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The reason why Wu Xunsheng is so worried is because the Tiecang tribesmen have a custom - after getting married, if they do not officially recognize each other's parents as "fathers" and "mothers", the two people who are married must not live in each other's parents' homes and live with each other's parents.

In the Tiecang tribe, if you live in the house of the other parent and live with the other parent without recognizing each other's parents as "married father" or "mother" after getting married, it will be regarded as a serious disturbance to the other parent's private space, it will be regarded as an invasion of the other parent's normal life, and it will be regarded as extremely disrespectful or even insulting to the other parent.

In the Tiecang tribe, most of the parents whose children have already married themselves can't accept their children's spouses living with them, and most of them can't stand letting a stranger invade their own small space because their children are married.

In the Tiecang clan, if one of the married parents returns to live in his or her parents' home for a period of time, the married child will be temporarily separated from his or her spouse while living in his or her parents' home.

Of course, there are also a very small number of parents who do not mind their children's spouses living with them in their own small homes, if at this time, their children's spouses also like to live with them in their own homes, that is to say, everyone is willing, then their children's spouses must first hold a ceremony to recognize themselves as "fathers" or "mothers". After the confession, even if the spouse of the child lives in his own home and lives with him, it will not be seen as an invasion of his own small family.

At this time, hearing Wu Xunsheng ask this, Tie Hongyan asked with a smile: "Are you very resistant to worshiping my father as a 'father'?" ”

Wu Xunsheng didn't have time to think about it, so he immediately nodded in succession. However, after nodding his head a few times, he didn't want Tie Hongyan to think that he was dissatisfied with Tie Wandao, so he hurriedly said to Tie Hongyan: "Let me make an analogy, let's not talk about recognizing 'father' and 'mother' first. If you are an ordinary person, if in the tribe where you live, as long as you marry a person, according to the customs of that tribe, the other person's parents are designated as your parents, and you don't even have the choice to let them be your parents, it is compulsory, will you feel uncomfortable in this situation? ”

Tie Hongyan smiled: "Do you still need to ask?" Can't choose, of course it's uncomfortable! How can you forcibly appoint parents like this? My parents are the ones who gave birth to me, even if I haven't done both, at least, I will be one of the two things that gave birth to me or raised me, how can the identity of my parents be forcibly designated? If I marry someone whose parents have neither given birth to me nor raised me, would it be ridiculous to forcibly designate the other person's parents as my parents, and I have no choice between consent? You said that I would not talk about the matter of acknowledging 'father' and 'mother', but I still want to say that unless I have any special friendship with the other party's parents, and I am willing to recognize the other party's parents as 'father' and 'mother' when I have a choice and am not forced, otherwise, forcibly appointing my parents just because I am a relative is purely a joke in my opinion, and it is still an offensive joke. ”