Qin Nanqian guessed.

"Grandpa. You must have bought eight cents of instant noodles again and again, and gave half of them to my grandma. Then I used the two cents I saved to buy my grandmother a popsicle with a stick of milk. ”

Qin Yuelu was surprised.

"You, how do you know?"

Qin Nanqian said bluntly.

"Before my grandmother died. Tell me. She was most worried that I wouldn't find a good wife. Just tell me in detail about what you told me when you were young. ”

"What did your grandma say?" Qin Yuelu also wanted to know what his deceased wife really thought about him.

"My grandmother said that when she was facing poverty, when she quarreled with you, she also thought about divorcing you many times. Every month when you pay your salary, when she eats the milk popsicle you bought for her, her heart is very sweet, thinking that you are not bad and can survive. Grandfather. My grandmother also said that everyone has an opportunity in front of them, and it is a matter of minutes to think about being selfish. You use practical actions to make her willing to live a good life with you, instead of making do. This is great wisdom. ”

Qin Yuelu smiled proudly, and then became worried again.

"Of my three daughters, none of them inherited your grandmother's great wisdom of knowing people."

Qin Nanqian smiled.

"Grandpa. That's because you and my grandmother are so good, so you cover the light of your three daughters. Society has always judged whether a man is successful or not by whether he has money or not. Even if a man abandons his wife and children to cheat, in the eyes of some people who love money and lack morality, it is not a big shortcoming. Society is to measure the success or failure of marriage by whether a woman is successful. Even if a woman does a good job like a man, she will be labeled as a strong man. It's so unfair. ”

Qin Yuelu chuckled.

"Are you justifying your mother's failed marriage?"

Qin Nanqian shook his head.

"I am, just on the matter. Grandfather. You think about it another way. I know that the society evaluates men and women with double standards.

As long as the cheating man gives enough money to his ex, no one will say that this scumbag is a bad person, and no one cares how much the scumbag's poor wife and children are hurt. If a woman divorces once, she will be labeled as a failure in her life by a person with a cheap mouth. Is it just the woman's fault that the marriage fails?

If a man does something wrong, most people think he can get better. But the same thing can be done to women...... I can think of how the major media and netizens will scold my second aunt tomorrow.

And if my aunt is a man, as long as she throws the money home, she can do anything. Is it her in-laws' turn to find fault with her housework and taking care of the children?

Your precious daughter has to suffer this kind of anger in her in-laws' house. You should be able to imagine how aggrieved the daughters of ordinary families are in the in-laws who have incorrect views. ”

Double standard?

Qin Yuelu, who has always been confident, thinks that he has always been fair. He never thought that he would use double standards to demand his daughter.

Now that I think about it, many years ago, the marriage between the eldest daughter Qin Lilan and Guan Fuyuan was not a big mistake made by Qin Lilan.

However, this failed marriage has always troubled Qin Lilan. made Qin Lilan also very depressed.

However, Qin Lilan's ex-husband Guan Fuyuan cheated, the culprit who hurt Qin Yuelu, but he lived a righteous life. But no one blamed him!

At this moment, Qin Yuelu realized ......

On the one hand, he raised his daughter richly and hoped that her daughter would live her own life.

On the other hand, he uses the double standard of social restrictions on women to restrain his daughter from becoming an obedient person.

Thinking of this, Qin Yuelu realized that he was wrong, he protected his three daughters, and he could no longer let his daughters be wronged.