Chapter 1306: Family Benefits (1)
The more Gu Xian sat in the carriage and thought about it, the more angry she became: "When other people's families marry daughters-in-law, they are affectionate to their in-laws." What about them? They didn't even take us seriously. ”
"I won't talk about it when I wasn't in the capital before, but when I came to the capital, I didn't hand over a post to visit. It's better now, they all come to the door and don't even look at me. Shaozhou, what kind of family did you say An An was looking for? ”
"No, if the Tan family doesn't give me an explanation this time, don't end this family business."
Shen Shaozhou did not object this time, and said: "This attitude before marriage must not be more arrogant after marriage, this matter should indeed be considered in the long run." ”
What Gu Xian said was actually angry, and when she heard him say this, she hesitated: "This, I'm about to get married, how can I really turn my face?" ”
Shen Shaozhou said: "Go back and discuss this matter with your mother-in-law and Qingshu." If the Tan family can't give us a satisfactory answer, it's better not to get married to this family business. ”
No matter what, Ah Xian is An An's mother, and Mrs. Tan doesn't take Ah Xian in her eyes, which is contempt for An An. Their family is safe and secure, and they don't have to worry about getting married, so why bother to suffer this kind of wretchedness.
When she got home, Gu Xian told Mrs. Gu about this matter angrily: "Mother, it's too bullying. Knowing that I didn't show up at her house, why did I look down on her like this? ”
Old Madam Gu hesitated and asked, "Is there any misunderstanding?" ”
Shen Shaozhou said: "It can't be a misunderstanding. Mother-in-law, the Tan family probably thinks that Ah Xian is not worthy of being married to their Tan family. ”
At this time, Old Madam Gu was also angry: "What does this mean?" We didn't hide the situation at home when we got married that day, so who is it for now? ”
Gu Xian said: "Mother, the Tan family is a fire pit. If we An'an marry in the past, we will definitely be rubbed by the old witch, mother, this family business is not over! ”
This is about to get married, saying that she will not marry, Mrs. Gu shook her head and said: "No, this is going to be a divorce, how can An An still behave." ”
Seeing this, Shen Shaozhou said, "Mother-in-law, such a big matter should be asked to come over and discuss." ”
Although Qingshu got married, the family's major events still asked her what she meant. Moreover, this family business was decided by her, and these things should also be known to her.
Old Madam Gu nodded and said, "Okay, Mother Hua, you personally went and invited the eldest girl over." ”
I didn't think much about hearing Mother Hua ask to see Qingshu, thinking that the old lady had sent something over again. But when she saw that Mother Hua saw that her expression was different, Qingshu knew that something was wrong.
After explaining the matter in detail, Mother Hua said: "Big girl, the old lady invites you to come over, and everyone will discuss how to deal with this matter." ”
Qingshu said: "You go back and wait for a while, and I'll change my clothes and go over." ”
Mother Hua blessed the gift and went down.
Fu Jingene took Fu Ge'er to paint in the study, and Qingshu was very relieved to see that the father and son got along very well. It's different whether it's his father in the end, but it's more than half a day when Brother Fu starts to stick to him.
Qingshu said: "Something happened at home, I want to go over." ”
"What's wrong?"
After a few simple words, Qingshu said: "Being slapped in the face like this by the Tan family, if we don't do anything, it means that Mrs. Tan will definitely get an inch." ”
Fu Jingene put the brush aside and said lightly: "This matter does not need to be discussed, just ask the matchmaker to withdraw from the family." ”
Qingshu said with a calm face: "I also plan to do the same, but we have to be justified and not fall behind." ”
Fu Jingene smiled and said, "What are you doing so seriously?" It's just to scare Tan Jingye's mother-in-law, and it's not really quitting. ”
"Lord Tan may not want to withdraw from her family, but this Mrs. Tan must want to withdraw from her family, maybe we just follow her wishes when we withdraw from her family!"
Mrs. Tan is so arrogant, she doesn't suppress her, even if she separates her family, she doesn't have a peaceful life. Therefore, quitting relatives is the only way. However, Qingshu thought that Tan Jingye would not agree to withdraw from his family, and wanted him to solve the matter by himself.
Fu Jingene shook his head and said to Qingshu: "Do you know how many people have been raised in Tan Jingye's generation? ”
I really don't know this Qingshu.
"Including Tan Jingye, there are five, and two of these five people are over thirty, one is twenty-five years old this year and has married the daughter of a rich man, and the other is seventeen years old and unmarried." Fu Jingene said: "The best career of the Tan family is Tan Xianzhong, but he is already in his forties, and his future basically stops here. A family like the Tan family, if the clan can't produce another promising heir, it will soon be reduced to an ordinary farming family. In a few years, it may be no different from ordinary people. ”
Qing Shu understood: "You mean that the Tan family puts their hopes on Tan Jingye?" ”
"Tan Jingye's talent is average, but he is not better than diligence, and the Tan family knows that he has no expectations before, so he let it go. But now it's different, he married An An and became my brother-in-law. Even if I don't pass the Jinshi exam, I will start from an ordinary county order, as long as I am willing to help him, his future will not be bad. ”
Generally speaking, if you enter the office with the merit of lifting people, you will stop at the third grade, but it is also excellent for the Tan family to be able to reach the third grade.
Qingshu said: "What you mean is that even if Mrs. Tan wants to take advantage of this to withdraw from her family, she can't be the master." ”
Fu Jingene nodded and said, "Yes, she can't be the master." Retiring from relatives not only cut off Tan Jingye's future, but also damaged the interests of the entire Tan family. If you don't talk about others, Tan Xianzhong won't agree in the first place. ”
"What if Mrs. Tan insists on withdrawing from her family?"
Fu Jingene shook his head and said, "Compared to the rise and fall of the family, a woman is nothing. If she insists on withdrawing from her family, Tan Xianzhong can let Master Tan drive her out of the Tan family. ”
Qing Shu sighed and said, "Why can't you say that things in this world can't be perfect? ”
Fu Jingene said: "In fact, the key to whether a woman is doing well or not after marrying is her husband. If the husband can hold up a piece of the sky for her, even if there are occasional stormy days, he will be harmonious and beautiful; If the husband is incompetent, even if he wears gold and silver, he will not have a smooth life. ”
Qingshu smiled and said, "You understand." ”
"If you read more, you will understand."
When he was a child, he was in the market, and when he was fine, he liked to observe all kinds of people, and then analyze and summarize.
When Qingshu turned around and went out, Fu Jingene said, "Come back early, I'll wait for you and Fu'er to have dinner together." ”
"Okay."
When he arrived at Yude Lane, Qingshu looked at everyone with sad faces, especially An An's eyes were red.
Seeing Qingshu, An An hugged her and cried: "Sister, you're finally here." ”
Just now, Gu Xian told her that she wanted to quit her family from the Tan family, and she really felt that the five thunders were thundering. She wanted to object, but she couldn't open her mouth after knowing the reason for the matter. Her grandmother and mother are both for her good, but she is unwilling to give up this family business. During the time when she was waiting for Qingshu to come over, she really felt very tormented.