Chapter 1565: Hating Iron Doesn't Make Steel
The second room of the Gu family is here.
Back to the second room, the whole family was a little more relaxed.
The mother and daughter sat down in groups, and the people below brought tea and snacks, and they all retreated very interestingly, leaving space for their mother and daughter to talk privately.
As soon as the next person left, Gu Zimei pulled the whole family to complain: "Mother, have you seen it, I'm right, Wang Yongzhu is the best at pleasing and selling well." She will coax people with one mouth, and make her grandmother and aunt happy, I don't know how much benefit she got from her grandmother and aunt! ”
"Grandmother and aunt are also partial, and they are better for her, a member of the Wang family, than for our Gu family!"
The whole family also nodded, the youngest daughter complained that Wang Yongzhu was a cousin, but she was more faceless than the serious girls of their Gu family, and when the old lady saw her, she didn't have these granddaughters in her eyes.
She was still a little unconvinced.
I've seen it today, so I know it.
This cousin looks a little similar to the old lady, and her mouth can talk and laugh like honey, so it's no wonder that the old lady loves her.
The ancestors of the whole family also used to be officials, but the descendants of the descendants were mediocre, and most of them could only be admitted to show talents and raise people, and could not go closer.
In the generation of the whole family, the people withered, and the two brothers and sisters of the whole family were left to depend on each other.
Quan's elder brother is quite good, and he was accepted as a disciple by Gu Changji's mentor, the two are about the same age, have similar temperaments, and are quite deed.
Because of this, Gu Chang had also met the Quan family a few times.
Later, because of an accident, Quan's brother didn't hide from it, and before he died, the only one who couldn't let go was Quan's sister.
Gu Chang was by the side of Brother Quan's at that time, and when he saw that his friend was still thinking about his only sister before he died, he couldn't bear it, so he took Brother Quan's hand and said that he was willing to take care of his sister for the rest of his life.
Brother Quan closed his eyes at this time.
The Gu family did not agree to this marriage at that time, and when it came to the words of the parents of the children's marriage, where was it so arbitrary?
Second, the old lady of the Gu family had already given Gu Chang another look for relatives at that time, and she was seven or eight points accurate.
This hula bar, tell her that her second daughter-in-law is decided, and she is still a girl from a small family, with both parents and brothers dead.
No one can say yes, right?
If you really want to take care of your friend's sister, even if you take in the righteous daughter of the Gu family, find a good family for her in the future, and then accompany a dowry, which is also worthwhile.
Why do you have to pay for yourself for the rest of your life?
But Gu Chang is a gentleman who keeps his promises, and only says that since he has agreed, he will never go back.
Because of this, the old lady of the Gu family was not less angry with this second child.
Later, Gu Changqing chatted with Gu Chang's brother, and Gu Chang said that the reason why he agreed to marry Quan's brother was to appease his friend.
Second, he really looked at the little girl pitifully, and he had seen this Quan several times, and he was shy. If you marry home, it must be a peace of mind.
He has experienced the turmoil of the old man of the Gu family back then, and he is not sensitive to the noble ladies of the high family, but he only feels that they have too many eyes, and it is better to find a simple person from a small family, not tired.
Moreover, he was the second son, and everything in the Gu family was supported by his eldest brother and sister-in-law, but his wife didn't have so many requirements.
It was Gu Changqing who conveyed Gu Changji's words to Mrs. Gu.
What else can Old Madam Gu say? What happened back then was not only a wound that she could never heal, but also had an impact on several children.
I had to scold the old man of the Gu family in the house for three days before I reluctantly agreed.
However, the whole family wants to keep filial piety, and the old lady of the Gu family originally wanted to send a grandmother to take care of her, but she also wanted to train the whole family.
Even if the second child does not inherit the Gu family's business, he will always have to set up a single household in the future, and this is the least to learn to usher in, right?
Unexpectedly, an aunt in the family who married far away came back, and her widow was unemployed, had no children or daughters, and had nowhere to go, so she could only go back to her parents' home.
I heard that she was also married to an official eunuch back then, and volunteered to say that the girls of the whole family would teach by themselves.
The old lady of the Gu family is not good to interfere anymore.
Three years later, I got married, but I didn't find out at first.
After two or three months, I found out that this little girl, who was still shy in nature, was taught by this aunt to be pedantic, old-fashioned, sensitive, and a little unkind.
The old lady of the Gu family almost fainted.
But this man has already been married, and there is no reason for him to go out.
I had to pinch my nose and admit it, and I still thought of a way to correct the whole family.
But the character has become a shape, where can it be corrected?
After working hard with the old nose, he could only make the whole family unable to say some amazing words.
Fortunately, although Quan's temperament is not good, her nature is not bad, which is why the Gu family can tolerate her.
Moreover, not to mention anything else, suppleness is indeed the first, and it is really the husband as the sky.
Gu Chang said whatever he wanted, she knew that if it weren't for Gu Chang Ji, after her brother went, she would be an orphan girl, God knows where she would fall.
Gu Chang also knew Quan's shortcomings after getting married, but after all, he was his own wife, he was a very responsible person, and he was not disgusted by these problems of the Quan.
Instead, he tried to teach the whole family some truths when no one was around.
The whole family has also slowly changed, and it is not rude to look outside anyway.
Later, after giving birth to a child, Gu Chang took the initiative to put the child in the front yard after the child was three years old and grew up with his brother's child, quietly separating the influence of the whole family on the child.
Later, he was appointed abroad one after another, and gave birth to a child outside, and he was raised until he was two or three years old, so he was sent back to the capital directly and taught by the eldest lady of the Gu family.
Only the youngest daughter, Gu Zimei, when she was born, in the capital, Gu Chang was soft-hearted for a while, and let the whole family take it for a few more years, but some of them were twisted in temperament.
It was also Gu Chang that found that the spearhead was wrong, and it was difficult to say it clearly, so he simply applied for release again, directly took the whole family out, and left the child to the eldest lady of the Gu family to take care of and teach, hoping to teach.
Looking at Gu Zimei a few years ago, I thought that she had been taught, but I realized that she really followed the whole family.
Gu Zirou and Gu Zitang listened to the little sister's words, and saw that the whole family was still nodding, and they really couldn't wait to step forward and shake out the water that their own mother had poured into her head for so many years.
Gu Zirou is the eldest daughter, sighed, and first glared at Gu Zimei: "What nonsense?" I was rude in front of my ancestors before, and I haven't said anything about you yet! Where have you learned all these rules? In front of so many people, do such a ** thing, and you are not afraid of people's jokes? ”
"Don't say anything else, firstly, my cousin is a guest, secondly, my grandmother is happy, and today is the New Year's Day, and the whole house is looking up and down, even if you don't let it. Why don't you just make a fool of your cousin? When the time comes, I'm afraid that it will be you who will make a fool of yourself! ”
"You're not young anymore, you're going to see someone else in two years, reputation is especially important, why are you still so childish?"
I really hate iron and don't make steel.