Chapter 1181: Hope
Embark on the journey home, return to the heart like an arrow.
After speeding all the way to Tangcheng, driving into the community and parking the car, Zhang Xiaobai took a deep breath.
It's a familiar taste.
Standing downstairs, Zhang Xiaobai looked upstairs, every house was lit up, and his friends were all at home.
Fixing his gaze on his home, Zhang Xiaobai smiled and strode upstairs.
When I opened the door, I saw a familiar face.
Xiao Suxin was already leaving, hesitated for a moment, shook his little arms and ran to Zhang Xiaobai, who had already opened his arms, and plunged into his father's arms.
Zhang Xiaobai lifted it high, threw it upward, and fell Xiao Suxin giggled.
The mother-in-law said worriedly, "You fell the child again?" ”
Su Tong smiled: "It's okay, it's his own son." ”
After a long time, Zhang Xiaobai began to give gifts, and every time he came back, he had to bring good things to his daughter-in-law, and of course, his mother-in-law and son were indispensable.
Su Tong cooked the meal himself, and he had already cooked the meal, but Zhang Xiaobai made another dish.
If you say that you want to go home and cook for your son, you have to do what you say.
Xiao Suxin sat on the child seat, holding a small spoon to eat by herself, it was not easy for such a young child to eat by himself.
Regarding the cultivation and education of children, Zhang Xiaobai once had a good chat with Su Tong.
The philosophies of the two men are very different.
Zhang Xiaobai said that he should let his son grow up freely and unrestrained, and let it be natural to have some self-reliance and academic performance, etc., and the most important thing is to pay more attention to the level of moral character.
Su Tong is different, he believes in the theory of natural selection, the social environment is also a kind of nature, pay attention to the survival of the fittest, it is not easy to live in the world, and it is necessary to let children develop good habits and cultivate some abilities from an early age.
Su Tong and take Zhang Xiaobai as an example, if Xiaobai hadn't grown up in this environment and cultivated the ability to be self-reliant and survive since he was a child, he would never be so good.
Facts have proved that Zhang Xiaobai always falls behind in debates, especially when facing a woman with a clever tongue, he has never won.
Zhang Xiaobai could only accept it in the end.
I can't care if I want to, I have been at home for a few days, and my son has been by my daughter-in-law's side, and my daughter-in-law has the final say on how to discipline him.
In fact, Zhang Xiaobai is distressed about his son.
Seeing that Xiao Suxin ate so well now, Zhang Xiaobai was very pleased, and raised his thumb and smiled: "My son is awesome!" ”
Su Tong pursed his lips and said, "That's what I taught well." ”
Zhang Xiaobai turned his thumb to Su Tong, "It's all my daughter-in-law's credit!" ”
The mother-in-law asked, "Did your father say when he would come?" ”
Zhang Xiaobai said truthfully: "My dad said that he would only come back at the end of the year, and I am not at ease at his old man's house!" ”
The mother-in-law sighed and did not continue to say anything.
Zhang Xiaobai and Su Tong can see that the old lady is distressed by her own wife.
People who have lived to this age, the old couple are always unforgiving in their mouths, and they hurt people in their hearts.
Zhang Xiaobai said: "Mom, our base camp will be built next year, my dad said that he will live in Tangcheng in the future, and my two uncles also said that they have to come along." ”
The mother-in-law was suddenly happy and said with a smile: "The Su family is here, it's lively here!" ”
Tangcheng is Zhang Xiaobai's home, Su Tong's home, but not her mother-in-law's home, because her relatives are all in Jiangcheng.
The family is here, and this will become their home.
After eating, Zhang Xiaobai went to the kitchen to clean up, as long as he came back, these things would be his, and no one else could take them away.
After cleaning up, Zhang Xiaobai played with the child, just after playing for a while, Su Tong took the child, although it was to play a game, but in fact, it was to let the child learn some knowledge.
Probably this is called edutainment.
Inadvertently, Xiao Suxin learned a lot and took a step forward than his peers.
Isn't society all like that?
People are constantly running, and if you want to get ahead, you have to keep running, surpassing your peers, and then surpassing your predecessors.
Zhang Xiaobai smiled: "Daughter-in-law, where did you learn this way?" ”
Su Tong said: "Reading books, surfing the Internet, as long as it is related to children's education, we have to pay attention to it." ”
Zhang Xiaobai said: "It seems that it is impossible for my son to become a talent!" ”
While Xiao Su was concentrating on playing the game, Su Tong looked at Zhang Xiaobai and said seriously: "Actually, I don't want our son to be so tired, and I don't want him to suffer what you have suffered in the future, but at the very least, he must have a skill when he grows up and be able to support himself!" ”
Zhang Xiaobai nodded and said, "That's right, after all, he has to go by himself in the future, and we can only try to create convenient conditions for him." ”
Zhang Xiaobai's current career is very successful, to be honest, even if he retires now, he can ensure that Xiao Suxin will be prosperous and rich for the rest of his life.
But who knows what the future holds?
The business field is changing rapidly, and if you are rich today, you may be ruined tomorrow.
So Zhang Xiaobai can only say as much as possible.
Zhang Xiaobai, who has suffered, knows best that family conditions are too important for children, which means a different starting point.
Some people are born on the top of the mountain, some are born in the middle of the mountain, some are born at the bottom of the mountain, and some people are ...... Born in a ravine.
This is the case with Zhang Xiaobai.
He knew best what it was like to climb a mountain from a ravine.
Zhang Xiaobai suddenly asked: "Daughter-in-law, what English do other children learn, painting, taekwondo or something, do our sons still learn?" ”
Su Tong had thought about this question a long time ago, and said with a smile: "Of course you have to learn, but you don't care too much, these things have to rely on talent, don't you have a saying, don't you know which cloud rains?" Our son doesn't know where he came from. ”
Zhang Xiaobai nodded muran, as if thinking about something, and then smiled: "I don't think taekwondo is necessary." ”
Su Tong asked, "What's wrong?" ”
Zhang Xiaobai said with a smile: "Our first brother and second brother are so good, and they still use their son to learn taekwondo?" ”
Su Tong smiled: "There is reason! Hurry up and find a brother and a second brother to chatter, this teacher and the two of them are decided! ”
Zhang Xiaobai thought of a certain scene in the future, and said with a smile: "In our base camp, the first brother and the second brother are boxing with a group of children, which is funny to think about." ”
Su Tong said: "Do you guess who among these children can fight the most?" ”
Zhang Xiaobai didn't think about it, and said: "Of course it's my son, don't say who his father is." ”
Su Tong pursed her lips and said, "Sister Jing is pregnant!" When the time comes, the first brother will give birth to a son, so these two fathers will fight first. ”
Zhang Xiaobai smiled bitterly: "Forget it, it's a big deal not to let our son provoke my brother's son!" ”
At this time, Xiao Suxin blinked a pair of big eyes and said, "Shhh ”
Zhang Xiaobai picked up his son and rushed to the bathroom, looking very embarrassed.
Seeing this kind of scene, Su Tong smiled and muttered, "How good it would be to live like this every day!" ”
Reunion, not only Zhang Xiaobai is looking forward to it, she is looking forward to it even more!