Chapter 747 is a child 12
This time, it was Meng Li's turn to wait outside, and Mother Qi and Dr. Li went in to talk.
Dr. Li first learned more about the education method of Xia Qi Ma, and the deeper he talked, the more he found many problems.
Dr. Li and Qi's mother asked and answered, and Qi's mother found that some words suddenly couldn't be spoken.
It's a little hard to say, and in an instant Qi's mother realized, is it wrong for her to do this?
I instinctively didn't want to say it.
However, Dr. Li originally did this business, and it was easy to pry open Qi's mother's mouth, and after understanding everything, Dr. Li said to Qi's mother:
"Sister-in-law, I personally feel that there are more problems on the parents' side."
Qi's mother was a little red, and she couldn't help but say:
"But this is how I educate my children, I have been like this for more than ten years, and the children's good grades are not due to us?"
Dr. Lee sighed and said:
"Yes, we can't deny what we have done, and I know that the child's grades are good, so why never affirm her?"
Qi's mother choked and said:
"There are some words that children can't say anymore."
Dr Lee said:
"We put too much pressure on the child, and don't give the child the affirmation they deserve, so that the child feels that there is no return for the effort, it is easy to burn out, and a person needs all kinds of affirmation."
"Isn't it a pity if the child doesn't have any good memories when he grows up?"
Qi Ma retorted:
"Everyone has their own way, do you have to follow a template or a book's rules and regulations?"
Dr. Lee shook his head disapprovingly.
Qi Ma said again:
"Think about it, isn't everything I do for the good of my children? I'm afraid that she won't grow up with good grades, and I'm afraid that she will delay her studies early or be cheated on. ”
Dr Lee said:
"In fact, it is normal to be ignorant in adolescence."
"Some children can get through on their own, and some children still need the correct guidance of their parents."
"Okay, call Brother Qi here, how about we talk together?" Dr. Li smiled and looked at Qi's mother.
Qi's mother was silent, looked up at Dr. Li several times, and didn't know what had happened in her mind, but finally agreed.
Qi's father knew that he was also coming, and he was quite surprised, saying that he couldn't leave work.
Qi's mother scolded on the phone:
"The kid is my own, isn't it? So now that something goes wrong, I'm the only one to say yes, right? ”
In the face of Qi's father, Qi's mother has little patience.
She believes that Dr. Li should not criticize her alone, and Dad Qi is also responsible.
Dad Qi saw that his wife was angry, and he didn't want to entangle his wife, if she didn't follow her, she was going to make trouble, so she had no choice but to ask for leave and come.
When I entered the door, I saw Meng Li, and Meng Li called Dad.
Dad Qi hummed and went to see Dr. Li.
Then the two of them were successfully told by Dr. Li.
Qi's father and mother were very speechless.
Originally, I came to show the children their psychology, but they were told about it themselves.
To be honest, they are all tens of years old, and it is very unpleasant to be criticized suddenly.
However, Dr. Li's main purpose is to make Qi's parents realize that they are wrong, so he also used a lot of skillful conversations, and even gave them many cases to tell them the importance of children's mental health.
It made the sudden resentment in the hearts of Qi's father and mother dissipate.
At that moment, I realized that something was wrong with me.
Now the mood is decided to change, although they don't mind getting along with their children like this, but the child's mental health problems seem to be very serious, if you don't pay attention, what if you are the protagonist of those cases like Dr. Li said?
That's all a tragic and embarrassing ending.
However, in line with the principle of a slap that does not make a sound, they feel that the child actually has a problem.
Then Meng Li was guided by Teacher Li.
Meng Li was very helpless, but for the sake of Qi's mother and father's cooperation, she could only accept it.
After all, it is undeniable that there are some problems with the delegator to a greater or lesser extent.
I don't know if the client has seen this scene now, and I don't know if the client can listen to Dr. Li's words.
talked a lot, and Meng Li was very cooperative.
Forcibly cooperate with yourself, try to think of yourself as a client, and feel the client's thoughts before speaking.
It was already two o'clock in the afternoon when Dr. Li came out, and everyone was still empty.
The three of them walked together, Qi's father walked in the front, Qi's mother was in the middle, Meng Li was hanging at the end, the distance between the three people was very awkward, not intimate at all, and the atmosphere was even more embarrassing.
Meng Li was not embarrassed, but Qi's father and Qi's mother looked embarrassed and awkward.
After all, it is necessary to break the inherent mode of getting along, which undoubtedly requires more attention.
You have to make things natural.
When she arrived at the car, Qi's father was driving, Qi's mother originally opened the co-pilot's door, and when she saw Meng Li drilling into the back seat, she closed the co-pilot's door again and sat in the back seat with Meng Li.
Meng Li felt that Qi Ma was uncomfortable.
She didn't speak, Qi's father started the car and asked:
"Where to go?"
Mother Qi wanted to say go home, but the words came back from her mouth, she pretended to be kind but actually quite awkward and asked Meng Li:
"Happy, where do you want to go?"
Meng Li's immature voice sounded:
"Listen to Mommy."
Mother Qi embarrassedly parted the broken hair in her ears, and she said:
"Then our family of three went out to dinner?"
Qi Dad said:
"I'll see it."
"What do you want to eat?" Mother Qi asked Meng Li in a gentle tone as much as possible.
Meng Li sighed in his heart, in fact, such caution may not last for a few days, because it will really be very tiring.
It is easy to be beaten back to the original form, and the inherent personality of a person is difficult to change through a single conversation with a psychiatrist.
But the good news is that the client's parents are willing to change for the sake of the client, and they are not all indifferent.
Since there are today's changes, Meng Li will not resist.
She moved her body, squeezed towards Qi's mother's side, naturally held Qi's mother's arm, and said:
"I want to eat steak."
Mother Qi's body tensed, but she didn't let go of Meng Li's arm, she said:
"That's fine."
"Mom, can I skip the make-up class today?" Meng Li looked at Mother Qi with burning eyes.
"At this point now, it's too late to eat."
Mother Qi suddenly felt a little angry in her heart, and this kid kicked her nose in the face.
"Okay, let's take a vacation." Dad Qi spoke.
Qi Ma suppressed the anger in her heart, pulled out an embarrassed smile at Meng Li, and reached out to touch Meng Li's head, Meng Li rubbed her head on Qi Ma's arm a few times, and it was good to be coquettish.
Meng Li didn't mind using it more.
Mother Qi suddenly had a strange feeling.
All in all, it's not bad.