Chapter 212: Being Respected

Yes, if you meet a noble person in your life, and then this noble person leaves, at this time you ask the people around you, ask if this noble person is still there, and ask if this noble person is gone?

Then obviously, you want this noble person to stay, and obviously you want this noble person to stay and see you, talk to you, and even help you. Yes, this is a very ordinary situation, so he is also afraid that he will be considered such a person, very afraid that he will be considered to be like an ordinary person to have requirements for others, in fact, he is not an ordinary person at all, she will not let herself be like an ordinary person at all, he feels that he should be a person who relies on himself, and only by relying on himself he feels that all the things he has are worthwhile, and only the truly trustworthy heart is his own things. But in the end, he asked, because she felt that she needed to show concern for others, or that she didn't really need to care about it. Since you care about so many things, since you care so much, it is obvious that you can't care about what you really care about, what you really want to get, and what you really want in your heart.

The dean's attitude in answering questions is still respectful, and the dean's attitude in answering is still very gentle. Yes, the dean still has to let himself show this kind of emotion, and the dean still has to let himself show this attitude. The dean still has to show respect for himself, he feels that everything should be insisted on, and everything should be given a beginning and an end. Just like facing this little person now, just like facing this patient, he feels that there is no need for him to be so low-voiced, of course, he is not really low-voiced, the so-called low-voiced is because you have great needs for others, you have high requirements for others, and even you are afraid of each other, but this dean obviously does not have a very urgent need for him, and he has no urgent needs.

Of course, the dean is not afraid of him, of course, the dean just feels that he should respect him, because what kind of person and what kind of together is obviously fixed, a very powerful person can never make friends with a very ordinary person who has no special skills, since that woman is powerful, then it is obvious that this patient will not be so simple, although he is not good now, although he is still a small person, although he still can't see some other special characteristics, but he believes that his efforts are always rewarded, or when you pay, you don't think about return, because when you think about returning, you actually bring a little utilitarianism, but obviously, no one wants to make friends with a utilitarian person, or no one wants to make friends with a utilitarian person with sincerity. Yes, there are many people who are making friends with some utilitarian people, they seem to be asking for each other, as if they are good friends, as if the relationship between them is indeed helping each other, but once they encounter some special circumstances, once they encounter some situations that make them feel unhappy, so that they don't feel the need to help others, it is obvious that at this time, the interests between each other will be broken, and the chain of interests between each other will be gone.

At this time, of course, they will choose to protect themselves, of course, they will no longer be stupid to save others, but if you are not a utilitarian person at the beginning, if you give others the impression of being a good friend at the beginning, if you let yourself associate with others as a good friend at the beginning, then it is obvious that he will help you at this time. In other words, although he doesn't see much interest in this matter, he will help you for the sake of feelings. Yes, this is the most important thing, and this is also the thing that he thinks a person should pay the most attention to, because only if you attach importance to a certain thing, you can really do a certain thing, because only if you attach importance to a certain thing, you can really do a certain thing with your heart!

Only if you are attentive and only if you give yourself sincerity, the relationship between the two of you will not seem so worldly, and the relationship between the two of you will not seem so unreliable to everyone. Yes, when you are in danger, if there are many people to help you, then there will be more people to help you, in fact, people are conformity, that is to say, when a person is in difficulty, if there is no one to help him, obviously all people think that this person is not very good, this person must be a person with a defective character, because no one is willing to help him at all, but if there is a person who is willing to reach out to help you at this time, or even this person is willing to endorse you, willing to prove for you that you are not an unreliable person, you are a very reliable person, then many people will definitely come to help you one after anotherAlthough their purpose of helping you is not very pure, although their intention to help you is not very pure, but no matter what, they still help you in the end, and they still think that you can save them in the end, that is to say, you should have a real good friend of your own, and you should have a good friend who you really make emotionally.

In addition, the dean's answer is actually very appropriate, or this dean is obviously already an old and refined person, and for a person who is old and well-established, it is obvious that he is a very powerful person. That is to say, when he deals with various issues, he will deal with them appropriately. When he answers a certain person's question, he will answer very appropriately, in life, in the relationship, it is obvious that he is already a mature person, and he is already a person who can see things very clearly, so he really sees clearly, he also really sees this man clearly, in fact, he is not a real secular person, this man even seems to be a little naïve, this man even seems to have some people who can't understand, yes, any naïve person, any naïve person, others can't understand。

Because they don't know, because they can't imagine why such a naïve person can be so powerful, because obviously, in this world, if you want to be very powerful, you need to deal with others, you need to get a lot of resources, since you want to get a lot of resources, you need to have some dealings with others, you need to have some negotiations with others, you need to have some interests with others, but once these things are involved, it is obvious that no one will become truly pure in the end, no one will become happy in the end, and no one will maintain their own innocenceIf you maintain your innocence, obviously in this kind of life, in such a society, you have no way to move forward, you have no way to get some resources, and you have no way to get those resources that make you progress, then obviously, if you don't do this, you have no way to progress. When you can't improve, you can't be a great person.

In other words, you can't be accepted by everyone, but now there is a special situation, that is, the patient in front of him has a special situation, and he can win the respect of the big man with this simple mind, and he can really become the very powerful and potential person he is now with this simple mind. In fact, for the real society, the dean's idea is right, that is to say, there is no problem with the dean's idea, if a person wants to really let himself be respected by others in this society, if a person really wants to achieve some achievements that are respected by others in this society, and achieve some results that are respected by others.

Obviously, he needs to deal with all kinds of people, he needs to deal with all kinds of people, he needs to make himself fit in with all kinds of people, he needs to become able to communicate with all kinds of people. Yes, he needs to understand a lot of things, he needs to understand what other people's expressions represent, he needs to understand what other people's actions represent, he also needs to make himself very clear about what other people's words mean, he also needs to know very well what the general public is thinking, he also needs to see what people above his status are thinking, that is to say, he needs to deal with people who are not as good as himself, and he also needs to deal with people with a higher status than himself. Everything is not simple, everything is troublesome, and all successful people are not simple and all successful people.

Obviously, they have all experienced a lot of things, they have all experienced a lot of misunderstandings, and they have also experienced a lot of things that make others helpless, but in any case, they finally succeeded, and they finally succeeded by relying on their own foundation, a lot of accumulation, a lot of experience in communicating with others, and a lot of experience in failure.