a virgin and wanted to take her home for his parents to see." Erin smiled even more.
"Isn't that normal? Living habits are different. Hong Tao didn't think there was anything wrong, the customs of the two countries were different, although the Taiwanese boy might be a little anxious, but sooner or later he would bring up these things.
According to Hong Tao's feelings, European and American girls are very open before they get married, and the word "open" is probably not enough to explain their madness, just like the Irene sisters' trip to Beijing, they actually came with the purpose of finding a Chinese man to experience a one-night stand, and after returning to China, they will show it, which I am afraid no one can do among Chinese girls.
But after they get married, they become very conservative, especially those white people, because they are religious, divorce, extramarital affairs, abortion, contraception and other things are in conflict with their religion, so they will pay more attention to these aspects and be more disciplined.
Most of us Chinese people think that European and American women are particularly open, even promiscuous, in fact, a bit biased, in general, in North America than European women are more conservative, except for the experience of youth, they tend to be more cautious about sexual issues than us Chinese. The negative reports we often hear are deliberately misleading by the news media, and mostly Spanish-speaking immigrants or blacks, who are more sexually disoriented than white families in North America.
"Then why didn't you mention this to me, we were already a couple when we were in Beijing, although the time was a bit short, but I haven't heard you make these requests once." Erin's thinking confused Hong Tao, she couldn't imagine that the man sitting next to her was older than Sam in his heart, and he had already experienced the next ten years and the future, and he had a more comprehensive understanding of the differences between countries, nationalities, and different races.
"I'm an alternative, and my parents are gone, so it's impossible for me to take you to meet them." Hong Tao told the truth.
"I'm also wondering, you and the people I've been in contact with are not the same, I can't tell you what the difference is, but it just feels different, but I kind of like this feeling, you tell me the truth, if I were your girlfriend, would you be willing?" Erin suddenly turned over, straddled Hong Tao's lap, carried Hong Tao's head with both hands, and then stared into his eyes and asked. (To be continued......)